The Parenting Standard

# 98: If you want your kids to take more ownership, then...

Picture this: You’re sitting in your favorite armchair, reading a book, while your child works through a curriculum they designed themselves. They aren't doing it because you threatened them with a "speeding ticket"; they’re doing it because they’ve discovered their own internal engine. Ask Harry & Priya a question: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagG0SbG2nSlWJay3/form | Level Up Your Parenting: https://www.successstacker.com | Stay in the Know: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagW1J7nJ0j8FAmpP/form | ---------------------------- We’ve found the secret to transferring the cognitive load from your shoulders to theirs. In this episode, we break down the transition from the manual "screwdriver" parenting of rewards and punishments to the high-efficiency "power drill" of intrinsic motivation. We’ll show you why your child’s independence isn't a sign of you being "unemployed," but a badge of high honors. Let’s redefine what "good parenting" actually feels like. ---------------------------- Do you have some questions, stories or experiences you hope could be featured on the podcast? We could create an ENTIRE EPISODE about YOUR submission! Just use this link to submit: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagG0SbG2nSlWJay3/form ---------------------------- This parenting podcast is not your typical parenting banter. Priya Narthakii (Values Mindset & Peak Parenting Coach & Mother of 2) & Harry Goldberg (Mindset & Performance Coach & Father of 2) provide you with fresh perspectives on how to raise kids who are self-driven, self-motivated, growth-minded and kind. Most importantly, this podcast is for parents who want to have a beautiful relationship with their kids. You don’t need anything new to achieve this. Perhaps, all you need is a new perspective which hasn’t come across your growth path... ...yet. These episodes are: - Short - Too the point - Engaging - Weekly And they have: - Zero scripting. - Zero planning. - Deep insights. - Inspiring stories. - Decades of Parenting experience. ---------------------------- Want to keep receiving unique, helpful & valuable parenting insights? Three simple steps: 1. Subscribe. 2. Follow. 3. Turn On Notifications!

# 97: If you want chores to get done without the "thank you" trap, then...

Imagine this: You’ve just showered your child with praise for cleaning their room, but the next day, it’s a disaster again. You realize with a sinking feeling that you’ve become a full-time manager, trapped in a cycle where your child only moves if you provide the "fuel" of a "thank you." Ask Harry & Priya a question: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagG0SbG2nSlWJay3/form | Level Up Your Parenting: https://www.successstacker.com | Stay in the Know: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagW1J7nJ0j8FAmpP/form | ---------------------------- Even worse? Your teenager sees right through it. They aren't learning responsibility; they’re learning how to be manipulated. If you don't break the behaviorist loop now, you’re looking at a future of power struggles and apathy. We’re diving into why your "gentle" praise is actually driving a wedge between you and your child, and how to stop the rot before the "eye-rolls" become a permanent lifestyle. Stop managing from the outside in and start growing your child from the inside out. It's time to move past the eye-rolls and foster a home where contribution comes from the heart, not the hope of a reward. ---------------------------- Do you have some questions, stories or experiences you hope could be featured on the podcast? We could create an ENTIRE EPISODE about YOUR submission! Just use this link to submit: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagG0SbG2nSlWJay3/form ---------------------------- This parenting podcast is not your typical parenting banter. Priya Narthakii (Values Mindset & Peak Parenting Coach & Mother of 2) & Harry Goldberg (Mindset & Performance Coach & Father of 2) provide you with fresh perspectives on how to raise kids who are self-driven, self-motivated, growth-minded and kind. Most importantly, this podcast is for parents who want to have a beautiful relationship with their kids. You don’t need anything new to achieve this. Perhaps, all you need is a new perspective which hasn’t come across your growth path... ...yet. These episodes are: - Short - Too the point - Engaging - Weekly And they have: - Zero scripting. - Zero planning. - Deep insights. - Inspiring stories. - Decades of Parenting experience. ---------------------------- Want to keep receiving unique, helpful & valuable parenting insights? Three simple steps: 1. Subscribe. 2. Follow. 3. Turn On Notifications!

