The Self-Hype Podcast

Dating Apps And Men: How Men Play the Game So You Don’t Have To

Eli doesn’t just talk about “dating app tips.” He pulls the curtain back on the whole system — because these apps are designed to keep you swiping, not to help you find a partner. In this episode, you’ll hear how men move on the apps (spoiler: it’s not deep analysis, it’s survival mode), why men get fewer matches, why women end up “CIA-agent screening” everything, and how both sides start treating humans like dopamine notifications. Eli also calls out the most common profile mistakes that sabotage you: confusing group photos, artsy mystery angles, one-line prompts with no substance, aggressive wounded bios, and IG handles that scream “I’m here for followers.” You’ll leave knowing what men notice, what they assume, and how to build a profile that filters out the unserious ones before you waste a single mascara application.   Learn More about Sahara Rose https://iamsahararose.com/ [https://iamsahararose.com/]   Join My Coaching Membership Below? JOIN HERE [https://stan.store/elivazquez/p/join-my-membership--]   Want A Free Call To Learn About My 8-Week Healing Bootcamp? SCHEDULE HERE [https://selfhype.biz/sales-page1641417872603] Follow The Pod And Eli: https://www.tiktok.com/@itselivazquez [https://www.tiktok.com/@itselivazquez] https://instagram.com/itselivazquez [https://instagram.com/itselivazquez] https://www.instagram.com/theselfhypepodcast/ [https://www.instagram.com/theselfhypepodcast/] https://www.youtube.com/@EliVazquez [https://www.youtube.com/@EliVazquez]   All rights reserved. ©2025 SELF-HYPE LLC #theselfhypepodcast #selfhype #podshuttle #relationships #relationshipadvice

The Hard Truth About Why Your Love Life Will Either Thrive or Collapse in 2026

Eli breaks format and goes straight from the heart — reflecting on the fears he faced this year, the wounds that still sting, and what it really looks like to keep going when life isn’t cute. Because healing isn’t a movie. Sometimes it’s tears, shutdown, and still showing up anyway. This episode is built like a personal wellness coaching session. Eli gives you a step-by-step “think day” framework to close out the year: write down your five fears, trace them to the first time you felt them, figure out what they’re protecting, and turn that into real action for 2026. Then he adds a second tool: asking your people what makes you unique — and what you need to hear going into the new year. If you’re done chasing goals to feel “enough,” this is how you start building from self-worth instead.   Learn More about Sahara Rose https://iamsahararose.com/ [https://iamsahararose.com/]   Join My Coaching Membership Below? JOIN HERE [https://stan.store/elivazquez/p/join-my-membership--]   Want A Free Call To Learn About My 8-Week Healing Bootcamp? SCHEDULE HERE [https://selfhype.biz/sales-page1641417872603] Follow The Pod And Eli: https://www.tiktok.com/@itselivazquez [https://www.tiktok.com/@itselivazquez] https://instagram.com/itselivazquez [https://instagram.com/itselivazquez] https://www.instagram.com/theselfhypepodcast/ [https://www.instagram.com/theselfhypepodcast/] https://www.youtube.com/@EliVazquez [https://www.youtube.com/@EliVazquez]   All rights reserved. ©2025 SELF-HYPE LLC #theselfhypepodcast #selfhype #podshuttle #relationships #relationshipadvice

