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In this last episode before a much needed rest, Jessy and Rebekah talk all about our friend the nipple! We learned a ton about nipples and even found out about the strongest nipples in all the land! It has been awesome talking to you all for the past 2.5 years and…we’ll see ya….sometime down the line. Xxx * 03:40: William Featherstone Montgomery [https://www.google.com/search?q=william+featherstone+montgomery&sxsrf=ALeKk02xiiDbSQ3FwG1vEWaQXVrkSvKnqA:1595340356460&source=lnms&tbm=isch&sa=X&ved=2ahUKEwjjivj5wd7qAhXUgnIEHf4iBvAQ_AUoA3oECBgQBQ&biw=1274&bih=645#imgrc=H3p7GgkswzGvfM] looks exactly as I would have imagined. Also, he died in Dublin in 1859 so, unless he was hermetically sealed and then reanimated he is most assuredly dead. * 06:15: So this extra booby is actually called an “accessory breast [https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Accessory_breast],” sort of like a handbag or a really cool bracelet! I found a reference to it in this journal of plastic surgery [https://www.semanticscholar.org/paper/An-uncommon-location-for-accessory-breast-tissue%253A-Aksoy-Aksoy/42e99931e433b99ac80b1a98289c55d853e528ea]. * 08:10: Check out this very informative (and maybe a tad bit confusing) article from Scientific American [https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/why-do-men-have-nipples/]! * 11:15: HAVE NO FEAR! The Great Nippulini has his very own website [https://www.greatnippulini.com/the-great-nippulini-official-website-of-the-worlds-strongest-nipples/]! But it isn’t actually his website, it is a website for his nipples. Contact us! Watch us! Love us! * Support us at glow [https://glow.fm/welcometomyvagina/]! * Check out our new Medium page [https://medium.com/@Welcometomyvag]! * Email: welcometomyvagina@gmail.com [welcometomyvagina@gmail.com] * Instagram: @welcometomyvagina [https://www.instagram.com/welcometomyvagina/] * Twitter: @welcometomyvag [https://twitter.com/Welcometomyvag] * Jessy’s awesome YouTube videos [https://www.youtube.com/user/SakeRawrHeadquarters]! She’s crushing it * Welcome to My Vagina HQ [http://welcometomyvagina.com/] * Rebekah’s blog [http://franklyrebekah.com/]! * Get your own amazing theme song made by @woollywillie [https://www.instagram.com/woollywillie/] * Our great producer Cait and all the other awesome projects by morebanana_ [https://www.morebanana.com/]

TW: Sexual violence and rape. In this episode, Jessy and Rebekah speak with Annie who was raped when she was in college and who, despite doing all the “right” things after her attack was still unable to achieve justice through our system. Just a note, if you feel you might get triggered by this content, please skip over. It is important to us that you take care of yourself. And if you have been raped or assaulted and need help, please call the National Sexual Assault Telephone Hotline at (800)-656-HOPE (4673). By calling this number you will be routed to a local RAINN-affiliated organization based off the first six digits of your phone number. Cell phone users have the option to enter their ZIP code so they can be connected with a local sexual assault service provider. * 08:45: According to RAINN, 1 out of every 6 American women [https://www.rainn.org/statistics/victims-sexual-violence] has been the victim of an attempted or completed rape in her lifetime. Among graduate and undergraduate students [https://www.rainn.org/statistics/campus-sexual-violence], 11.2% of all students experience rape or sexual assault through violence, physical force or incapacitation. * 09:30: Here is a document [https://www.justice.gov/archives/ovw/page/file/910266/download] created by the White House Task Force to Protect Students from Sexual Assault in April 2014. It explains what a victim advocate is as well as what other services should be offered to students who are victims of sexual violence on campus. * 10:00: Here is an article from The Atlantic [https://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2019/08/an-epidemic-of-disbelief/592807/] that talks about how to rape kit backlog has meant that thousands of rapists have gone unfound – some of them serial predators. Women were put through the terror and discomfort of doing a rape kit and oftentimes they are never tested. They just sit in warehouses and rot. * 13:00: Here is “an updated definition of rape” from the archives of the Department of Justice [https://www.justice.gov/archives/opa/blog/updated-definition-rape], published January 6, 2012. In it, the DOJ makes considerations for incapacitation due to alcohol ingestion when it says, “because many rapes are facilitated by drugs or alcohol, the new definition recognizes that a victim can be incapacitated and thus unable to consent because of ingestion of drugs or alcohol.” * 18:10: Here is a one-stop shop for the information about Title IX. [https://endrapeoncampus.org/title-ix] There have been a lot of changes since Tr*mp took office and put Betsy