giving (un)bothered

sapphic toxic traits, dating icks & one-night stands

We’re back with another Truth or Drink… and this one got a little too honest 😅 From sapphic toxic traits to the most random (and very real) dating icks, plus everything that comes with one-night stands… nothing was off limits. We also get into the importance of being the hottest ex (because let’s be real, it matters.) So grab a drink, press play, and come get messy with us as we dive into queer dating, lesbian relationships, and all the red flag behaviour we pretend not to see 🍸 Find us on: - Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/giving.unbothered/] - Tiktok [https://www.tiktok.com/@giving.unbothered] - Youtube [https://open.acast.com/networks/67c4dd08a02912270dc07b65/shows/67c4de7cc6cef89b7d460784/episodes/%E2%81%A0https://www.youtube.com/@givingunbothered] ---------------------------------------- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy [https://acast.com/privacy] for more information.

lesbian history, queer media & coming out with Roxy Bourdillon

In today’s episode of giving (un)bothered, we sit down with Roxy Bourdillon, award-winning writer, author of What A Girl Wants: A (True) Story of Sexuality and Self-Discovery, and Editor-in-Chief of DIVA Magazine, the leading magazine for LGBTQIA+ women and non-binary people. Roxy has interviewed some huge names including Emma Stone, Rachel Weisz, and the cast of The L Word, co-hosted a podcast alongside Rachel Shelley (aka Helena Peabody), and presented a documentary for Virgin Radio called Butches, Femmes And Dykes Snogging On The Dancefloor: The Incredible True Story Of Lesbian Nightlife. We talk about Roxy's sexuality journey, self-discovery, lesbian history, working in queer media, the impact of representation, her experience leading DIVA Magazine, and what it was like writing her own book. We also dive into LGBTQ+ visibility, dating, identity, and why queer storytelling matters now more than ever. Find us on: - Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/giving.unbothered/] - Tiktok [https://www.tiktok.com/@giving.unbothered] - Youtube [⁠https://www.youtube.com/@givingunbothered] Find Roxy on:  - Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/roxybourdillon/] Find DIVA magazine on:  - Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/divamagazine/] - Tiktok [⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@divamag] ---------------------------------------- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy [https://acast.com/privacy] for more information.

having a straight girl kink (with 2D2M) - part 2

In Part 2 with 2D2M, we’re getting into the chaos with our signature game “Bothered or Unbothered” and let’s just say… nothing is off limits. We’re talking: •Socks on or OFF during intimacy 👀 •Being the “experiment” in a girl’s sexuality •When she refuses to use toys •The craziest things we’ve been asked in bed 😭 •Feet kinks and our experiences •2 months in and still not exclusive 🚩 •When she doesn’t like your best friend… yeah, that one’s messy Find 2D2M on: Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/twodykestwomics/ ] Tiktok [https://www.tiktok.com/2d2m_] Youtube [https://www.youtube.com/@twodykestwomics] Find us on: Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/giving.unbothered/] Tiktok [https://www.tiktok.com/@giving.unbothered] Youtube [https://www.youtube.com/@givingunbothered] ---------------------------------------- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy [https://acast.com/privacy] for more information.

s*x tapes, finding your identity & IKAG cancelled (with 2D2M) - part 1

This week on giving (un)bothered, things get very chaotic with Rose & Ellie from 2D2M (Two Dykes Two Mics) 💥 And this is only Part 1… 👀 Known for their unfiltered takes, they join us for an episode that completely spirals—in the best, most unhinged way possible. And honestly… nothing is off limits. We somehow end up diving into: - s*x tapes - why femmes get more hate in the queer community - dealing with hate comments & being perceived online - what dating looks like when people already “know” you - chaotic, real, way too relatable coming out stories - the struggle of figuring out your sexuality & identity - the drama around IKAG being cancelled - why we desperately need a queer Big Brother immediately Find 2D2M on: - Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/twodykestwomics/] - Tiktok [https://www.tiktok.com/@2d2m_] - Youtube [https://www.youtube.com/@TwoDykesTwoMics] Find us on: - Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/giving.unbothered/] - Tiktok [https://www.tiktok.com/@giving.unbothered] - Youtube [https://www.youtube.com/@givingunbothered] ---------------------------------------- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy [https://acast.com/privacy] for more information.

sapphic signs you like her more than a friend

This week on giving (un)bothered, we’re exposing the real sapphic signs you like her more than a friend — from getting jealous (but pretending you’re chill), to fantasising about her in your dreams. Whether you’re in a queer situationship, catching unexpected feelings for a friend, or deep in your bisexual/lesbian awakening, we’re breaking it all down with chaotic honesty, personal stories, and the kind of call-outs that might just change your perspective. 🫶 In this episode: - Clear signs you have a crush on a girl - Sapphic attraction vs friendship explained - How to tell if you like her more than a friend Find us on: - Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/giving.unbothered/] - Tiktok [⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@giving.unbothered] - Youtube [https://www.youtube.com/@givingunbothered] ---------------------------------------- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy [https://acast.com/privacy] for more information.