Avoidant Dating & Why Wanting More Isn’t Asking Too Much w/ Meg Reynolds

In this episode, Eli and Meg Reynolds break down why modern dating feels harder than ever — and why so many people stay stuck in relationships that drain them. Meg introduces the idea of the “ambition gap,” explains why emotional availability matters more than money, and shares how she learned to walk away sooner instead of negotiating her needs. They talk low-effort dating, inconsistent communication, why “he’s just busy” is usually a red flag, and how boundaries aren’t ultimatums — they’re clarity. Honest, validating, and unfiltered, this conversation is for anyone tired of blaming themselves for wanting consistency, growth, and real emotional connection.   Learn More about Sahara Rose https://iamsahararose.com/ [https://iamsahararose.com/]   Join My Coaching Membership Below? JOIN HERE [https://stan.store/elivazquez/p/join-my-membership--]   Want A Free Call To Learn About My 8-Week Healing Bootcamp? SCHEDULE HERE [https://selfhype.biz/sales-page1641417872603] Follow The Pod And Eli: https://www.tiktok.com/@itselivazquez [https://www.tiktok.com/@itselivazquez] https://instagram.com/itselivazquez [https://instagram.com/itselivazquez] https://www.instagram.com/theselfhypepodcast/ [https://www.instagram.com/theselfhypepodcast/] https://www.youtube.com/@EliVazquez [https://www.youtube.com/@EliVazquez]   All rights reserved. ©2025 SELF-HYPE LLC #theselfhypepodcast #selfhype #podshuttle #relationships #relationshipadvice

How To Heal During The Holidays: A No BS Survival Guide

If the holidays make you feel like the only single person in a sea of matching pajama sets and forehead kisses, this episode will feel like a warm hug. Eli yaps, rants, and gets real about what it means to feel lonely during the “happiest time of the year” — even when you’re in a relationship. He breaks down how comparison steals your joy, why every emotion that surfaces right now is a teacher, and how to treat this season like a lesson in self-love instead of a reminder of what you don’t have. You’ll learn how to set boundaries with messy family members, honor your capacity, lean into gratitude, and make this your season — not your ex’s, not society’s, not Instagram’s. If you’ve ever felt behind, broken, or “too much,” this episode is the reminder that your story has always been yours. And this time of year? It’s for you. Learn More about Sahara Rose https://iamsahararose.com/ [https://iamsahararose.com/]   Join My Coaching Membership Below? JOIN HERE [https://stan.store/elivazquez/p/join-my-membership--]   Want A Free Call To Learn About My 8-Week Healing Bootcamp? SCHEDULE HERE [https://selfhype.biz/sales-page1641417872603] Follow The Pod And Eli: https://www.tiktok.com/@itselivazquez [https://www.tiktok.com/@itselivazquez] https://instagram.com/itselivazquez [https://instagram.com/itselivazquez] https://www.instagram.com/theselfhypepodcast/ [https://www.instagram.com/theselfhypepodcast/] https://www.youtube.com/@EliVazquez [https://www.youtube.com/@EliVazquez]   All rights reserved. ©2025 SELF-HYPE LLC #theselfhypepodcast #selfhype #podshuttle #relationships #relationshipadvice

Rock Bottom to Reborn: Unlocking Your Feminine Healing Journey w/ Sahara Rose

What happens when the life you built collapses overnight? Sahara Rose joins Eli for a profound conversation about feminine healing, spiritual awakening, and reclaiming your identity after betrayal. She shares how one devastating confession shattered her marriage—and how it initiated her into a deeper version of herself she didn’t even know existed. Sahara breaks down the truth about spiritual healing (hint: it’s messy, ugly, and absolutely necessary), why women stay in relationships that starve their souls, and how to stop living on breadcrumbs of love. They dive into sacred sexuality, the porn-driven crisis in masculinity, and how partners can create deeper emotional and spiritual intimacy. This episode is a powerful reminder that heartbreak isn’t the end—it’s the portal into your most aligned, awakened self. Learn More about Sahara Rose https://iamsahararose.com/ [https://iamsahararose.com/]   Join My Coaching Membership Below? JOIN HERE [https://stan.store/elivazquez/p/join-my-membership--]   Want A Free Call To Learn About My 8-Week Healing Bootcamp? SCHEDULE HERE [https://selfhype.biz/sales-page1641417872603] Follow The Pod And Eli: https://www.tiktok.com/@itselivazquez [https://www.tiktok.com/@itselivazquez] https://instagram.com/itselivazquez [https://instagram.com/itselivazquez] https://www.instagram.com/theselfhypepodcast/ [https://www.instagram.com/theselfhypepodcast/] https://www.youtube.com/@EliVazquez [https://www.youtube.com/@EliVazquez]   All rights reserved. ©2025 SELF-HYPE LLC #theselfhypepodcast #selfhype #podshuttle #relationships #relationshipadvice