Reinvention Room with Allison Hare

What happens when your worst nightmare becomes your real life? Tennyson Jacobson lived through the unimaginable—fighting off a violent intruder in her home and ultimately killing him to protect her family. Her story made national headlines (CBS, NBC, Fox, CrossFit, Your Worst Nightmare) and now she’s telling the full story for the first time in her memoir, The Mother of All Days: The True Story of A Fatal Breakin and the Unexpected Path To Healing. This conversation isn’t just about the trauma—it’s about the winding path of healing, how intuitive whispers saved her life (twice), and what happens when you stop ignoring the nudge to speak up. Tenny’s approach to healing is personal, unexpected, and powerful—and we get into it all here. 📚 The Mother of All Days drops May 13 — pre-order it here [https://heyitstenny.com] 🕒 NOTABLE TIMESTAMPS: 3:12 – The first break-in: the moment everything changed 14:48 – “I knew he was coming back” — the chilling return 20:33 – The fatal fight and what it took to survive 29:41 – How her body held trauma long after the attack 36:50 – The role of intuition in survival 41:14 – Healing begins: from exposure therapy to IFS 46:45 – Internal Family Systems (IFS) explained through her lived experience 55:10 – Her most “woo” healing modality (yep, Akashic records) 1:03:07 – The cosmic “why me?” and what she hopes her story unlocks for others 1:06:39 – Pre-order and bonus free 5-day healing guide * Schedule a FREE podcast clarity call with me [https://allisonhare.com/freecall] - Your future audience is out there. Talk to them! Be sure to rate, review, and follow this podcast on your player and also, connect with me IRL for more goodness and life-changing stuff. * Schedule a FREE podcast clarity call with me [https://allisonhare.com/freecall] - Your future audience is out there. Talk to them! * Sign up for the free Reinvention Roadmap weekly email [https://www.allisonhare.com/email] * AllisonHare.com [https://www.allisonhare.com/] * Follow me on Instagram [https://instagram.com/allison__hare], LinkedIn [https://linkedin.com/in/allisonhare], Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61555154007153], and YouTube [https://youtube.com/@reinventionroom]. * DOWNLOAD the free podcast equipment guide [https://go.allisonhare.com/equipment]- No guesswork, no google rabbit holes, start recording today * Reb3l Dance Fitness [https://reb3lfitness.com/orders/customer_info?o=97556#via=ahare]- Try it at home! Free month with this link [https://reb3lfitness.com/orders/customer_info?o=97556#via=ahare]. * Personal Brand [https://calendly.com/bbgallison/60] - need help building yours? Schedule a call with me here [https://calendly.com/bbgallison/60] and let's discuss. * Feedback and Contact:: allison@allisonhare.com

Ever feel like you're hustling nonstop but still not aligned or satisfied? My guest today, Nicole Laino, totally gets it—she's a self-proclaimed "type A hippie" who blends her ambitious, strategic side with human design for entrepreneurs. Nicole left a high-powered Wall Street career to follow her gut into entrepreneurship, eventually discovering human design, a precise tool for understanding how you're uniquely wired to thrive. In this episode, we cover: - Why human design is way more precise (and helpful!) than other personality tests (05:12) - Nicole's personal leap from Wall Street to intuitive entrepreneurship (10:45) - How Nicole blends EFT tapping, NLP, and human design to overcome internal blocks (20:35) - Breakdown of the five human design types and what they mean for your work-life alignment (32:50) - My own realization about why my corporate career felt so misaligned (47:15) - How to practically apply your human design in life and business to finally feel flow (56:30) Resources Mentioned: - Run your free human design chart here [https://nicolelaino.com/chart] - Nicole's podcast: Unshakeable with Human Design [https://nicolelaino.com/podcast/] - Download Nicole’s free guide on aligning your business with human design here [https://nicolelaino.com/resources/business-by-design-ebook/] - Book a human design reading with Nicole here [https://nicolelaino.com/reading] -PODCASTING: Book a free clarity call with me here [https://allisonhare.com/freecall] -WEEKLY EMAIL: Sign-up here [https://allisonhare.com/email] Loved this episode? Share it with someone who needs a fresh approach to their own hustle. Don't forget to rate and review—your feedback helps us grow! Be sure to rate, review, and follow this podcast on your player and also, connect with me IRL for more goodness and life-changing stuff. * Schedule a FREE podcast clarity call with me [https://allisonhare.com/freecall] - Your future audience is out there. Talk to them! * Sign up for the free Reinvention Roadmap weekly email [https://www.allisonhare.com/email] * AllisonHare.com [https://www.allisonhare.com/] * Follow me on Instagram [https://instagram.com/allison__hare], LinkedIn [https://linkedin.com/in/allisonhare], Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61555154007153], and YouTube [https://youtube.com/@reinventionroom]. * DOWNLOAD the free podcast equipment guide [https://go.allisonhare.com/equipment]- No guesswork, no google rabbit holes, start recording today * Reb3l Dance Fitness [https://reb3lfitness.com/orders/customer_info?o=97556#via=ahare]- Try it at home! Free month with this link [https://reb3lfitness.com/orders/customer_info?o=97556#via=ahare]. * Personal Brand [https://calendly.com/bbgallison/60] - need help building yours? Schedule a call with me here [https://calendly.com/bbgallison/60] and let's discuss. * Feedback and Contact:: allison@allisonhare.com

