Aisle Be The Judge

The Business of Joy During Hard Times

Welcome to Season 2. We’re starting with a conversation that feels very real right now: how do you run a business centered around joy when the world feels heavy? From social media pressure to emotional burnout, we’re talking about the strange reality of working in weddings during uncertain times — and why people have always celebrated anyway. Because the truth is: weddings don’t stop when the world gets messy. And maybe they’re not supposed to.

ABTJ After Dark

It’s Aisle Be the Judge: After Dark — where the wine is poured, the PJs are on, and the outline… was never opened. Chelsey and Cacie are in full cozy-chaos mode this week, catching up on life, industry whispers, and one very spicy opinion that might ruffle a few creative-team feathers. Let’s just say: somebody’s stepping on somebody’s toes… and Chelsey has thoughts.

Vows, Vents, and Very Strong Opinions

Cacie + Chelsey are officially back from their summer hiatus and kicking off the fall season of Aisle Be the Judge! Season one is heating up again, and we’re coming in hot with a mix of pop culture, wedding industry realness, and the tea you didn’t know you needed. This week we’re covering all things Taylor Swift (because obviously), unpacking what’s in and what’s out as we head into peak wedding season, and giving our unfiltered takes on the industry trends you’re seeing flood your feeds. From the styles we’re loving to the ones we’re ready to retire, nothing is off-limits. Think of it as your post-summer catch-up call with two friends who will spill, sip, and side-eye their way through the week’s most pressing topics.

Unfiltered, Unbothered, Unconventional.

Today’s couples aren’t just breaking the mold—they’re straight-up tossing it. We sat down with Biana and Erica of Estera Events to talk all things Gen Z weddings: why tradition is optional, confidence is non-negotiable, and risk is officially in. From unstructured timelines to personal style over Pinterest trends, this episode dives into how a new generation is rewriting the wedding rulebook—and doing it on their own terms.

Is Networking Worth It?

In this engaging conversation, Cacie, Chelsey, and Samantha discuss the nuances of networking, emphasizing its importance as a form of business development rather than just socializing. They explore the significance of listening, authenticity, and building meaningful connections in the industry. The discussion also highlights the challenges faced by introverts in networking situations and offers practical advice for navigating events. Samantha Leenheer, a guest speaker, shares insights on her experiences with networking and the unique approach of Kinetic Experiences, a boutique gathering for wedding and event professionals.