Disciple Talk with Brandon Werner

When Words Fall Short: How to Truly Comfort Someone in Hard Seasons

In this episode, we talk about what it looks like to walk with someone through a long, difficult season when you don’t know what to say. We explore the tension between wanting to help and not wanting to hurt, especially when it comes to sharing Scripture. If you’ve ever hesitated before sending a Bible verse or felt the pressure to “fix” someone’s pain, this conversation will help you think more clearly and respond more faithfully. The goal isn’t perfect words, it’s faithful presence, shaped by the Spirit and rooted in truth. 📖 Key Topics Covered ✔️ The difference between comforting someone and trying to fix them✔️ Why motives matter when responding to someone’s pain✔️ How misusing Scripture can unintentionally cause harm✔️ The role of the Holy Spirit in guiding what to say—or not say✔️ Why presence and empathy often matter more than perfect words✔️ How to use Scripture wisely, truthfully, and at the right time 💬 Discussion Questions 1. When someone shares something difficult, do you tend to fix it or sit with them? Why? 2. Have you ever received “helpful” advice or Scripture that didn’t feel helpful? What made it land that way? 3. How can you discern when to speak and when to stay quiet? 4. What does it look like to trust the Holy Spirit in conversations like these? 5. How can you grow in using Scripture with both truth and sensitivity? 📝 Life Application This week, when someone shares something hard, pause before responding—ask one thoughtful question or simply be present before offering any advice or Scripture. 🔗 Learn more about Together Church at togetherokc.church

Are You Working Too Much... or Too Little? The Truth About Sabbath Rest

In this episode, we talk about work, rest, laziness, overworking, and what the Bible actually teaches about Sabbath. So many people swing to one extreme or the other. Some struggle to slow down, while others use “rest” as an excuse to avoid the work God has called them to do. This conversation helps bring both sides into the light. We walk through what Scripture shows from creation to Jesus, and why Sabbath is not just about taking a day off. It is about dependence on God, trusting His design, and learning how to steward both our work and our rest for His glory. If you have ever felt burned out, restless, lazy, overcommitted, or confused about what biblical rest really looks like, this episode will help you think about it in a deeper and more practical way. 📖 Key Topics Covered✔️ Why work is a gift from God and not part of the curse✔️ The difference between godly rest and unhealthy avoidance✔️ How Sabbath shows our dependence on God✔️ What Jesus meant when He said He is Lord of the Sabbath✔️ Why real rest is more than scrolling, zoning out, or doing nothing✔️ How to discern whether your struggle is overworking or laziness 💬 Discussion Questions 1. Do you tend to struggle more with overworking or with avoiding work? Why? 2. How have you personally misunderstood rest or Sabbath in the past? 3. What does it look like for rest to become a declaration of dependence on God? 4. Are there habits in your life that feel like rest but actually leave you more drained? 5. What would it look like to steward both your work and your rest for the glory of God? 📝 Life Application This week, take time to honestly evaluate your relationship with work and rest. Ask God to show you whether you need to repent of overworking, laziness, or false rest, and choose one practical step that helps you align with His design. 🔗 Learn more about Together Church at togetherokc.church

The Spiritual Parent Every Christian Needs

In this episode, we talk about spiritual parents and the role they play in helping us grow as disciples of Jesus. Many of us can point to people who invested in our lives, encouraged us, and helped shape our faith. Those relationships matter deeply. But they are not the ultimate source of our growth. The spiritual parent we ultimately need is God Himself. When we understand this, it changes how we view discipleship, spiritual maturity, and even the struggles we face in our growth. Human mentors may plant and water, but it is God who brings the increase. And through His Spirit, He promises that we will never be left as spiritual orphans. 📖 Key Topics Covered * Why God is the spiritual parent every disciple ultimately needs * The role spiritual mentors play in our growth and formation * How the early church modeled relational discipleship * The danger of depending on people more than God * Why spiritual growth still requires community and discipleship relationships 💬 Discussion Questions 1. Who are some spiritual parents or mentors who have impacted your walk with Christ? 2. Why is it important to recognize that God is the true source of spiritual growth? 3. Have you ever struggled with depending too much on a person rather than God for spiritual guidance? 4. What opportunities for discipleship or spiritual community might God already be providing in your life? 5. How can you take a step toward deeper spiritual growth this week? 📝 Life Application Identify one way you can intentionally pursue spiritual growth this week. This could be seeking discipleship, investing in someone else, or spending focused time with God in His Word. 🔗 Learn more about Together Church at togetherokc.church #TogetherChurch #Discipleship #SpiritualGrowth

