So What's Even Happening?

Dating While Building an Empire | Ep. 18 Are We The Problem?

Balancing ambition and love isn’t easy—and sometimes we’re the ones making it harder. In this episode, we explore modern dating standards, especially for driven, entrepreneurial women. Are we being too picky, or are we just unwilling to settle? We unpack financial expectations, lifestyle compatibility, emotional availability, and what it really means to date while building a legacy. Get ready to laugh, reflect, and maybe question your own dating checklist. Key Discussion Points: * The impact of ambition on romantic relationships * Dating standards vs. unrealistic expectations * Gender gaps in financial priorities * How to date without dimming your light Takeaways: * Wanting more isn’t a red flag. * Your standards aren’t too high—they’re just finally aligned. * Compatibility isn’t just about romance—it’s about unified vision. Listen and subscribe on: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/so-whats-even-happening/id1789610782 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2MhlMV1WmuUrM8SP8Nzty6 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SoWhatsEvenHappening Follow us for more laughs, insights, and accountability tips: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sowhatsevenhappening TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@sowhatsevenhappening111 [https://www.tiktok.com/@sowhatsevenhappening111]

Post or Ghost? | Ep. 17 Social Media Burnout & the Business of Being Seen

Social media can be both a powerful tool and a source of burnout. In this episode, we get honest about our complicated relationship with content creation, visibility, and the pressure to perform. Are we posting for impact or for approval? We talk about mindful digital presence, managing visibility without losing yourself, and how to reclaim your time and energy while still showing up online. Key Discussion Points: * The hidden costs of always being “on” * Burnout from constant content creation * When visibility starts to feel performative * Setting healthy social media boundaries * Redefining success online Takeaways: * Being visible shouldn’t come at the cost of your peace. * Not every moment needs to be content. * Social media breaks are productive. * You can build a brand without broadcasting your entire life. Listen and subscribe on: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/so-whats-even-happening/id1789610782 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2MhlMV1WmuUrM8SP8Nzty6 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SoWhatsEvenHappening Follow us for more laughs, insights, and accountability tips: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sowhatsevenhappening TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@sowhatsevenhappening111 [https://www.tiktok.com/@sowhatsevenhappening111]

The 90-Day Challenge | Ep. 16 What Would Happen If You Gave It Your All?

What could change if you gave something your full focus for 90 days? In this episode, we explore the idea of going all in on a goal—whether it’s personal, creative, or business-related. We dive into the psychology of habit formation, the power of momentum, and what it takes to actually commit. We also challenge each other with wild 90-day scenarios (hello, no online shopping!), and talk through what makes a challenge truly worth it. Key Discussion Points: * The science behind forming new habits * What it means to really commit to something * The pros and cons of short-term sprints * How 90 days can build confidence and clarity * Picking a goal that aligns with your life season Takeaways: * Commitment creates momentum—clarity often follows action. * You don’t need to change everything; you just need to change one thing consistently. * Focus for 90 days can shift your identity, not just your habits. * Discipline can be empowering when it’s in service of something you care about. Listen and subscribe on: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/so-whats-even-happening/id1789610782 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2MhlMV1WmuUrM8SP8Nzty6 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SoWhatsEvenHappening Follow us for more laughs, insights, and accountability tips: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sowhatsevenhappening TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@sowhatsevenhappening111 [https://www.tiktok.com/@sowhatsevenhappening111]

The Art of the Pivot | Ep. 15 Reinventing Yourself Without Losing Yourself

Pivoting doesn’t mean starting over—it means stepping into alignment. In this episode, we talk about how to evolve without abandoning the core of who you are. From career changes to creative redirections, we break down how to embrace transformation, manage identity shifts, and find confidence in the unknown. Plus, we highlight iconic pivot queens like Rihanna and Issa Rae, and debate who did it best. Let’s normalize changing your mind, your path, and your plan. Key Discussion Points: * Why pivoting isn’t failure—it’s evolution * How to navigate identity shifts and uncertainty * Personal stories of reinvention * Lessons from successful pivots Takeaways: * Reinvention is often where your real power begins. * You’re allowed to outgrow your old dream. * The pivot isn’t a detour—it’s part of the journey. * Change invites clarity, even if it starts with confusion. Listen and subscribe on: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/so-whats-even-happening/id1789610782 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2MhlMV1WmuUrM8SP8Nzty6 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SoWhatsEvenHappening Follow us for more laughs, insights, and accountability tips: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sowhatsevenhappening TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@sowhatsevenhappening111 [https://www.tiktok.com/@sowhatsevenhappening111]

Overthink Much? | Ep. 14 Are You Making It Harder Than It Needs to Be?

Only 9% of people feel they’re using their time efficiently—and we’ve got questions. Are we actually too busy, or are we overcomplicating everything? In this episode, we explore how to simplify our workflows, daily routines, and expectations. From ditching perfectionism to leveraging systems that work for you, we’re unpacking how to stop doing the most and start doing what matters. Tune in for practical swaps that free up your mental real estate and help you work smarter, not harder. (And if you’re watching on video, things get a little blurry for Cortney between 5:45-10:20, but not to worry, she comes back into focus) Key Discussion Points: * The sneaky ways we overcomplicate simple tasks * Time-saving hacks for personal and professional life * Where perfectionism shows up and how to release it * Reframing productivity to align with your energy, not the grind Takeaways: * Sometimes the most efficient solution is the simplest one. * Perfectionism is a thief of time—done is often better than perfect. * Work smarter by automating, delegating, or letting it go. * Don’t be afraid to challenge your own systems. What worked last year might not work now. Listen and subscribe on: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/so-whats-even-happening/id1789610782 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2MhlMV1WmuUrM8SP8Nzty6 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SoWhatsEvenHappening Follow us for more laughs, insights, and accountability tips: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sowhatsevenhappening TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@sowhatsevenhappening111 [https://www.tiktok.com/@sowhatsevenhappening111]