The Soft Life w/ Chrystal & Megan

When Your Job is Your Identity, “Personality Hires”, and Finding Joy at Work w/ Author Bree Groff

Please support us at ko-fi.com/softlifenyc [http://ko-fi.com/softlifenyc].  Do you have a “work self” and a “normal self”? Writer and workplace consultant Bree Groff joins Chrystal and Megan to discuss how to navigate—and relate to—work so that you feel authentic and joyous doing it. Enjoy your finite days, she says: “If we’re wishing away the workweek, we’re wishing away our lives.” Bree Groff is the author of “Today Was Fun [https://www.breegroff.com/book]”, a book that proves that work can be different—and that neon smiley faces do, in fact, belong on the cover of business books. In it, her seven rules for creating more fulfilling days at work and in daily life. Listen in for Groff’s brilliant, realistically optimistic advice on how shifting your perspective at work directly impacts how abundant your life can really feel.  The Soft Life is hosted and executive produced by Megan O'Neill and Chrystal Genesis. Filming by Connor Kwiecien and editing by Rob Ashkinos. Tess Novotny is our producer. Music by 4S Studios. Don’t forget to review and subscribe on all podcasting apps, YouTube [https://www.youtube.com/@TheSoftLifenyc], and find us on Substack [https://substack.com/@thesoftlifenyc], Instagram @softlifeNYC [http://The Soft Life is hosted and executive produced by Megan O'Neill and Chrystal Genesis. Filming by Kirk Enbysk and editing by Rob Ashkinos, with support from Tess Novotny. Music by 4S Studios. Don’t forget to review and subscribe on all podcasting apps, youtube, and find us on Substack and on Instagram @softlifenyc.], and TikTok [https://www.tiktok.com/@softlifenyc?_t=ZP-8yEGYyeArL4&_r=1].  When two NYC girlfriends get laid off, they opt for a less-corporate, more-human existence that  prioritizes family, friends, love, and good-time conversation. But how do they work their way into The Soft Life? Join London-born Chrystal and native New Yorker, Megan, as they talk about self-expression, mom-hood, style game, having fun, cultural obsessions, sexual liberation, great skin and hair strategies, and more of the stuff that makes this one life feel so abundant.  This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit thesoftlifenyc.substack.com [https://thesoftlifenyc.substack.com?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_1]

LICEGATE! Medicinal Massages, Age Gaps, Night Club Withdrawal, and I’M PREGNANT!

Please support us at ko-fi.com/softlifenyc [http://ko-fi.com/softlifenyc]. We’ve got lice and we’re pregnant, all while prepping holiday trifles and fruitcake! Megan gets initiated into the lice club and confronts discrimination in treatment. Chrystal tackles America’s bleak parental leave and shares her plan to survive it. We unpack our favorite medicinal massages, big sibling age gaps, and mourn the dance floor. The Soft Life is hosted and executive produced by Megan O’Neill and Chrystal Genesis. Filming by Connor Kwiecien and editing by Rob Ashkinos. Tess Novotny is our producer. Music by 4S Studios. Don’t forget to review and subscribe on all podcasting apps, YouTube [https://www.youtube.com/@TheSoftLifenyc], and find us on Substack [https://substack.com/@thesoftlifenyc], Instagram @softlifeNYC [http://The Soft Life is hosted and executive produced by Megan O'Neill and Chrystal Genesis. Filming by Kirk Enbysk and editing by Rob Ashkinos, with support from Tess Novotny. Music by 4S Studios. Don’t forget to review and subscribe on all podcasting apps, youtube, and find us on Substack and on Instagram @softlifenyc.], and TikTok [https://www.tiktok.com/@softlifenyc?_t=ZP-8yEGYyeArL4&_r=1]. When two NYC girlfriends get laid off, they opt for a less-corporate, more-human existence that prioritizes family, friends, love, and good-time conversation. But how do they work their way into The Soft Life? Join London-born Chrystal and native New Yorker, Megan, as they talk about self-expression, mom-hood, style game, having fun, cultural obsessions, sexual liberation, great skin and hair strategies, and more of the stuff that makes this one life feel so abundant. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit thesoftlifenyc.substack.com [https://thesoftlifenyc.substack.com?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_1]

WTF are Exosomes?!, K-Beauty Buzz and Easy Skincare Secrets w/ Dermatologist Dr. Mamina Turegano