Lindsey Epperly, founder of Jet Set World Travel, sits down to unpack the realities of stepping away from your life's work, navigating burnout, and redefining success. Fresh off her own transition from CEO to chairwoman, Lindsey shares how major life shifts, unexpected crises, and even medical scares reshaped her understanding of identity and purpose. Listen in for a candid conversation on turning burnout into breakthroughs, practical strategies to truly recharge on your next vacation, and why sometimes stepping back is the best way forward. Plus, Lindsey dishes on emerging travel hotspots (hello, Slovenia!), fun travel trends, and her mantra to "create fun and celebrate constantly." Episode Highlights: [02:15] Lindsey's major announcement—stepping down as CEO [06:30] From accidental job at 19 to building Jet Set World Travel [12:45] Navigating identity shifts and decoupling from your business [19:05] Facing entrepreneurial burnout and imposter syndrome [25:40] Lindsey’s medical scare and gaining perspective [32:10] "Choosing yourself" and why waiting to be picked never works [35:50] Inside Lindsey’s two-month sabbatical in Portugal [42:20] How to actually recharge on vacation (and why you need at least 10 days) [49:30] Lightning Round: travel trends, underrated countries, airport must-haves Links Mentioned: Connect with Lindsey on Substack: lindseyepperly.substack.com [https://lindseyepperly.substack.com] Lindsey’s Podcast: Who Made You The Boss? [https://lindseyepperly.substack.com] Be sure to rate, review, and follow this podcast on your player and also, connect with me IRL for more goodness and life-changing stuff. * Schedule a FREE podcast clarity call with me [https://allisonhare.com/freecall] - Your future audience is out there. Talk to them! * Sign up for the free Reinvention Roadmap weekly email [https://www.allisonhare.com/email] * AllisonHare.com [https://www.allisonhare.com/] * Follow me on Instagram [https://instagram.com/allison__hare], LinkedIn [https://linkedin.com/in/allisonhare], Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61555154007153], and YouTube [https://youtube.com/@reinventionroom]. * DOWNLOAD the free podcast equipment guide [https://go.allisonhare.com/equipment]- No guesswork, no google rabbit holes, start recording today * Reb3l Dance Fitness [https://reb3lfitness.com/orders/customer_info?o=97556#via=ahare]- Try it at home! Free month with this link [https://reb3lfitness.com/orders/customer_info?o=97556#via=ahare]. * Personal Brand [https://calendly.com/bbgallison/60] - need help building yours? Schedule a call with me here [https://calendly.com/bbgallison/60] and let's discuss. * Feedback and Contact:: allison@allisonhare.com

