Created To Win Podcast

Everyone Waiting on a Promise From God Needs to Hear This

Are you believing God for something — a marriage, a business breakthrough, a calling — but can't see how it's going to come to pass? In this episode of Created To Win, host Brian Summers sits down with Tim Romero, Andrew Armstrong, and Gabe Lopez to talk about what happens when faith gets tested in the waiting season. Rooted in Hebrews 6:12, this conversation tackles one of the most dangerous traps believers fall into — forcing their own version of God's promise when patience runs out. In Genesis 16, Abraham and Sarah did it. They called it Ishmael. And it cost them everything.Our guests get vulnerable about their own seasons of waiting on God — what they learned, where they almost gave up, and how staying faithful in the gap changed everything. If you're in the space between God's promise and its fulfillment — this episode is for you.

Is Christianity Actually TRUE? Evidence for Jesus’ Resurrection (Not Blind Faith)

What if believing in Jesus wasn’t just faith… but actually logical?In this powerful episode of the Created to Win Podcast, host Brian Summers sits down with Erick Galicia to break down the evidence for Christianity, the resurrection of Jesus, and why faith in Jesus is not blind—but grounded in history, logic, and truth.If you’ve ever asked: • Is Jesus really God? • Did Jesus actually rise from the dead? • Can Christianity be proven logically? • Why would people die for their belief in Jesus? • Is the Bible reliable or corrupted?This episode will challenge the way you think.⸻🔑 What You’ll Learn: • The historical evidence for Jesus’ death & resurrection • Why over 500 eyewitnesses matter • The significance of fulfilled prophecy (300+ prophecies) • Why the disciples were willing to die for their belief • How morality (good vs evil) only makes sense with God • The difference between being “Christian” vs a true follower of Jesus • A simple, clear explanation of the Gospel⸻⚡ This Isn’t Just Faith… It’s TruthChristianity isn’t about blind belief—it’s about examining the evidence and making a decision.Jesus made bold claims:“I am the way, the truth, and the life.”So the real question is…Was He telling the truth?⸻🙌 Want to Take the Next Step?If this message stirred something in you, don’t ignore it.Talk to God. Seek truth.And start your journey today.

How Narcissists Manipulate, Control, and Break Trust (What to Watch For)

Narcissism is a misunderstood—and damaging—relational dynamic people experience.In this episode of the Created to Win Podcast, Brian and Deborah break down what narcissism actually looks like in real life—not just clinical definitions, but everyday behaviors that show up in relationships, friendships, families, workplaces, and even churches.We talk openly about: • How manipulation works (and why it’s so confusing) • Control disguised as “care” or “concern” • Gaslighting and emotional confusion • Why narcissistic behavior makes you question yourself • Red flags most people ignore until it’s too late • How to trust your intuition againIf you’ve ever felt controlled, minimized, emotionally drained, or confused after interactions with someone, this conversation will bring clarity, language, and validation.This isn’t about labeling people—it’s about recognizing unhealthy patterns so you can walk in freedom, clarity, and strength.

Overcoming Shame in Real Time | Lindsey Ellyn (Author of The Shame Game) | LIVE Podcast

In this powerful LIVE episode of the Created To Win Podcast, host Brian Summers is joined by co-hosts Deborah Dovel and Jayme Vainer, along with special guest Lindsey Ellyn, author of The Shame Game.What makes this episode unique is the live audience experience—and a real-time breakthrough moment. Lindsey unpacks what she calls “The Shame Game”—how shame forms, how it quietly controls our decisions, and how it shows up in relationships, identity, and self-worth. In a powerful moment, Lindsey walks co-host Jayme Vainer through a live shame-healing exercise, giving listeners a front-row seat to what freedom can actually look like in practice.In this episode, we cover: • What shame really is • How shame keeps people stuck and disconnected • How shame impacts relationships, communication, and intimacy • Why avoiding shame gives it more power • How to talk about shame openly without fear • Practical steps to move forward without letting shame define you • A live, guided exercise to confront and release shameIf you’ve ever felt held back by past mistakes, relational wounds, or internal narratives telling you you’re “not enough,” this conversation will give you language, clarity, and tools to move forward.This episode is raw, honest, and deeply encouraging—and a reminder that you were created to win, not live in shame.

Honesty, Boundaries & Real Connection: The Dating Talk You Needed

Welcome back to the Created To Win Podcast — hosted by Brian Summers.In this episode, I’m joined by Deborah Dovel, Jayme Vainer, and Zach Day for one of the most honest, practical, and needed conversations about dating, communication, boundaries, and emotional maturity.We go deeper than clichés and talk about the real things couples face — the things that make or break relationships.⸻❤️ What We Talk About in This EpisodeCommunication & Honesty • What does a real weekly check-in look like — one that actually opens the heart, not just surface-level talk? • Where’s the line between honesty and being hurtful? • How do you stop truth from becoming a weapon in conflict?Courageous Conversations • A moment when telling the truth felt risky… but created deeper intimacy. • What “working through it” really looks like when everything in you wants to shut down or walk away.Showing Up as Your Best (Not Your Comfortable Worst) • Who do you become when you get comfortable — and how do you consistently show up as your best self in dating?Physical Boundaries & Healing • How can boundaries actually heal someone who has experienced trauma? • Why boundaries build emotional safety and clarity.Community & Relationships Around You • How do you choose the right “team” to speak into your relationship? • Why community is one of the biggest predictors of a healthy dating journey.