Please support us at ko-fi.com/softlifenyc [http://ko-fi.com/softlifenyc]. Chrystal and Megan catch up with Dr. Mamina Turegano, the dewy queen of dermatology, for some of her best glow secrets. Is Korean Beauty really magic? Do products or lifestyle matter more for radiant skin? And why is everyone talking about exosomes? We discover drug store holy grails and the skincare trends that Dr. Turegano hopes will fall out of favor fast. Mamina Turegano, MD, is a triple board-certified dermatologist, internist, and dermatopathologist in New Orleans. She co-hosts the podcast Skin Deep MDs. The Soft Life is hosted and executive produced by Megan O’Neill and Chrystal Genesis. Filming by Connor Kwiecien and editing by Rob Ashkinos. Tess Novotny is our producer. Music by 4S Studios. Don’t forget to review and subscribe on all podcasting apps, YouTube [https://www.youtube.com/@TheSoftLifenyc], and find us on Substack [https://substack.com/@thesoftlifenyc], Instagram @softlifeNYC [http://The Soft Life is hosted and executive produced by Megan O'Neill and Chrystal Genesis. Filming by Kirk Enbysk and editing by Rob Ashkinos, with support from Tess Novotny. Music by 4S Studios. Don’t forget to review and subscribe on all podcasting apps, youtube, and find us on Substack and on Instagram @softlifenyc.], and TikTok [https://www.tiktok.com/@softlifenyc?_t=ZP-8yEGYyeArL4&_r=1]. When two NYC girlfriends get laid off, they opt for a less-corporate, more-human existence that prioritizes family, friends, love, and good-time conversation. But how do they work their way into The Soft Life? Join London-born Chrystal and native New Yorker, Megan, as they talk about self-expression, mom-hood, style game, having fun, cultural obsessions, sexual liberation, great skin and hair strategies, and more of the stuff that makes this one life feel so abundant. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit thesoftlifenyc.substack.com [https://thesoftlifenyc.substack.com?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_1]

Dating App Vibes, the Work vs. a Job, and Are You Messy or Clean?!

Please support us at ko-fi.com/softlifenyc [http://ko-fi.com/softlifenyc]. Chrystal and Megan air their domestic dirty laundry (outside clothes in bed?!) and swear off doomscrolling for love on the loo. Chrystal’s loyal to niche dating apps, while Megan welcomes the weirdos on broad ones. They also talk freelance boundaries and how to master the mysterious art of closing your damn laptop. The Soft Life is hosted and executive produced by Megan O’Neill and Chrystal Genesis. Filming by Connor Kwiecien and editing by Rob Ashkinos. Tess Novotny is our producer. Music by 4S Studios. Don’t forget to review and subscribe on all podcasting apps, YouTube [https://www.youtube.com/@TheSoftLifenyc], and find us on Substack [https://substack.com/@thesoftlifenyc], Instagram @softlifeNYC [http://The Soft Life is hosted and executive produced by Megan O'Neill and Chrystal Genesis. Filming by Kirk Enbysk and editing by Rob Ashkinos, with support from Tess Novotny. Music by 4S Studios. Don’t forget to review and subscribe on all podcasting apps, youtube, and find us on Substack and on Instagram @softlifenyc.], and TikTok [https://www.tiktok.com/@softlifenyc?_t=ZP-8yEGYyeArL4&_r=1]. When two NYC girlfriends get laid off, they opt for a less-corporate, more-human existence that prioritizes family, friends, love, and good-time conversation. But how do they work their way into The Soft Life? Join London-born Chrystal and native New Yorker, Megan, as they talk about self-expression, mom-hood, style game, having fun, cultural obsessions, sexual liberation, great skin and hair strategies, and more of the stuff that makes this one life feel so abundant. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit thesoftlifenyc.substack.com [https://thesoftlifenyc.substack.com?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_1]

Sexy Gray Hair, London vs. NYC, Racist (or Not) Bingo, Oh and I’M ENGAGED!

Please support us at ko-fi.com/softlifenyc [http://ko-fi.com/softlifenyc]. When a white lady gatekeeps the acupuncturist’s door and airport security searches you twice — is it racist?! Chrystal and Megan unpack triggers vs. reality. Chrystal debuts her unsettling American accent and pits NYC culture and lingo against London’s. Megan’s mom becomes a silver-haired sex symbol and we philosophize: is gray hair resistance, or just hot? The Soft Life is hosted and executive produced by Megan O’Neill and Chrystal Genesis. Filming by Connor Kwiecien and editing by Rob Ashkinos. Tess Novotny is our producer. Music by 4S Studios. Don’t forget to review and subscribe on all podcasting apps, YouTube [https://www.youtube.com/@TheSoftLifenyc], and find us on Substack [https://substack.com/@thesoftlifenyc], Instagram @softlifeNYC [http://The Soft Life is hosted and executive produced by Megan O'Neill and Chrystal Genesis. Filming by Kirk Enbysk and editing by Rob Ashkinos, with support from Tess Novotny. Music by 4S Studios. Don’t forget to review and subscribe on all podcasting apps, youtube, and find us on Substack and on Instagram @softlifenyc.], and TikTok [https://www.tiktok.com/@softlifenyc?_t=ZP-8yEGYyeArL4&_r=1]. When two NYC girlfriends get laid off, they opt for a less-corporate, more-human existence that prioritizes family, friends, love, and good-time conversation. But how do they work their way into The Soft Life? Join London-born Chrystal and native New Yorker, Megan, as they talk about self-expression, mom-hood, style game, having fun, cultural obsessions, sexual liberation, great skin and hair strategies, and more of the stuff that makes this one life feel so abundant. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit thesoftlifenyc.substack.com [https://thesoftlifenyc.substack.com?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_1]