Scammers and Saints

Til' Death or Deliverance

Nandi unpacks the grief that comes with losing people—and illusions. From narcissistic family ties to cult-shaped love, she gets real about what it takes to mourn the living, untangle manipulation, and start healing on your own terms. Resources: The birth of modern gynecology [https://www.warwicks.com/book/9781250868459] OBGYN and BIPOC [https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC8170721/] Nandi on Exes & Tea [https://open.spotify.com/episode/6lqutB9C0BJIwlBgESnuH1?si=132c6b916ca44075] Nandi on Life After MLM [https://open.spotify.com/episode/0rd8BK8mVhF1ObkOt3VueG?si=e908934e8dc24662] Contact: Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@scammersandsaints_podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/scammersandsaints_podcast/] Email: hello@scammersandsaints.info An eternity of gratitude to: Whitney Burton Haley Luciani Joshua Dilley Aaliyah Christina Dani Rodriguez Roberta Blevins and Amanda Tricomi

Malevolent Mentorship

Ex-cult member and S&S host Nandi elaborates on the strategies that World Wide Group/Amway has historically utilized to establish mind control over herself and countless others. Resources: Grooming [https://www.met.police.uk/advice/advice-and-information/gr/grooming/] Thought Replacement [https://people.howstuffworks.com/cult4.htm#:~:text=A%20destructive%20cult%20uses%20countless,their%20anti%2Dcapitalist%20political%20ideology.] BITE Model of Authoriatarian Control [https://freedomofmind.com/cult-mind-control/bite-model-pdf-download/] Contact: Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠@scammersandsaints_podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/scammersandsaints_podcast/] Email: hello@scammersandsaints.info An eternity of gratitude to: Whitney Burton Haley Luciani Joshua Dilley Aaliyah Christina Dani Rodriguez Roberta Blevins and Amanda Tricomi

Dystopian Marriage

Nandi recounts some of the worst nightmares of her marriage. Resources: Reactive Abuse [https://www.charliehealth.com/post/what-is-reactive-abuse] Narcissists in Couple's Therapy [https://youtu.be/2XBn3g3uzJs?si=MRuGNdF6oNM4YWvn] Bait and Switch [https://bayareacbtcenter.com/how-to-recognize-and-respond-to-narcissistic-baiting-tactics/] Contact: Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@scammersandsaints_podcast⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/scammersandsaints_podcast/] Email: hello@scammersandsaints.info An eternity of gratitude to: Whitney Burton Haley Luciani Joshua Dilley Aaliyah Christina Dani Rodriguez Roberta Blevins and Amanda Tricomi

Illusions Unraveled Pt. 2

This is the continuation of Episode 4, which homes in on the day-to-day patterns of abuse one might experience in a marriage with a narcissist.

Illusions Unraveled Pt. 1

Nandi zooms in on the subtleties of narcissistic abuse that are hidden between the threads of mundanity in married life. Resources: Trickle Truth [https://medium.com/relationshipfire/trickle-truthing-is-a-subtle-relationship-timebomb-8297a2450a50⁠] Gaslighting [https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/gaslighting⁠] Weaponized Incompetence [https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/basics/weaponized-incompetence] Dog Whistling [https://www.yahoo.com/lifestyle/dog-whistle-tactic-manipulators-diminish-195930582.html?guccounter=1] Contact: Instagram: ⁠⁠@scammersandsaints_podcast⁠⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/scammersandsaints_podcast/] Email: hello@scammersandsaints.info An eternity of gratitude to: Whitney Burton Haley Luciani Joshua Dilley Aaliyah Christina Dani Rodriguez Roberta Blevins and Amanda Tricomi