FAN INTO FLAME

What does it actually mean for a man to lead his home under God? with TJ Bolling

AN INTERVIEW WITH BRITLEY'S MAN In this powerful and honest conversation, we sit down with TJ to unpack biblical leadership, overcoming lust, spiritual authority in marriage, and what it truly looks like for men to rise into integrity — while women learn how to rest in safety instead of striving.If you are:• A high-achieving woman longing for a man who leads with strength and humility• A man tired of passivity and ready to reclaim your authority in Christ• A couple navigating faith, hierarchy, and mission• Someone wrestling with purity in a hyper-sexual cultureThis episode will challenge you and call you higher.We dive into:• What healthy masculine leadership actually looks like• Is biblical hierarchy oppression… or protection?• Why good men feel stuck or passive• How to defeat lust without living in shame• What real repentance looks like inside marriage• How women can call men up without mothering them• What happens to a society when men stop leading their homesThis conversation isn’t about control.📲 Connect with TJ for Men’s CoachingIf you’re a man ready to rise, text:“3D Man” to 615-522-7290This is your first step toward:• Defeating lust• Defining leadership• Discovering legacyNo pressure. Just alignment.Subscribe to our channel:@FanintoFlameCoWays to Work with Us ⚡️ FREE INTRO CALL: Head to our Website:➡︎ https://www.fanintoflame.co/ [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbDlNZEMtbVBubThzblo2N0FMajU3MDhnMURhQXxBQ3Jtc0tsMzdvWTJreHR1SUZzSFRyYjRsWHZ0UkZBRWJVczFnVXBwek81R0tGT2Vra2c5ZmUxSzBhWHVkV2RObUFUQlduT25fTjlVLXFqSno5WGJBS1Q3WHpOa1Q2MXIyX1owYTBuN1hHZmRjaU1QcU9uZHo3QQ&q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.fanintoflame.co%2F&v=DFyMH-rV1MM]⚡️ BOOK 2:1 COACHINGConnect with us!IG: ➡︎ @ellie_bt & @britleyannSubscribe and Listen to the Fan Into Flame Podcast HERE:➡︎ YT: @FanintoFlameCo

The Real Reason Men Retreat in Relationships with Cody Jefferson

Why do men retreat in relationships and why does it so often happen at home?In this episode, we sit down with Cody Jefferson to uncover the real reason men pull away—not from a lack of love, but from misalignment, broken trust, and environments that no longer feel safe to land in. We explore masculine identity, feminine peace, polarity, and the quiet ways contempt, control, and unmet expectations erode intimacy over time.This is a grounded, faith-rooted conversation about:• Why high-performing men withdraw• How identity (“I am”) precedes behavior• What men actually need to lead well• The role of a woman as peace, safety, and support• How trust is broken—and how it’s rebuilt• Why God is calling both men and women to release the need to be rightIf you are navigating partnership with a driven man…If you’re a woman longing to rest without losing yourself…If you’re a man who wants to lead without losing your soul…This conversation will meet you.———Subscribe to our channel:@FanintoFlameCoWays to Work with Us⚡️ FREE INTRO CALL: ➡︎ https://www.fanintoflame.co/ [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqa0pPaGU3SEZpZE5ETENScTUtRWhCSl9mMmFOZ3xBQ3Jtc0tuUVEzYWd0c1phUGRVZ20zSGtSOEt4dExST1QtdUJ3RlV3Mks1NzJGR283bUw1Wnd4VnZBNXBQZ0JkdURiR2Q1cGNMNGZPeVFuWjJoeXJqY1c4NV9ROG5JR0pKdTJrSE8zX3RpWjdoTXI1VjhvYWM2cw&q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.fanintoflame.co%2F&v=1qUSooPezsU]⚡️ 2:1 COACHING (Peak Performance): ➡︎ https://www.fanintoflame.co/peak-perf.. [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbEhxS0hhM2xtalV0X3ZoaWpQc0NERU9pNkY4d3xBQ3Jtc0trMW1qZHkzcWcyNFNJZDNnTWJnLURWa1VjWTVOZ0VXUEhERG9SU1R2V0taWGtsTVdEN2hqVmU5Yk1NLVpYSEdQZ0ZVeXMwNUhhSVRkVFVIZUhreDJGdzVWTXhnTzJHUHJfTlNPWW5fbWVYX3R2Nm9OYw&q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.fanintoflame.co%2Fpeak-perf..&v=1qUSooPezsU].Connect with UsIG: ➡︎ @ellie_bt & @britleyannListen to the Fan Into Flame Podcast➡︎ YouTube: @FanintoFlameCo➡︎ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/68BlvA2.. [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqa3EtN2xLWlpqUFJTSHExejB3YXYyanJwWm5jUXxBQ3Jtc0tueDN0NmxPLTlDVlBrNEYzc05VTk0zUGwwNmZaQ3NzU3dTWncyWVNFOG4tRjZab2tMcy04VjVheVNCdkR0M2lDWDdiWVRnX0FsUi1hZzFxcEZiNW9JbGhsOGRiNXdLZnRDNnlnSXZ5MFZoUkxES2VhNA&q=https%3A%2F%2Fopen.spotify.com%2Fshow%2F68BlvA2..&v=1qUSooPezsU].Question for you:Where have you been trying to be right instead of being at peace?About Fan Into Flame🔥 Identity before performance🔥 Somatic + Spirit-led transformation🔥 Order, embodiment, and obedience#fanintoflame [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/fanintoflame] #relationships [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/relationships] #masculinity [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/masculinity] #femininity [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/femininity] #polarity [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/polarity] #faith [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/faith] #leadership [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/leadership] #godaboveall [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/godaboveall]