You know that moment when you’re holding it all together with duct tape and hustle—but inside, you're bone tired and wondering why you still feel off even though you have so much to be grateful for? Amberly Lago is a bestselling author, speaker, and resilience coach who’s survived the kind of trauma that would wreck most people—sexual abuse, addiction, 34 surgeries, and chronic pain that literally has the nickname “the suicide disease.” We talk about what happens when gratitude starts masking the real healing that needs to happen. I challenge Amberly on what it means to bypass our pain with toxic positivity—and her response is honest, powerful, and packed with tools. You’ll hear: * How to recognize when burnout gets mislabeled as laziness * Amberly’s PACER Method (Perspective, Acceptance, Community, Endurance, Rest) * What to do when gratitude feels like a guilt trip * How to reset when your nervous system is fried * The real reason connection isn’t optional (especially for high performers) * Why joy isn’t fluffy—it’s earned Amberly is the real deal. This one stays with you. ⏱ NOTABLE TIMESTAMPS 04:00 – Why Amberly left LA: trauma + safety 07:00 – Lessons in grit from early life 12:30 – The motorcycle crash that changed everything 24:00 – Alcoholism, chronic pain, and the moment of reckoning 35:20 – Gratitude vs bypassing: when enough isn’t enough 47:05 – The PACER framework breakdown 59:45 – Being a Joy Sparker + redefining connection 1:01:30 – Unstoppable Success Summit info 🔗 RESOURCES FROM THE EPISODE: 💥 Amberly's new book: Joy Through the Journey [https://amzn.to/3XXp8ve] 🎤 Her event: Unstoppable Success Summit [https://go.amberlylago.com/uss2025/] – April 25–26, Dallas 🌐 Website & coaching: amberlylago.com [https://amberlylago.com] FREE Podcast Clarity Call with Allison Hare [https://allisonhare.com/freecall] Be sure to rate, review, and follow this podcast on your player and also, connect with me IRL for more goodness and life-changing stuff. * Schedule a FREE podcast clarity call with me [https://allisonhare.com/freecall] - Your future audience is out there. Talk to them! * Sign up for the free Reinvention Roadmap weekly email [https://www.allisonhare.com/email] * AllisonHare.com [https://www.allisonhare.com/] * Follow me on Instagram [https://instagram.com/allison__hare], LinkedIn [https://linkedin.com/in/allisonhare], Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61555154007153], and YouTube [https://youtube.com/@reinventionroom]. * DOWNLOAD the free podcast equipment guide [https://go.allisonhare.com/equipment]- No guesswork, no google rabbit holes, start recording today * Reb3l Dance Fitness [https://reb3lfitness.com/orders/customer_info?o=97556#via=ahare]- Try it at home! Free month with this link [https://reb3lfitness.com/orders/customer_info?o=97556#via=ahare]. * Personal Brand [https://calendly.com/bbgallison/60] - need help building yours? Schedule a call with me here [https://calendly.com/bbgallison/60] and let's discuss. * Feedback and Contact:: allison@allisonhare.com

Ever catch yourself hooked on a podcast and wonder why? In this episode, I break down the secret sauce behind the biggest shows in the world—and what that means for your own content, business, and voice. Spoiler: it’s not what you think. From Mel Robbins’ “you” language to Smartless being charmingly bad at interviews (and still crushing), we unpack how positioning, intimacy, trust, and catchphrases can make or break a podcast. If you're creating content or even just obsessed with it, you’ll never hear your favorite podcasts the same way again. Get your notes app ready. 🔖 NOTABLE TIMESTAMPS [02:15] – Mel Robbins’ genius use of "you" language [06:10] – Glennon Doyle vs. community naming (Pod Squad vs. intimacy) [08:45] – Why catchphrases matter (and how culture spreads them) [12:25] – SmartLess: terrible interviewers, wildly successful 15:10 – The Commercial Break’s episode promise: LOL guaranteed [17:55] – Armchair Expert’s trifecta: humor, guests, insight [21:40] – What most podcasters get wrong (and blame marketing for) [25:10] – Joe Rogan, Stephen Bartlett, and the dark side of "curiosity" [29:45] – Alex Cooper and the Call Her Daddy empire [34:30] – Tim Ferriss’ no-promo policy: a boundary masterclass [38:20] – Why you might be “healing” too much [42:10] – The business case for your podcast 🔗 RESOURCES MENTIONED Book a Clarity Call: allisonhare.com/freecall Join the email list: allisonhare.com/email Podcasts referenced: * The Mel Robbins Podcast * We Can Do Hard Things * Entrepreneurs on Fire * SmartLess * Armchair Expert * Diary of a CEO * The Daily (NYT) * Call Her Daddy * Huberman Lab * Tim Ferriss Show Be sure to rate, review, and follow this podcast on your player and also, connect with me IRL for more goodness and life-changing stuff. * Schedule a FREE podcast clarity call with me [https://allisonhare.com/freecall] - Your future audience is out there. Talk to them! * Sign up for the free Reinvention Roadmap weekly email [https://www.allisonhare.com/email] * AllisonHare.com [https://www.allisonhare.com/] * Follow me on Instagram [https://instagram.com/allison__hare], LinkedIn [https://linkedin.com/in/allisonhare], Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61555154007153], and YouTube [https://youtube.com/@reinventionroom]. * DOWNLOAD the free podcast equipment guide [https://go.allisonhare.com/equipment]- No guesswork, no google rabbit holes, start recording today * Reb3l Dance Fitness [https://reb3lfitness.com/orders/customer_info?o=97556#via=ahare]- Try it at home! Free month with this link [https://reb3lfitness.com/orders/customer_info?o=97556#via=ahare]. * Personal Brand [https://calendly.com/bbgallison/60] - need help building yours? Schedule a call with me here [https://calendly.com/bbgallison/60] and let's discuss. * Feedback and Contact:: allison@allisonhare.com