Mind Your Lens: The NLP Experience

Relationships as Mirrors with Mario Silot and Anastassia Lover

Relationships as Mirrors: What Love Is Teaching You About Yourself For tickets to The Mindful Lover CLICK HERE  [https://themindfullover.com/?utm_source=ig&utm_medium=social&utm_content=link_in_bio&fbclid=PAZnRzaAPw-iNleHRuA2FlbQIxMQBzcnRjBmFwcF9pZA8xMjQwMjQ1NzQyODc0MTQAAafdqYUct8Xw7qL_wuXF9KAH63Q-zw90jIoz1nhjrjN7TjhgBy573fb9pl_I9g_aem_hQdt3t4k77uAzQC_aGuaoA] What if your relationships weren’t problems to solve, but portals for growth? In this powerful conversation, I’m joined by Mario Silot, self-love and relationship coach, and Anastassia Lover, devotional feminine guide and astrologer, to explore how love reflects our inner world with authentic honesty. We dive into how relationships reveal our unconscious patterns, attachment dynamics, emotional capacity, and self-leadership... inviting us to meet ourselves more fully rather than seeking completion outside of us. This is a conversation about responsibility without self-blame, devotion without self-abandonment, and intimacy rooted in truth. Love doesn’t come to save us. It comes to show us who we’re becoming. Connect with the guests: Mario Silot Self-Love & Relationship Coach Instagram: @mariosilot Anastassia Lover Devotional Feminine Guide & Astrologer Instagram: @devotional_feminine  Connect with Aubrie: Aubrie Pohl NLP Master Trainer | Leadership Advisor | Speaker Website: www.aubriepohl.com & www.nlpwillonlychangeeverything.com Instagram: @itsaubrieee Podcast: Mind Your Lens – The NLP Experience

My Cancer Story

16 years cancer-free... and this episode is about far more than being a cancer survivor, it's about being a cancer THRIVER. It’s about claiming your voice. In this episode, I share my thyroid cancer journey not as a story of loss, but as a moment of initiation, one that shaped how I lead, speak, and stand in my truth today. When the very center of communication is challenged, something profound happens: you learn what your voice is really for. This conversation explores what it means to: - Develop a voice rooted in self-trust - Speak from alignment instead of approval-seeking Lead with clarity, presence, and conviction - Express who you are without over-explaining or shrinking I don't want to focus on what happened to me. It’s a reflection on what was forged through me. Over the past 16 years, my voice has evolved. This episode is an invitation to examine your own voice: how you use it, when you hold it back, and what becomes possible when you stop negotiating your truth. If you’re ready to speak more clearly If you’re ready to be heard without force If you’re ready to lead from authenticity instead of performance, this episode will meet you there. Your voice isn’t something you find. It’s something you decide to use.

The Psychology of Coaching: Codes of Transformation WEBINAR Week 3

In this episode, Aubrie explores the psychology of coaching through the lens of perception, presence, and understanding. At the heart of meaningful change is the ability to recognize how people experience their own inner world... and how that experience shapes behavior, choices, and communication. This conversation focuses on the skill of active listening as a form of perceptual awareness. By listening deeply, tracking language, and noticing emotional shifts, we gain insight into how someone understands themselves and their situation. From this level of understanding, change becomes accessible and self-directed. In this episode, you’ll explore: * How people communicate their inner world through language * The role of subjective experience in shaping behavior * Active listening as a foundational coaching skill * How questions guide awareness and support insight * Working within another person’s model of the world * Supporting change through presence, perception, and trust This episode is for coaches, leaders, facilitators, and anyone who values depth, clarity, and meaningful connection in conversations that matter. ✨ When understanding deepens, change unfolds naturally.   🌐 Book a call to talk about the NLP Academy → https://nlpwillonlychangeeverything.com/nlppractitioner [https://nlpwillonlychangeeverything.com/nlppractitioner] 🎤 Book Aubrie to Speak → www.AubriePohl.com [http://www.AubriePohl.com] 📲 Follow on Instagram → @itsaubrieee 🎧 Listen to More Episodes → Mind Your Lens: The NLP Experience is streaming on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and more!

