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The Husbands Come on the Podcast, living abroad, military life, kids, careers, the future ambitions, family, our relationships

👱🏽‍♂️👱🏾‍♂️In this episode of the Hold to Talk podcast, we welcome our husbands, Ollie and Mike, to discuss their experiences living abroad, cultural shocks, and the unique challenges faced by veterans. The conversation flows through various themes, including sports culture in the US, funny misunderstandings, and the impact of military life on personal growth and family dynamics. The episode culminates in reflections on future aspirations and the importance of resilience in parenting.Takeaways * The sports culture in the US fosters a sense of community. * Living abroad offers unique experiences that shape personal preferences. * Cultural misunderstandings can lead to humorous situations. * Veterans face significant challenges when readjusting to civilian life. * Loss in combat profoundly impacts soldiers and their families. * Therapy, especially EMDR, can be transformative for veterans dealing with PTSD. * Family dynamics evolve with international living and parenting. * Future aspirations can change based on life experiences and personal growth. * The importance of resilience in children is emphasised by parents. * Humour and fun are essential in navigating relationships and family life.

"The True Cost of Moving Abroad" honest comparing prices, cost of living, moving a family, rental prices, food prices, deposits

🤑 NEW EPISODES OUT EVERY TUESDAY - In this episode of the Hold To Talk podcast, we talk honestly about the financial realities of moving abroad. We share personal experiences of relocating to the United States and Portugal, discussing the unexpected costs and challenges they faced. From selling furniture and dealing with rental markets to the high costs of moving pets and the nuances of credit ratings, we cover it all. Listen in to hear their insights on managing expenses, the impact of cost of living on lifestyle choices, and the economic implications for locals in their new homes. Whether you're considering a move or just curious about the logistics, this episode offers valuable perspectives and practical advice.

'Identity, Belonging, and I guess the Immigrant Question?' Immigrant vs Expat, Belonging, Feeling at home, Where is home, What are our identities now.

In this episode of the Hold to Talk podcast, we go into how we feel about of living as immigrants in a new country. We explore the nuances of cultural adaptation, the feeling of belonging, and the challenges of maintaining our own identity while embracing new customs. Through personal anecdotes and candid discussions, we reveal the emotional journey of integrating into a new society and the ongoing quest for a sense of home. Join us as we navigate the delicate balance between holding onto their roots and embracing a new cultural identity.

'Moving abroad Changed our Marriages' intimacy, gift giving, things we didnt expect, having a new mindset towards each other, becoming each others person

💕 In this Episode we get real about how our relationships have shifted since moving abroad. From intimacy and gift-giving to figuring out who settled in first (and who’s still finding their groove), we talk about the ups, downs, and everything in between. It’s an honest convo about love, growth, and what it’s really like building a life together in a new place.

'The Ones we Left Behind' Missing us, what it was like when we left, how did that feel and what feelings you have now vs then, Thoughts of our lives now, from there perspective

In this episode of the Hold To Talk podcast, we try something different, interviewing our family members, we welcome our niece Libby to introduce the episode. We then welcome our older sister and mum onto the podcast, to discuss how they feel about being the ones we left behind. The conversation flows from introductions to deeper discussions about maintaining relationships across distances, with lighthearted moments sprinkled throughout.