THE REALITY OF

Episode Eight

How do we talk to our kids about porn?  Having conversations with kids about sex and porn isn’t easy. And as they get older it can get harder because they get more awkward. As parenting expert Maggie Dent says,  “I don't think anyone ever gets completely comfortable talking about sex with their kids. And if they are great, could you tell us how you do it?” Still, in almost every conversation we’ve had for this podcast, the solution has constantly been that as a society we need to get better at preparing our kids for sex, and for seeing adult content online. And we do this for good reason. “The reason that we might want to have conversations about pornography with our children is because we care about them, we love them, and we want their experiences of relationships and sex to be really positive,” Maree Crabbe, It’s Time We Talked. So what is the best approach? In this, the final episode of The Reality of, we find out how and when we should be talking with our kids about sex and porn. Episodes are released weekly on Wednesdays from 24th September (Episode One). Head to our website for transcripts and show notes - www.headlineproductions.net/originalpodcasts/therealityof [www.headlineproductions.net/originalpodcasts/therealityof] ---------------------------------------- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy [https://acast.com/privacy] for more information.

Episode Seven

What can we do in terms of regulation, censorship and self management to take control of what’s arriving on our screens? It’s too late to go back in time. Even if we wanted to, we couldn’t completely get rid of the online adult content landscape. But is there a middle ground? A number of countries around the world have experimented with age gating content. Has that worked? And what about on a personal level? What can we do to take control of what we receive online, and what our kids are seeing? Spend some time with eSafety Commissioner, Julie Inman Grant; Teach Us Consent founder, Chanel Contos; and Parenting Guru Maggie Dent while we get some answers. Episodes are released weekly on Wednesdays from 24th September (Episode One). Head to our website for transcripts and show notes - www.headlineproductions.net/originalpodcasts/therealityof [www.headlineproductions.net/originalpodcasts/therealityof] ---------------------------------------- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy [https://acast.com/privacy] for more information.

Episode Six

What can we learn about age verification, regulation, tech based abuse and deep fake technology from Korea? South Korea emerged from a brutal civil war to become one of the most technologically advanced countries in the world. They have brought KPop, KDrama, the 5G phone and nano printing pens to the world. They are also heavily regulated. We’ve heard a fair bit about the dangers of porn over the past five episodes.  So what about if we just outright ban it? What about if we impose blocks on all porn content and get rid of it? In this episode we check out what’s happened since South Korea tried to do just that. We also talk about and tech based sexual violence. 1800Respect.org.au is an online and phone service available to people who have experienced sexual assault in Australia. Episodes are released weekly on Wednesdays from 24th September (Episode One). Head to our website for transcripts and show notes - www.headlineproductions.net/originalpodcasts/therealityof [www.headlineproductions.net/originalpodcasts/therealityof] ---------------------------------------- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy [https://acast.com/privacy] for more information.

Episode Five

Is there such a thing as porn addiction? When is porn too much, what does it look like, and how can it be overcome? Porn is everywhere - on your phone, your computer, your gaming console. So does that mean we’re more likely to have a problem with porn than we did in the past? And if so how can we get away from something that exists wherever we are? Some researchers question whether porn addiction exists because the manual Australian psychologists use for diagnosis, the DSM 5, doesn’t include pornography addiction. The World Health Organisation's diagnostic manual, the ICD-11, does list compulsive sexual behaviour disorder as a diagnosis and some practitioners place porn addiction under that. So is it a thing or not? It seems like that’s still up for debate. Either way, there is agreement that there is problematic porn use, and that is a growing issue. What does it look like, and what can we do about it? Episodes are released weekly on Wednesdays from 24th September (Episode One). Head to our website for transcripts and show notes - www.headlineproductions.net/originalpodcasts/therealityof [www.headlineproductions.net/originalpodcasts/therealityof] ---------------------------------------- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy [https://acast.com/privacy] for more information.

Episode Four

Is porn changing the way we have sex, and how we relate to each other? In our last episode we learnt that our fantasies can be inspired and deepened by porn. That porn doesn’t make us into someone else, but it can strengthen parts of us. What about when it comes to our actions? Is what we see in porn feeding into our actual sex lives? Is it changing what we do with each other? Is it leading to higher rates of sexual assault? Is it encouraging men to treat women differently? Is it making women change how they behave, or how they view their own bodies? Like everything else, there are a range of views on this.  Also just a heads up that this episode includes discussions about sexual assault and family and domestic violence. 1800 Respect is an online and phone service available for support if you need to talk about these issues. https://1800respect.org.au/ [https://1800respect.org.au/]  We also talk about issues around body dysmorphia and eating disorders. On this you’re best to go to The Butterfly Foundation https://butterfly.org.au/ [https://butterfly.org.au/] Episodes are released weekly on Wednesdays from 24th September (Episode One). Head to our website for transcripts and show notes - www.headlineproductions.net/originalpodcasts/therealityof [www.headlineproductions.net/originalpodcasts/therealityof] ---------------------------------------- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy [https://acast.com/privacy] for more information.