# 96: If you want a child who leads themselves, then...

Imagine this: Your child is "perfectly" compliant. They make their bed, they get the grades, and they follow every rule. Then, they leave home—and they completely fall apart. Without your constant "management" and biased questioning, they have no internal compass. Ask Harry & Priya a question: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagG0SbG2nSlWJay3/form | Level Up Your Parenting: https://www.successstacker.com | Stay in the Know: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagW1J7nJ0j8FAmpP/form | ---------------------------- They aren't responsible; they’re just well-trained. We discuss the terrifying reality of "projected emotions" and how parents unknowingly rob their children of their own identities. If you keep naming their frustrations and setting their metrics, you are ensuring they will be forever dependent—or worse, that they will eventually cut you out entirely just to breathe. Discover how to ask the "unbiased questions" that foster true responsibility and build an adult who leads themselves, even when you aren't in the room. ---------------------------- Do you have some questions, stories or experiences you hope could be featured on the podcast? We could create an ENTIRE EPISODE about YOUR submission! Just use this link to submit: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagG0SbG2nSlWJay3/form ---------------------------- This parenting podcast is not your typical parenting banter. Priya Narthakii (Values Mindset & Peak Parenting Coach & Mother of 2) & Harry Goldberg (Mindset & Performance Coach & Father of 2) provide you with fresh perspectives on how to raise kids who are self-driven, self-motivated, growth-minded and kind. Most importantly, this podcast is for parents who want to have a beautiful relationship with their kids. You don’t need anything new to achieve this. Perhaps, all you need is a new perspective which hasn’t come across your growth path... ...yet. These episodes are: - Short - Too the point - Engaging - Weekly And they have: - Zero scripting. - Zero planning. - Deep insights. - Inspiring stories. - Decades of Parenting experience. ---------------------------- Want to keep receiving unique, helpful & valuable parenting insights? Three simple steps: 1. Subscribe. 2. Follow. 3. Turn On Notifications!

# 95: If you treat parenting like a career instead of a chore, then...

Picture this: Your thirteen-year-old walks into the room. Instead of the usual eye-roll or the retreat into a smartphone, they sit down and ask, "I’m struggling with a choice—what do you think?" In this moment, you realize the transition is complete. You aren't the manager barking orders anymore; you are the trusted consultant. We explore how to trade the exhausting role of the family "nagger" for the prestigious role of the "advisor." By treating parenting as a high-level career rather than a series of chores, we show you how to build a relationship based on influence rather than control. It’s about making yourself replaceable in the small things so you become indispensable in the big ones. Ask Harry & Priya a question: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagG0SbG2nSlWJay3/form | Level Up Your Parenting: https://www.successstacker.com | Stay in the Know: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagW1J7nJ0j8FAmpP/form | ---------------------------- ---------------------------- Do you have some questions, stories or experiences you hope could be featured on the podcast? We could create an ENTIRE EPISODE about YOUR submission! Just use this link to submit: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagG0SbG2nSlWJay3/form ---------------------------- This parenting podcast is not your typical parenting banter. Priya Narthakii (Values Mindset & Peak Parenting Coach & Mother of 2) & Harry Goldberg (Mindset & Performance Coach & Father of 2) provide you with fresh perspectives on how to raise kids who are self-driven, self-motivated, growth-minded and kind. Most importantly, this podcast is for parents who want to have a beautiful relationship with their kids. You don’t need anything new to achieve this. Perhaps, all you need is a new perspective which hasn’t come across your growth path... ...yet. These episodes are: - Short - Too the point - Engaging - Weekly And they have: - Zero scripting. - Zero planning. - Deep insights. - Inspiring stories. - Decades of Parenting experience. ---------------------------- Want to keep receiving unique, helpful & valuable parenting insights? Three simple steps: 1. Subscribe. 2. Follow. 3. Turn On Notifications!

# 94: If you're concerned about your kids weaknesses, then...

Imagine this: It’s five years from now. Your child has spent a decade "fixing" their weaknesses. They are well-rounded, proficient, and utterly miserable. They’ve mastered skills they hate to please a version of you that doesn't exist. By forcing the "one-year commitment" on a child who lacks the "value radar" to understand why, you aren't building character—you're building a habit of resentment. We’re diving into why the traditional parenting advice on "strengths" is failing our kids and how you can stop the cycle before the light in their eyes goes out for good. Ask Harry & Priya a question: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagG0SbG2nSlWJay3/form | Level Up Your Parenting: https://www.successstacker.com | Stay in the Know: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagW1J7nJ0j8FAmpP/form | ---------------------------- ---------------------------- Do you have some questions, stories or experiences you hope could be featured on the podcast? We could create an ENTIRE EPISODE about YOUR submission! Just use this link to submit: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagG0SbG2nSlWJay3/form ---------------------------- This parenting podcast is not your typical parenting banter. Priya Narthakii (Values Mindset & Peak Parenting Coach & Mother of 2) & Harry Goldberg (Mindset & Performance Coach & Father of 2) provide you with fresh perspectives on how to raise kids who are self-driven, self-motivated, growth-minded and kind. Most importantly, this podcast is for parents who want to have a beautiful relationship with their kids. You don’t need anything new to achieve this. Perhaps, all you need is a new perspective which hasn’t come across your growth path... ...yet. These episodes are: - Short - Too the point - Engaging - Weekly And they have: - Zero scripting. - Zero planning. - Deep insights. - Inspiring stories. - Decades of Parenting experience. ---------------------------- Want to keep receiving unique, helpful & valuable parenting insights? Three simple steps: 1. Subscribe. 2. Follow. 3. Turn On Notifications!