Into The Lifestyle

You look down the bar and see a couple who you just know are lifestyle… how do you pick up strangers at the bar! Join us in this episode as we talk about the in’s and out’s of talking to people outside of the lifestyle club to see if they are open minded. We also dive into the beginning phase of developing our 10th anniversary celebration and a documentary project we have been invited into being a part of. As always we love to hear from you and to learn about your experiences so please leave us feedback here or reach out to us on ITL – intothelifestyle.com [https://www.intothelifestyle.com]

LIFESTYLE HYGGE – YES IT’S A THING AND YOU WILL LOVE IT! Hygge(/ˈhjuːɡə/ HEW-gə or /ˈhuːɡə/ HOO-gə) is a Norwegian and Danish word for a mood of coziness and comfortable conviviality with feelings of wellness and contentment. Cindy LOVES this concept so we thought we would bring it to the podcast in the hopes that it will become part of your lifestyle as well. Hygge is all things comfort and sensory, which to us IS what the lifestyle is all about. From scents, to textures and onto warmth and sounds; if it makes you feel comfortable it’s Hygge! We can imagine this would be an amazing concept to develop a themed swingers party around (hint, hint) – and one that will be a hit with all of your swinger lifestyle friends! Join us as we chat about Hygge, and as always reach out to use via the comment box on this website, on intothelifestyle.com [https://www.intothelifestyle.com] or via mainstream social media to tell us about your Hygge experience! XOXO Cindy & James

THERE IS AN ART TO SAYING NO AND ONE FOR RECEIVING ONE. After recent conversations with members of the Into The Lifestyle [https://www.intothelifestyle.com] community we want to talk about what giving a No can look like, and how receiving one can land in a good way. When was the last time someone told you no, and left you feeling great about the ending of whatever it was that brought them to that decision? We feel that with a little practice, every No can be a positive one… so let’s explore how! Join us in the chat and feel free to share your thoughts or comments below or via one of the many channels we have available to connect with us. XOXO Cindy & James

Knowing where you are at and checking in with your partner is essential in the lifestyle. Join us as we dig into how you might be able to check in today to see if you are showing up at the right parties or events… and all of our other random thoughts like we tend to do! Also a BIG shout out to our USA based listeners for helping us climb into the #3 sexuality podcast in iTunes! We would LOVE to hear from you so please feel free to leave a comment here, reach out to us in IntoTheLifestyle [https://www.intothelifestyle.com] or on any of the other platforms that we are on. XOXOX CIndy & James

When you have something occur in or around the lifestyle it can be easy to look at it and ask is it a Story or Me Too? Quite often the way we process and perceive an encounter or situation both in and out of the lifestyle can be filtered through all of our life experiences so it can be hard to see what truly happened. Join Cindy as she wades into this topic based on her own experiences and what she has seen while working with thousands of clients in her coaching business as they work through their own stories of experiences. Also be sure to join in on the ongoing conversation and growth on intothelifestyle.com [https://intothelifestyle.com/]