Split | A Podcast on Modern Divorce

Episode 13: The 50/50 Custody Debate: Why One Size Doesn’t Fit All

Gus Dimopoulos dives into a surprisingly complicated issue: 50/50 custody. A lot of people hear “equal time” and assume it’s automatically fair. But what if the system is treating 50/50 like the default solution even when it doesn’t fit the family? Gus discusses when 50/50 works, when it doesn’t, and why conflict, safety, and the child’s best interests have to come first.

Episode 11: When Suspicion Meets Strategy: Divorce Law & Investigation

This episode is about what people get wrong – and right – when it comes to private investigators in divorce cases. Despite what TV and movies suggest, this isn’t about drama or catching someone in the act. It’s about timing, legality, strategy, and protecting yourself. Jessica Zannetti, a Principal and Head of Research and Investigations at Sound Waters Intelligence, has extensive experience working alongside divorce attorneys on cases involving infidelity, hidden assets, custody concerns, and high-conflict situations. She brings a unique perspective on investigations, and how being a woman in this field can change what information people share, what gets noticed, and ultimately, what holds up legally. If you’ve ever had a gut feeling you weren’t sure what to do with or wondered when to ask questions versus when to stay quiet, this episode is for you.

Episode 10: The Biggest Trends Reshaping Divorce Law in 2026 - Guest: Jill Spielberg, Esq. Partner at Abrams Fensterman, LLP

In this episode of Split: A Podcast on Modern Divorce, host and New York family law attorney Gus Dimopoulos sits down with Jill Spielberg, Esq., Partner at Abrams Fensterman, to unpack the biggest trends reshaping divorce law in 2026. From the rise of high-conflict personality dynamics and coercive control to the growing number of parental alienation claims and emergency court filings, Gus and Jill explore how modern divorce is increasingly influenced by psychology, social media, and more proactive judicial intervention. Together, they break down what these shifts mean for families, lawyers, and mental health professionals -- and how individuals navigating divorce today can better protect themselves in a rapidly evolving legal landscape.

Episode 9: Divorce & Money: Financial Abuse, Hidden Assets, and Crypto

Today, we’re digging into the financial side of divorce, and not just the dollars and cents. We’ll talk about financial abuse, how hidden assets are uncovered, and why cryptocurrency is creating a whole new set of challenges in divorce cases. To guide us through it, I’m joined by Nicholas Himonidis, who has seen firsthand how finances can shape the outcome of a divorce. Nick owns and operates The NGH Group, is an attorney, licensed Private Investigator, Certified Fraud Examiner, including expertise in Computer and Cryptocurrency Forensics. This is going to be a fascinating conversation - let’s dive in.

Episode 8: Navigating Complex Dynamics in Divorce

We're diving into the complicated human behaviors that often shape divorce -- narcissism, mental health challenges, addiction, and high-conflict personalities. These dynamics don’t exist outside the legal process; they influence every decision. This conversation offers insight into how attorneys navigate those realities while protecting clients emotionally as well as legally.