Wild Connection

Romantic Love and Friendship with Robin Dunbar

Valentine’s Day has come and gone, but we’re relentlessly reminded that romantic love ought to be the most important relationship in our lives. But in this conversation, evolutionary anthropologist Robin Dunbar, Emeritus Professor of Evolutionary Psychology at the University of Oxford, provides a more nuanced idea. We explore where humans sit evolutionarily between monogamy and polygamy, why pair bonding may have evolved as a protective strategy in large social groups, and why romance includes friendship and requires continued investment to remain stable. If we treat romantic partners as permanently secure family members we risk neglecting the very behaviors that sustain long-term bonds. If you want to explore more of Robin's work check out a few of these titles: Explore Robin Dunbar’s Work * Friends [https://www.littlebrown.co.uk/titles/robin-dunbar/friends/9781408711743/] * Grooming, Gossip and the Evolution of Language [https://www.hup.harvard.edu/books/9780674363366] * How Many Friends Does One Person Need? [https://global.oup.com/academic/product/how-many-friends-does-one-person-need-9780674025295] * The Social Brain [https://press.princeton.edu/books/paperback/9780691155682/the-social-brain] You can keep up with me on Instagram (@RealDrJen) and check out Wild Connection TV [https://www.youtube.com/@wildconnectiontv4022] on YouTube where I bring science to life. And check out my Substack for more writings.

On Living a Good Life with Massimo Pigliucci

How do we live well in a world we cannot control? In this episode of Wild Connection, I'm joined by Massimo Pigliucci, evolutionary biologist, philosopher, author, and one of today’s leading voices on modern Stoicism. We explore stoicism not as emotional detachment or passive acceptance, but as a practical philosophy designed to help people navigate uncertainty, loss, and moral complexity with clarity and intention. Drawing on ancient Stoic thinkers and contemporary life, Massimo explains the four cardinal virtues as tools for everyday decision-making.  Books by Massimo Pigliucci: * How to Be a Stoic * A Handbook for New Stoics (with Gregory Lopez) * Think Like a Stoic * Beyond Stoicism * Nonsense on Stilts Massimo’s Substack  [https://figsinwintertime.substack.com/?r=3r2y8z&utm_campaign=referrals-subscribe-page-share-screen&utm_medium=web] Next week, Wild Connection launches a special series on love and relationships, beginning with evolutionary anthropologist Robin Dunbar, whose work on friendship, bonding, and group size helps explain why connection is not optional, it’s biological. You can keep up with me on Instagram (@RealDrJen) and check out Wild Connection TV [https://www.youtube.com/@wildconnectiontv4022] on YouTube where I bring science to life. And check out my Substack for more writings.

Life Between the Stars with Dr. Ersilia Vaudo

What if the building blocks of life are not unique to Earth? In this episode of Wild Connection, I am joined by Dr. Ersilia Vaudo, astrophysicist who serves as Special Advisor on Future Talents at the European Space Agency and author of The Story of Astrophysics in Five Revolutions. Our conversation comes at a moment of renewed cosmic curiosity, following a recent discovery reported by CNN, Universe Today  and others on how scientists have identified a molecule critical to life drifting through interstellar space. We explore the five major revolutions that transformed how we understand the universe from Newton’s gravity and Einstein’s spacetime to dark matter, dark energy. And there are still unanswered questions that shape modern astrophysics. Along the way, Ersilia reflects on why curiosity, humility, and wonder remain essential tools for science, and how shifting our perspective beyond an Earth-centered view can deepen our sense of belonging in a vast, evolving cosmos. From the soil beneath our feet to the chemistry between the stars, this episode invites listeners to consider how deeply connected we are to the universe, not just as observers, but as participants made of the same ancient material. You can order a copy of Dr. Vaudo's book (and you should) here [https://wwnorton.com/books/9781324089278] and keep up with all things astrophysics here [https://www.esa.int/Enabling_Support/Preparing_for_the_Future/Space_for_Earth/Ersilia_Vaudo_Chief_Diversity_Officer_for_ESA].

Shelter and Storm: Finding Belonging in a Changing Landscape with Tamara Dean

In this episode of Wild Connection, Dr. Jennifer Verdolin speaks with author and essayist Tamara Dean [https://tamaradean.media], whose book Shelter and Storm: At Home in the Driftless explores what it means to live in relationship with a place. From the beauty and hardship of rural Wisconsin to the floods, fires, and tornadoes that test both landscape and spirit, Dean shares how community, storytelling, and attentive living can transform adversity into belonging. In this episode we reflect on the practice of slowing down, listening to the land, and learning from the species who share it with us. Our conversation also reveals how small acts like writing a neighbor’s story after a flood or watching fireflies are opportunities for connection and renewal. Keep up with Tamara Dean on Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/TamaraDeanAuthor/]  If Tamara’s reflections inspire you to deepen your own sense of place, explore my Reconnect with Nature [https://www.audible.com/pd/Reconnect-with-Nature-Lessons-from-the-Natural-World-Audiobook/B0DYW69VLS?qid=1760208874&sr=1-1&ref_pageloadid=not_applicable&pf_rd_p=83218cca-c308-412f-bfcf-90198b687a2f&pf_rd_r=59N3XYP5A2SFBAA0PSEJ&plink=g2EBI5qxF0Im6CXN&pageLoadId=ZgytBCEkKLGBzavR&creativeId=0d6f6720-f41c-457e-a42b-8c8dceb62f2c&ref=a_search_c3_lProduct_1_1] course on Audible and companion workbook Rooted in Nature [https://a.co/d/6VgjbmD], designed to help you rediscover your connection to the natural world. Next week, the journey continues with astrophysicist Ersilia Vaudo, taking us from the ground to the stars. You can keep up with me on Instagram (@RealDrJen) and check out Wild Connection TV [https://www.youtube.com/@wildconnectiontv4022] on YouTube where I bring science to life.

War, Wildlife, and the UN: Accountability and Peacekeeping with Dr. András Hárs

Conflict doesn’t stop at people. It also impacts forests, rivers, and species that share our world. In this conversation, Dr. Jen and Dr. András Hárs explore the UN’s complicated role in peacekeeping and environmental protection, weaving together personal stories, global politics, and the overlooked casualties of war: ecosystems and wildlife. From the Central African Republic’s endangered gorillas to the sustainability dilemmas of COP climate conferences, we talk about the tough issues: Who holds peacekeepers accountable when misconduct occurs? Can international law evolve to treat the environment as a victim of war? And what lessons should we carry forward to ensure peace is sustainable for humans and nature alike? Keep up with Dr. Hárs on LinkedIn [https://www.linkedin.com/in/andras-hars-43219079/] To learn more about the United Nations and the Sustainable Development Goals (SDGs), visit: @RealDrJen [https://www.instagram.com/jenniferverdolin] YouTube: Wild Connection TV [https://www.youtube.com/@wildconnectiontv4022] Want to support the show and our work at Wild Connection? Visit www.wildconnection.org to learn more and get involved.