that is the question

Ep25 - Are we dating the same guy? Apps, integrity and accountability

Ever wondered if the guy you were dating wasn't quite who he said he was? In this episode I am joined by journalist, TV presenter and radio host, Mary Mandefield to delve into the complicated world of online dating, and whether it is possible to have honesty and accountability in our increasingly digital lives. You can follow Mary's Instagram here [https://www.instagram.com/mary.mandefield/#] and for more information on her recent and upcoming projects, check out her website [https://www.marymandefield.com/?utm_content=link_in_bio&fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAc3J0YwZhcHBfaWQMMjU2MjgxMDQwNTU4AAGnR_RIuGotGhjJ1oLa5RL_lg8ylPJy2OlOV0UQ5Dqz0FVAsJGxVARZZiB4P68_aem_NFbq0Fi4y6DriGjNC1ktVw]. You can also find more content from me on my socials @that.isthequestion [https://www.instagram.com/that.isthequestion/#]!

Ep24 - How are pop culture representations failing us?

Joining me for this episode is writer, content creator, and voice behind the highly popular substack 'Bad Asian': Katy Ho. In this conversation we delve into the complexities of pop culture representations of Asian women, the trend of the 'performative male', and the issues surrounding male loneliness and the crisis of masculinity. You can find Katy on Instagram @katyho_ [https://www.instagram.com/katyho_/#] and check out her substack here [https://katyho.substack.com/]! And for more content from me you can also find my Instagram @that.isthequestion [https://www.instagram.com/that.isthequestion/#].

Ep23 - Pleasure, porn and patriarchy

We are kickstarting 2026 with a conversation with the spectacular Reed Amber. Reed is a sex educator, adult content creator, and co-host of the award-winning podcast ‘Come Curious’. You can follow Reed on Instagram @reedamberx [https://www.instagram.com/reedamberx/#] Check out her podcast with Florence Bark, Come Curious, here [https://open.spotify.com/show/4nQnVqQcEn4ptshlKjtdqo?si=9cd71620a4014174]. And for information and links to more of Reed's work, check out her Linktree [https://linktr.ee/reedamberxx]. For more content from me you can also follow my Instagram @that.isthequestion [https://www.instagram.com/that.isthequestion/#].

SOLO SERIES Ep7 - Reflecting on 2025

Two years since my last reflections on the year episode, so I thought it was time to look back on what 2025 has taught me, with a little help from my audience. You can find more content from me on my Instagram @that.isthequestion [https://www.instagram.com/that.isthequestion/?next=%2F#].

SOLO SERIES Ep6 - Can cosmetic procedures ever be a feminist choice?

Can women be empowered by choosing to undergo procedures to change or enhance their appearance? Is there such thing as an entirely free decision? What do we mean by a feminist choice? In this episode, we unpick all of the above as I discuss your responses to my question; 'Can cosmetic procedures ever be a feminist choice?'. For more content from me and to contribute to future episodes you can follow my Instagram @that.isthequestion [https://www.instagram.com/that.isthequestion/?next=%2F#].