DeVos in charge of the education department. Unsurprisingly none of those changes have been good. Contact us! Watch us! Love us! * Support us at glow [https://glow.fm/welcometomyvagina/]! * Check out our new Medium page [https://medium.com/@Welcometomyvag]! * Email: welcometomyvagina@gmail.com [welcometomyvagina@gmail.com] * Instagram: @welcometomyvagina [https://www.instagram.com/welcometomyvagina/] * Twitter: @welcometomyvag [https://twitter.com/Welcometomyvag] * Jessy’s awesome YouTube videos [https://www.youtube.com/user/SakeRawrHeadquarters]! She’s crushing it * Welcome to My Vagina HQ [http://welcometomyvagina.com/] * Rebekah’s blog [http://franklyrebekah.com/]! * Get your own amazing theme song made by @woollywillie [https://www.instagram.com/woollywillie/]

We are still recording from home! Which looks like us each recording in make-shift studios – in closets, under blankets – and FaceTiming so we get that real in person feel. It was so hot in our at-home studios. But, it’s all good. This is what we do for you. Because we love you. Another thing we do is spend the morning researching the history of vajazzling! So, enjoy! And don’t forget to donate to us at glow.fm/welcometomyvagina! * 01:15: “The TikTok thing with the kids” is a clear indication that Rebekah does not use TikTok and is not a kid. She is an old. * 06:00: Officially obsessed with the Face To Face NYC website [http://www.facetofacenyc.com/services.html]. Here is their complete waxing menu [http://www.facetofacenyc.com/waxing.html], including the “Marble Sac with Shaft.” * 07:00: FYI Jennifer Love Hewitt’s book, The Day I Shot Cupid, was a NYTimes Best Seller. You can buy it here [https://www.hachettebooks.com/titles/jennifer-love-hewitt/the-day-i-shot-cupid/9781401341657/]. * 07:15: My super sleuth skills [https://www.usmagazine.com/celebrity-news/pictures/jennifer-love-hewitts-love-life-201346/30940/] tell me that this book was written after her split from Jamie Kennedy [https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jamie_Kennedy], a stand-up comic who I personally had not heard of until right this moment. * 08:00: Here is Jennifer Love Hewitt talking about vajazzling on Lopez Tonight [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NnUloWnKjg4]. It is….really something. * 09:00: So, real quick, Urban Dictionary has a definition of the term “vagina buffet” which is as follows: “A time at which one eats as much vagina as humanly possible and finished it off with a big, hearty mug of ‘gina juice.” Also, you can buy Vagina Buffet: Bite Size Tales of a Brazilian Waxer here. [https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/the-vagina-buffet-bite-size-tales-of-a-brazilian-waxer-sj-tierney/1111300920] * 12:46: Here is the article from The Cut [https://www.thecut.com/2018/11/what-even-was-vajazzling.html] where a lot of our vajazzle intel came from. And a link to Frances Goodman’s “Vajazzling Series [http://www.francesgoodman.com/artworks/#/vajazzling-series].” * 18:30: Here is a link to an article all about vagina stencils [https://www.yahoo.com/lifestyle/pubic-hair-stencils-exist-because-214515008.html]! Because you can’t look sad when your pubes look happy. * 19:15: Betty Beauty: It’s Color for the Hair Down There [https://www.bettybeauty.com/]! Contact us! Watch us! Love us! * Support us at glow [https://glow.fm/welcometomyvagina/]! * Check out our new Medium page [https://medium.com/@Welcometomyvag]! * Email: welcometomyvagina@gmail.com [welcometomyvagina@gmail.com] * Instagram: @welcometomyvagina [https://www.instagram.com/welcometomyvagina/] * Twitter: @welcometomyvag [https://twitter.com/Welcometomyvag] * Jessy’s awesome YouTube videos [https://www.youtube.com/user/SakeRawrHeadquarters]! She’s crushing it * Welcome to My Vagina HQ [http://welcometomyvagina.com/] * Rebekah’s blog [http://franklyrebekah.com/]! * Get your own amazing theme song made by @woollywillie [https://www.instagram.com/woollywillie/] * Our great producer Cait and all the other awesome projects by morebanana_ [https://www.morebanana.com/]

In this weeks podcast, we talked about some pretty amazing women! Jessy will tell you all about the badass gender-bending blues singer Gladys Bentley, and Rebekah will introduce you to Kirsta Scruggs, a serious taste maker in the natural wine world! In lieu of all the usual notes, we are going to share with you some resources for things to read, places to donate and things to watch. We are living through a revolution, friends. * Here is an AMAZING reading list by Victoria Alexander (you can find her on Twitter @victoriaalxndr [https://twitter.com/victoriaalxndr]): * Anti-Racist Lit: Starter Kit: * Stamped From the Beginning, Ibram X. Kendi * A People’s History of the United States, Howard Zinn * White Fragility: Why it’s so Hard for White People to Talk About Racism, Robin DiAngelo * So You Want to Talk About Race, Ijeoma Oluo * Anti-Racist Lit: Intermediate Kit * The Burning House: Jim Crow and the Making of Modern