Motherhood Unfiltered: What Being a Mom Is Actually Like w/ Shelby, Gina, and Janet (EP #61)
Rebel Rootz Show Episode #61 with Shelby Campbell, Gina Smits, and Janet Mordeci.
In this special Mother’s Day episode, Evonne Varady sits down with three women in different stages of motherhood. Shelby Campbell, Evonne’s oldest daughter, is an 11-week postpartum first-time mom. Gina Smits is a wife of nearly 31 years, mother of five, adoptive mom, and special needs mama. Janet Mordeci is preparing to welcome her first baby after a long infertility journey.
Together, they talk about what motherhood actually feels like beyond the flowers, cards, and picture-perfect moments. From mom guilt, self-care, breastfeeding, asking for help, infertility, adoption, special needs parenting, and letting go of perfection, this conversation is honest, funny, emotional, and deeply human.
This episode is a reminder that motherhood is messy, beautiful, exhausting, and full of seasons that go faster than you think.
Watch now and share this with a mom who deserves more grace today.
Timestamps:
[00:00] Trailer + Intro
[01:54] Meet Shelby, Gina, and Janet
[04:22] What Motherhood Means
[08:28] Too Many Opinions
[13:50] Motherhood Is Not Easy
[15:44] Asking For Help
[23:02] Every Stage Matters
[27:06] Eighteen Summers
[29:45] It’s Just A Phase
[31:04] Infertility and Marriage
[33:00] Things Change When It’s Your Own
[33:59] Dirty Dishes Can Wait
[35:19] Self-Care In Motherhood
[39:23] Mom Guilt
[42:46] Social Media and Motherhood
[45:40] ChatGPT Parenting
[46:46] Best Advice For Moms
[49:50] Have Fun With It
Key Takeaways:
• “There is no self-care. I’m lucky if I get a shower every day.” ~ Shelby Campbell
• “It’s so different when it’s your own. You just think everything’s cute.” ~ Shelby Campbell
• Let the little things go. The dishes, laundry, and dust can wait, but the baby moments do not come back. ~ Shelby Campbell
• “Mother’s Day gets wrapped up in flowers, cards, picture perfect moments, but that’s not the full story.” ~ Evonne Varady
• “I think it’s a love that nobody understands the strength of it until you are a mother.” ~ Gina Smits
• “Your kids will never love you as much as you love them.” ~ Gina Smits
• Give yourself grace. You cannot be perfect, and your kids need to see that too. ~ Gina Smits
• “You really only have 18 summers with them.” ~ Janet Mordeci
• Stick to your own truth and block out the noise. ~ Janet Mordeci
• “We forget about the fun, and those days go by super fast.” ~ Evonne Varady
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