The Safe Pod

Spouse vs God

A spouse is a blessing from God and just as the bible says, "Is a good thing". However, do we sometimes put our spouses in places where they shouldn't. As a personal assistant, a cleaner, a cook.....God? Join Yemi (Facilitator), Tega (Guest), Abisoye and Shalom (Guest), as they discuss the pressure we might be putting on our spouses by trying to make them something they are not.

Like Father Like Son

We often hear things like "The apple doesn't fall far from the tree", but how true is that? Are there just some things that you can't escape as a result of being the seed of your father or coming from the loins of your mother? If so, is it possible, to have something strong enough to overcome these things? Join Genesis (Facilitator), Bernard Franklin and Yemisi Emmanuel (Guest), as they discuss how much of an influence having blood ties really has on you.

The Lust Man

We have come to understand lust as a “strong” sexual desire for someone. Some might say it is a strong desire to please oneself. This means that l can lust for money, I can lust for dresses, for anything. The “sexual” lust seems to be one of the strongest and unchecked lusts there is today. As a result, men/women have looked to things like porn, fornication and more to satisfy themselves. What exactly is the difference between “lust” and “love”? Join Abisoye (Facilitator), Timi & Peter as they discuss the nuances around what it means to really lust.

Finding "The One"

We've all been told to find "the one" for us, but what if someone has found my "one"? Does that mean there's no "one" for me anymore? Join Yemi (Facilitator), Bernard Franklin & Dami, as they explore the possible answers and if the idea of "the one" is plausible or just a lie we've been sold.

The Finger Stops at You

It only makes sense to point when others are pointing, but at some point we have to ask "Why are we pointing? and why in that direction?". Join Abisoye (Facilitator), Yusuf and Peter, as we reflect inwards and discuss the parts we have to play, in both finding out how and why we started pointing fingers and if/why they need to stop.