How God Used One Yes to Reach 133 Million Souls

In this episode, Ben and Linda Manis share their powerful story of how a single yes to God changed the entire direction of their lives. What began as a simple invitation to join a pastor training trip in Africa became a decades-long journey of faith and surrender that eventually grew into Reaching Souls International. [https://reachingsouls.org/] Today the ministry supports more than 3,000 national missionaries and has seen over 133 million salvations through the faithful work of evangelists around the world. Their story reminds us that God does extraordinary things through ordinary people who are willing to obey. 📖 Key Topics Covered ✔️ How one yes to God opened the door to a completely new calling✔️ The moment Ben realized God was stirring a childhood passion back to life✔️ Linda’s honest journey from fear to faith and how God addressed every concern✔️ What it looked like to leave a successful business to follow God’s leading✔️ How Reaching Souls International grew from a small vision to global impact✔️ Why obedience matters more than credentials or qualifications✔️ What it means to patiently produce a harvest in everyday life 💬 Discussion Questions 1. When have you seen God work in a way that surprised you or moved you deeply? 2. What fears make it hard for you to step into something God may be calling you to? 3. What is one area of your life that feels difficult to surrender? 4. Why do you think surrender matters more to God than natural ability? 5. Where is God inviting you to take a first step of faith? 6. How does seeing the long-term faithfulness of God in this story encourage you today? 7. Where do you see God already working around you and how can you join Him? 📝 Life Application ➡️ Identify one place this week where you sense God nudging you to step out in faith. Take one simple action toward that step. It might be having a conversation, starting something new, volunteering, or spending intentional time seeking God in prayer. Trust that God provides as you obey. 🔗 Learn more about Together Church at togetherokc.church

From Reluctant Giving to Radical Generosity

In this episode, we sit down with Greg and Kim Werner to hear how a near-fatal car accident in 2010 transformed their view of money and generosity. What began as sporadic, guilt-driven giving became joyful, conviction-driven stewardship as they experienced God’s provision through the local church. If you’ve ever wrestled with budgeting, fear, or “how will we pay the bills,” this conversation will help you move from scarcity to kingdom participation. 📖 Key Topics Covered ✔️ Guilt vs. conviction: why our giving motives matter ✔️ How crisis can become a classroom for trust in God’s provision ✔️ The power of collective giving through the church (Acts 2 and 4) ✔️ Shifting from “Can I afford it?” to “How can I be more generous?” ✔️ Budgeting as a discipleship tool that supports spiritual growth ✔️ Seeking first God’s kingdom and trusting Him to meet needs 💬 Discussion Questions 1. What’s the difference between giving from guilt and giving from conviction? 2. How did receiving generosity shape your view of giving? Share a time you received help. 3. How does asking “How can I pay the bills and be more generous?” change your budgeting? 4. Why does giving through the church multiply impact compared to only individual gifts? 5. What fear keeps you from seeking first God’s kingdom in your finances, and what step will you take this week? 📝 Life Application ➡️ This week, review your budget and add one intentional generosity step. Begin giving regularly, increase your current giving, or choose a tangible way to serve someone in need. Pray over this decision and talk it through with your spouse or an accountability partner. 🔗 Learn more about Together Church at togetherokc.church