The Truth about Submission, Sanctification and Leadership as a Married Woman of God

In this episode, Brianna, Ellie, and Britley share the raw truth about marriage, biblical roles, and the power of sanctification. From childhood wounds to kingdom purpose, they reveal how God’s Word—not feelings—became their foundation. A must-listen for anyone navigating faith, purpose, and covenant. 🔹 How unresolved childhood patterns impact your marriage 🔹 The truth about submission, sanctification, and spiritual leadership 🔹 Why God’s Word must be your filter—not culture or feelings  Connect with Brianna Flores  * Explore her work + free resources: HERE [https://spiritdrivensuccess.org/coachingwithbri/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAafMaOCqo9As7k1y858GQB6Cmh_k1IZsVjzVAMUGH2xOXTohIiur1M3NOlDFLA_aem_Ka6MLxGEq7O3GwUPCsnnww] * Follow on Instagram: @briannaleannflores [https://www.instagram.com/briannaleannflores/?hl=en#] Interested in joining HELD: A 3-month container for women of God to go from scattered to streamlined and expand their capacity for growth, abundance, and connection? Learn more HERE [https://www.fanintoflame.co/held] or Message us on Instagram @britleyann @ellie_bt

War on the Body: The Silent Internal Battle that we Fight Daily

In this powerful and vulnerable conversation, Britley and Ellie open up about their real-life struggles with body image, self-worth, and the hidden battles so many silently carry. They share how true healing didn’t come from perfection or performance—but from encountering God’s truth and learning to see themselves through His eyes. If you’ve ever battled shame, comparison, or insecurity, this is the video you didn’t know you needed. The 5-part Forgiveness Practice: www.fanintoflame.co/forgive Listen now and take your first step toward freedom. ➡️ ⚡️FREE INTRO CALL: Head to our Website: ➡︎ https://www.fanintoflame.co/ [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbGRQRHMtMlBUeVdCdkM4RjhlNlltenRlZGJ1Z3xBQ3Jtc0trN3pab3VzV0EyaHJpaUtpTWE2OTJvdjUydlNMck05REZSbjZDNzFDbzJNMnVmUVVQY1paTk84R21mRXdVb0JSYV9sbnZqNWp1WUJ5U0RYcTlDdnRMd0djbURoczdJTDZJSWdqc0NobGtNQ2VTemwwQQ&q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.fanintoflame.co%2F&v=x6VvxH0GP58] ⚡️BOOK 2:1 COACHING: Check out our Peak Performance Coaching: ➡︎ https://www.fanintoflame.co/peak-perf... [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbFVfaEZ5eXpjcnpOLVdzdEp2bXVmR0dqRW5Rd3xBQ3Jtc0tuVTVIX0ZIa09zbjNvR2ZzQmVxRnhBY1BfeWJHb2ZMT1RqbmlHMERxX2xRRlFMQUstZjVUZlQ0WG1obDM4aWh5VHJhNW82UE93c0U5V2h0VmJ5UDRRNHpnNndhRktacDM2VjB4djhJdk1FeWExQlc2OA&q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.fanintoflame.co%2Fpeak-performance&v=x6VvxH0GP58] ⚡️Looking to be HELD check out our program ➡︎ https://www.fanintoflame.co/held [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqa0xIMjgwcE84TldBdmZUV0preWhQSXl6THB4Z3xBQ3Jtc0trc1NKX1JCUlhhSVQwUnVjMU9NR3pvMTROX0RKUERSenl4MldGdElrODFvemNwbGtOcFViakw1cFdsdEJGU09URGRZVFBmNHo2M0JFRUZQT1RUbWYyd2hoSDJ2YTlXSUxjb0JhaVdoQ1VFb0FtZVM4dw&q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.fanintoflame.co%2Fheld&v=x6VvxH0GP58] ⚡️Join our community, To Have and To Hold, TODAY! https://www.fanintoflame.co/thth [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbDFRWlFnMXFMajY1Tncyb2ZwY0l4NFlyREN2UXxBQ3Jtc0ttX2RlZGJUOWlkb013X0E2Qm9UTjQyVXZwbWZXaGxJX3pPYk9YR0NBV1lGNHRaa1J6azBYVTNpWGdZZW92QlRxbDJELVUzT1BxdUZOMzlaR01USnhzQVRsWFpGR3pVWmVLeE14d09VN2pqMFJuSnp5dw&q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.fanintoflame.co%2Fthth&v=x6VvxH0GP58] Connect with us! IG: ➡︎ / @ellie_bt & @britleyann Question - What’s the silent battle you’ve been fighting that no one knows about? Share in the comments below: ↓ About: ⚔ Britley and Ellie get real about hidden body image battles. ⚔ Healing started when they let God in. ⚔ If you’re silently struggling, this is for you. #BodyImageHealing [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/bodyimagehealing] #FaithAndIdentity [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/faithandidentity] #ChristianWomen [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/christianwomen] #SilentStruggles [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/silentstruggles] #HealingInChrist [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/healinginchrist] #GodlyConfidence [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/godlyconfidence] #InnerHealing [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/innerhealing] #ChristianGrowth [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/christiangrowth] #TestimonyTime [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/testimonytime] #BritleyAndEllie [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/britleyandellie] #fanintoflame [https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/fanintoflame]

When Value Goes Viral: The Kingdom Way to Grow Online with Graham Cochrane

Graham is a bestselling author, digital entrepreneur, and founder of multiple 7-figure businesses. With over 700,000 YouTube subscribers across all channels and a globally ranked podcast, his message reaches thousands—but his mission is clear: to help believers build businesses that glorify God and set them free. What makes his story powerful isn’t just the numbers—it’s the obedience behind them. This episode will remind you that you don’t need to hustle harder… you need to listen deeper. * How God led Graham from burnout and uncertainty to launching a business that aligned with his calling * The sacred rhythm of pivoting—how to embrace God’s invitation to evolve, shift, and birth new ideas for new seasons * Why YouTube is one of the most powerful platforms for Christians with a message * The power of embodying your God-given identity in your digital brand * How Energy Audits help you work with clarity, not chaos This is more than business—it’s about building from a place of wholeness, obedience, and unapologetic alignment with your purpose in Christ!  Connect with Graham * Follow him on YouTube: The Graham Cochrane Show * Explore his work + free resources: grahamcochrane.com [http://grahamcochrane.com]  * Follow on Instagram: @thegrahamcochrane  Interested in joining HELD: A 3-month container for women of God to go from scattered to streamlined and expand their capacity for growth, abundance, and connection? Learn more HERE [https://www.fanintoflame.co/held] or Message us on Instagram  @britleyann @ellie_bt