Break the Mental Spiral - Tools to Reset Your Mind in Moments That Matter: Codes of Transformation WEBINAR Week 2

This episode is a recording from a free webinar series! In this episode, Aubrie explores what a mental spiral really is, why it feels so automatic, and how NLP gives us practical tools to interrupt it before it takes over our nervous system. This is not about suppressing emotions or “thinking positive.” It’s about understanding how emotions function as energy-in-motion... meant to be received, interpreted, and redirected. You’ll learn why the brain doesn’t distinguish between what’s real and what’s vividly imagined, how emotions can be borrowed from the past or projected into the future, and why repeated emotional patterns become faster and more intense over time. From a neurological perspective, spirals are a trained sequence. This episode also introduces two powerful NLP interventions used to regain choice in real time: * The Swish Pattern, which retrains the brain’s automatic responses * State Anchoring, which allows you to access resourceful emotional states when it matters most Together, these tools show how change comes from working WITH the way the mind and nervous system are already designed. In this episode, you’ll learn: * What a mental spiral actually is (and why logic alone can’t stop it) * How emotions become amplified through memory, imagination, and repetition * Why spirals feel uncontrollable once a state is activated * How NLP works at the level of imagery, language, and physiology * Practical tools to reset your state in high-pressure moments * How to move from emotional reactivity into choice and self-leadership This episode is for anyone who wants to respond differently in the moment. ✨ When you can reset your state, you can change your response, and when your response changes, your life does too. Ready to go deeper? If this episode resonated and you want to learn how to apply these tools consistently, you’re invited to explore the next step. 🔹 Join the NLP Academy Our 12-week NLP Certification Training begins January 17 and teaches you how to work with emotional patterns, nervous system states, and communication at a deep, practical level. https://nlpwillonlychangeeverything.com/nlppractitioner [https://nlpwillonlychangeeverything.com/nlppractitioner]

The Hidden Psychology Behind Motivation, Self-Sabotage, and Human Behavior: Codes of Transformation WEBINAR Week 1

This episode is a recording from a free webinar series! Why do smart, capable people still struggle to follow through on what they say they want? In this episode, Aubrie goes beneath surface-level mindset work and into the real architecture of human behavior. Instead of asking “How do I get more motivated?”, we explore a far more powerful question: “How is motivation actually created?” Drawing from NLP and applied psychology, this conversation reframes motivation as an internal state shaped by perception, meaning, identity, and nervous system safety... NOT willpower or discipline. You’ll learn why self-sabotage isn’t a personal flaw, but a protective strategy rooted in past conditioning, and how familiar patterns can quietly override conscious goals. We also explore the idea of liminal spaces, the subtle moments between stimulus and response, intention and action, where real choice and transformation live. As Viktor Frankl famously said, “Between stimulus and response, there is a space.” This episode reveals why that space is where NLP does its most powerful work. In this episode, you’ll discover: * Why motivation fluctuates and why that’s not a failure * How meaning and internal representation drive behavior * The hidden positive intention behind self-sabotage * How early programming can shape what feels “safe” vs. what’s actually aligned * How NLP helps you work inside the liminal spaces where behavior is formed This episode is for you if you’re ready to stop forcing change and start understanding how change actually happens in yourself and in others. ✨ Insight is powerful. Skill is transformational.   🌐 Book a call to talk about the NLP Academy → https://nlpwillonlychangeeverything.com/nlppractitioner [https://nlpwillonlychangeeverything.com/nlppractitioner] 🎤 Book Aubrie to Speak → www.AubriePohl.com 📲 Follow on Instagram → @itsaubrieee 🎧 Listen to More Episodes → Mind Your Lens: The NLP Experience is streaming on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and more!