conVersate After Dark

CVAD Episode 111: Can You Really Rebuild Trust After It's Broken?

Once trust is broken, can you ever really get it back? Mar B and Tay go deep on rebuilding trust, lying in relationships, what it means to be equally yoked, dating someone without a strong male role model, and whether asking your partner to cut off opposite-sex friends is controlling or just smart. Plus a would you or wouldn't you that gets real very fast. This is Conversate After Dark — no filter, all the way Black. 📧 Guest/Topic submissions: cvadthepodcast@gmail.com 🌐 www.conversateafterdark.com 🎧 Streaming everywhere 📺 Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/iOsxefcnWbM 📩 Want to be a guest or suggest topics? Email: cvadthepodcast@gmail.com 🌐 Visit: www.conversateafterdark.com 👍 Like, Comment, Subscribe & Share 00:00 — Intro + show open 01:00 — Icebreaker: Once trust is broken, can you get it back? 05:30 — "I used to lie and cheat" — Mar B's confession and accountability 09:00 — Small lies vs big lies: where does it start? 13:30 — Equally yoked: background, class, and who your family approves of 20:00 — Raised on love vs raised on survival 26:00 — Would you date someone with no strong male role model? 33:00 — Cutting off opposite-sex friends: controlling or valid? 41:00 — Men see things women don't and vice versa 46:00 — Would you or wouldn't you: skinny dipping + naturist lifestyle 51:00 — Outro + where to find CVAD #CVADPodcast #ConversateAfterDark#SocialMediaAndLove #healingjourney #GrownFolksTalk #BlackLoveConversations #LoveAndBoundaries #ModernRelationships

CVAD Episode 110: Self Love Mental Health, and Relationship Boundaries

Masturbation, Mental Health, and Relationship Boundaries: The Conversation Nobody Wants to Have 📧 Guest/Topic submissions: cvadthepodcast@gmail.com 🌐 www.conversateafterdark.com 🎧 Streaming everywhere 📺 Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/T1c97Yg8cCA 📩 Want to be a guest or suggest topics? Email: cvadthepodcast@gmail.com 🌐 Visit: www.conversateafterdark.com 👍 Like, Comment, Subscribe & Share 00:00 Cold Open 00:30 Show Intro and Where to Find Us 01:45 Icebreaker: Bedroom Names and Alter Egos 07:00 Facebook Jail, Alternate Pages, and May Awareness Months 13:30 The History of Shame Around Self-Pleasure and the Gender Double Standard 22:00 Toys, Preferences, Desensitization, and When Solo Pleasure Becomes a Relationship Problem 31:30 The Amazon Package That Went to Grandma Twice and Our Most Embarrassing Caught Stories 38:00 Mental Health Awareness Month: Can You Date Someone Who Refuses to Get Help 45:00 Marv Opens Up About Depression and Suicidal Ideation 51:30 Male Role Models, How They Shape Relationship Behavior, and Mentoring Young Men 55:30 Final Thoughts and Show Close 57:20 End #CVADPodcast #ConversateAfterDark#SocialMediaAndLove #healingjourney #GrownFolksTalk #BlackLoveConversations #LoveAndBoundaries #ModernRelationships #mentalhealth #mentalhealthawareness #selflove

CVAD Episode 109: Sex Tapes,Cheating Celebs Bedroom Communication: What Couples REALLY Won't Say

What would you do if your sex tape leaked online? Marv and Tay go there — and don't stop there. This episode covers Ray J's wild claims, Klay Thompson fumbling Megan Thee Stallion, Tory Lanez, and the real reason couples stay silent about what they want in the bedroom. Are you a pleaser or a controller? Can two pleasers actually work? Plus, would you date someone who refuses to meet your people after 6 months? CVAD brings the real conversations nobody else is having. Subscribe and tell a friend. 📧 Guest/Topic submissions: cvadthepodcast@gmail.com 🌐 www.conversateafterdark.com 🎧 Streaming everywhere 📺 Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/nLFHdsyjlV0 📩 Want to be a guest or suggest topics? Email: cvadthepodcast@gmail.com 🌐 Visit: www.conversateafterdark.com 👍 Like, Comment, Subscribe & Share 0:29 Intro & Where to Find Us 1:45 Icebreaker: Your Sex Tape Just Leaked — Now What? 13:30 Ray J Claims 12,500 Partners — Do We Believe Him? 23:50 Klay Thompson Fumbled Megan Thee Stallion 32:20 Tory Lanez, Accountability & Why People Still Hate Meg 41:10 Do Couples Actually Talk About What They Want in Bed? 50:30 What Happens When Two Pleasers Collide 59:45 Would You Date Someone Who Won't Meet Your People After 6 Months? 1:11:00 Introducing Partners to Family — Where's the Line? 1:18:45 Final Thoughts & Outro #CVADPodcast #ConversateAfterDark#SocialMediaAndLove #healingjourney #GrownFolksTalk #BlackLoveConversations #LoveAndBoundaries #ModernRelationships #meganthestallion #klaythompson #rayj

CVAD Episode 108: Is Porn Ruining Your Relationship?

In this episode of Conversate After Dark, we dive into real conversations about relationships, intimacy, and boundaries. We break down: • How important alone time is in relationships • Clingy vs independent partners • Does porn negatively impact intimacy? • Can good sex actually save a bad relationship? • Revenge sex, toxic habits, and relationship truths This episode gets honest, funny, and real about modern dating and connection. 🎧 Streaming everywhere 📺 Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/ZtgjcPI3bqw 📩 Want to be a guest or suggest topics? Email: cvadthepodcast@gmail.com 🌐 Visit: www.conversateafterdark.com 👍 Like, Comment, Subscribe & Share 0:00 Intro + where to find the show 0:38 Icebreaker: how important is alone time in a relationship 3:30 Clingy vs independent partners 4:03 Nonchalant partners and getting too used to being single 12:12 “Nothing is worse than being touched when you don’t want to be touched” 13:20 Does porn mess up intimacy in relationships? 14:27 Porn and unrealistic expectations 16:26 Can porn desensitize you sexually? 21:18 What if your partner’s porn preference is the opposite of you? 22:37 Race preferences and dating outside your race 28:16 Black men and Black women discussion 28:49 Can good sex save a struggling relationship? 32:19 Can you have sex while still mad at your partner? 36:23 Would you ever have revenge sex? 43:30 Friends, loyalty, and crossing relationship lines 50:17 Outro #CVADPodcast #ConversateAfterDark#SocialMediaAndLove #healingjourney #GrownFolksTalk #BlackLoveConversations #LoveAndBoundaries #ModernRelationships #RealTalkOnly

CVAD Episode 107: Sometimes You Just Want To Sleep In The Car

On this episode Tay and Marv talk about the viral clip of the man sleeping his car to avoid his wife, and can you be with someone who does not think sex is important.  Grown folks talk. No fluff. Just real convo. Tune in and tell us what you think. It’s the real talk you need before you hit “post.” No fluff, no mess — just grown conversation. 🎧 Streaming everywhere 📺 Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/RPqwmg_vLC8 📌 Link in bio 💬 Got thoughts? DM us or email cvadthepodcast@gmail.com #CVADPodcast #ConversateAfterDark#SocialMediaAndLove #healingjourney #GrownFolksTalk #BlackLoveConversations #LoveAndBoundaries #ModernRelationships #RealTalkOnly