America, Anders Walker * The New Jim Crow: Mass Incareration in the Age of Color Blindness, Michelle Alexander * The Condemnation of Blackness, Khalil Gibran Muhammad * Dying of Whiteness: How the Politics of Racial Resentment is Killing America’s Heartland, Jonathan M. Metzl * A Different Mirror: A History of Multicultural America, Ronald Takaki * How to be an Anti Racist, Ibram X. Kendi * Anti-Racist Lit: Topic Specifics * Evicted: Poverty and Profit in the American City, Matthew Desmond * Nobody: Casualties of America’s War on the Vulnerable, from Ferguson to Flint and Beyond: Everything Your American History Textbook got Wrong, Marc Lamont Hill * Lies My Teachers Told Me, James W Loewen * Why Are All the Black Kids Sitting Together in the Cafeteria? And Other Conversation about Race, Beverley Daniel Tatum, PhD * The Color of Law: A Forgotten History of How Our Government Segregated America, Richard Rothstein * Blackballed: The Black Vote and US Democracy, Darryl Pinckney * Anti-Racist Lit: Biographies, Non- Fiction, Personal Narratives * The Warmth of Other Suns: The Epic Story of America’s Great Migration, Isabel Wilkerson * The Fire Next Time, James Baldwin * The Autobiography of Malcolm X, as told to Alex Haley * Between the World and Me, Ta-Nehisi Coates * Killing Rage, bell hooks * Becoming, Michelle Obama The Black Lives Matters movement has put this amazing site together that has been shared pretty widely. But, sometimes we miss things! So, here it is [https://blacklivesmatters.carrd.co/]! There are protest maps, petitions, places to donate (both with money and with time), a missing people thread, extra resources and more. Honestly, Black Lives Matters has been at this for A MINUTE and has used that time to put together a bunch of resources to make us as useful as we can possibly be. So, check it out, explore the site. As we said: there are so many different roles to be played here and they do not all involve being out on the streets protesting. So find out where you can be most useful. The only mistake you can make is not getting involved, whether that be through conversations with friends, donating money, whatever. Black lives matter. Stay safe. Love, Jessy and Rebekah

We did not have wine before we recorded this intro. JK we had all the wine. But be sure to donate to us at glow.fm/welcometomyvagina so we can keep buying wine and bringing you this content that you so desperately need. On today’s episode, we spoke with Lola Jean and the Reluctant Sexpert all about kinks and fetishes and consent. Make sure to stick around until the end to hear us thoroughly offended about a listicle that we read. * 05:00: Check out our interview on Is Our Love…? Podcast [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/is-our-love-a-genital-rainbow-w-jessy-caron-and-rebekah-frank/id1460321499?i=1000468076809] here! * 05:30: In case you did not grow up in the late ‘80s, early ‘90s, here is a link to THE Double Mint Gum commercial [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yqBREexEnFk] for your listening pleasure. * 05:45: And here is Lola Jean’s “Pass the Porn” [https://lolajean.com/passtheporn] project which works to bring ethical porn to the forefront rather than having people shamefully hiding their porn habit behind closed doors and incognito settings. * 08:45: Here is a Wiki page about Cytherea [https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cytherea_(actress)] in case you’re curious. She is known for her ability to ejaculate. Go Cytherea! * 10:30: Here is the TimeOut announcement for the 2019 Kinky Carnival [https://www.timeout.com/newyork/things-to-do/lola-jeans-kinky-carnival]. This year’s event was sadly canceled due to this very, very rude pandemic. * 24:00: The Violet’s webpage isn’t up and running, but here is an article from XBIZ [https://www.xbiz.com/news/238705/the-violet-to-showcase-sex-positive-adult-cinema-gatherings-at-sex-expo-ny] all about their independent adult cinema that they presented at the Sex Expo here in NYC. Stay tuned for more events once we are allowed out in public again. * 52:00: It was actually Molly Brenner who talked about wanting to have a rom com make our fast forward to brunch relationship. Contact us! Watch us! Love us! * Support us at glow [https://glow.fm/welcometomyvagina/]! * Check out our new Medium page [https://medium.com/@Welcometomyvag]! * Email: welcometomyvagina@gmail.com [welcometomyvagina@gmail.com] * Instagram: @welcometomyvagina [https://www.instagram.com/welcometomyvagina/] * Twitter: @welcometomyvag [https://twitter.com/Welcometomyvag] * Jessy’s awesome YouTube videos [https://www.youtube.com/user/SakeRawrHeadquarters]! She’s crushing it * Welcome to My Vagina HQ [http://welcometomyvagina.com/] * Rebekah’s blog [http://franklyrebekah.com/]! * Get your own amazing theme song made by @woollywillie [https://www.instagram.com/woollywillie/] * Our great producer Cait and all the other awesome projects by morebanana_ [https://www.morebanana.com/]