Hedonista Podcast • English Edition

#10 Why escort ruined dating for us - with Irina Le Fey

Two women who've seen behind the curtain sit down to talk about the thing nobody in this industry warns you about: what happens to your private dating life when work keeps raising the bar. Irina le Fey is back - former goldsmith, sociologist, agency founder, professional huntress a and this time, we're not talking about clients. We're talking about us. About gender roles reclaimed and confused, the provider question, what women actually bring to the table when kids aren't part of the equation, and whether one person could ever give you what this job does. We disagree. A lot. Irina believes in the fairytale and is willing to stop escorting for it. Elisa believes in the fairytale and is absolutely not willing to stop escorting for it. Somewhere between those two positions, something very honest happens - about desire, self-worth, and the strange paradox of an industry that makes you feel incredibly chosen while making normal dating feel like a punishment. One question neither of us had been asked quite this directly before: Are you actually happy? The answers might surprise you. Keep your hands clean. But your mind dirty.

#9 The hypno kink - with Undine de Rivière

What if the most intimate thing someone can do to you has nothing to do with touch? In this episode, I sit down with Undine de Riviere – escort, erotic hypnotist, and one of the most fascinating personas I've had on this show. We talk about the fine line between surrender and control, why giving up your mind is a completely different game than giving up your body, and what it actually means to be conscious while someone rewires your desire. Spoiler: You stay awake. You just stop resisting. We also get into Undine as a constructed persona – who she is, where she ends, and whether that line even exists anymore. For those who think they know what hypnosis is: you probably don't. And that's exactly where this gets interesting.

#8 Why I am (not) allowed to fall in love

Love is the biggest taboo in sex work. Not sex. Not money. But feelings. In this solo episode, I talk about what happens when the line between professional intimacy and real feelings becomes blurred. When does curated availability suddenly become... something that feels real? I talk about dates where I no longer knew whether I was being paid or whether it was just nice. About post-date blues that feel like heartbreak. And about an American in senior military service who taught me a lesson about non-monogamy and charisma. What makes a client dangerous? Not their appearance. But the way they listen. How they leave space. How they see your needs without you having to express them. And then the big question: can I even love as an escort? Am I allowed to? And if so, at what price? In the end, it's all about the Holy Grail: being emotionally available without becoming vulnerable. And why mastering this art leads to a rebirth of one's own self. Trigger warning: emotional depth, personal vulnerability, and quite a few uncomfortable truths about love, control and self-sufficiency.

#7 Mind Games and Soul Orgasms

You've been waiting four weeks for this, Sherlocks. And trust me - it was worth it. In Part 2, I confess how a philosophy professor turned intellectual debate into foreplay, how forced cuddling broke down walls I didn't even know I'd built, and how I discovered that my brain might be my most powerful sex organ. From performance mode to pure presence. From power games to tantra. This is where it gets deep - in every sense of the word.

#6 Between continents and control: International sexwork decoded - with Sienna Carlisle

How do Australian clients differ from European ones? Why does the DACH region have such a thing for "amateurs"? And what does cultural attitude toward kink reveal about deeper societal patterns? Sienna Carlisle – trans escort, domme, and someone who actually lives between Berlin, London, Melbourne and Sydney - joins me for a conversation that decodes international sex work from the inside. Smart, layered, and unapologetically honest.