The Kids or Childfree Podcast

89. Keltie Maguire on Key Coaching Takeaways During Season 6

In this episode, Keltie Maguire discusses some of the key themes and insights that have come up in her private and group coaching sessions during Season 6 of The Kids or Childfree Podcast, as well as episodes from Season 6 that address these topics. MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE 👉 (1:57) Start with the clarity you DO have ▸ Lisa Sibbett on a "Childful" Life as an Auntie https://youtu.be/3jx_vDnN80U [https://youtu.be/3jx_vDnN80U] ▸ Lisa Patterson on Reinventing Parenting Gender Norms https://youtu.be/RIBohGjaQGc [https://youtu.be/RIBohGjaQGc] ▸ On Demand: Discover Your Desires https://keltiemaguire.thrivecart.com/discover-your-desires-on-demand/ [https://keltiemaguire.thrivecart.com/discover-your-desires-on-demand/] 👉 (9:37) Your value with or without children ▸ Laura Carroll on the Influence of Pronatalism on Your Kids or Childfree Choice https://youtu.be/hbcBNrDRCWA [https://youtu.be/hbcBNrDRCWA] ▸ Zoë Noble on Cultivating Childfree Community https://youtu.be/LG66KPG2nzo [https://youtu.be/LG66KPG2nzo] ▸ On Demand: Other People https://keltiemaguire.thrivecart.com/other-people-on-demand/ [https://keltiemaguire.thrivecart.com/other-people-on-demand/] 👉 (18:58) Deciding from the place you are currently ▸ Carrie Hauskens on a Childfree Life After Loss https://youtu.be/ZAy40xWlFjw [https://youtu.be/ZAy40xWlFjw] ▸ Lia Love Avellino, LCSW on Grieving Your Past Life in Motherhood https://youtu.be/VSyvll_I94c [https://youtu.be/VSyvll_I94c] ▸ On Demand: Navigating Difficult Emotions https://keltiemaguire.thrivecart.com/navigating-difficult-emotions-on-demand/ [https://keltiemaguire.thrivecart.com/navigating-difficult-emotions-on-demand/] 👉 (29:41) Accept & embrace the unknown ▸ Ask Anne with Childfree 91-Year-Old Anne Wennhold https://youtu.be/EalIknfBD9U [https://youtu.be/EalIknfBD9U] ▸ Katie Palazzo on Life as an Adventurer Turned Stay-At-Home Mom https://youtu.be/yZaVidB4WDQ [https://youtu.be/yZaVidB4WDQ] ▸ On Demand: An Uncertain Future https://keltiemaguire.thrivecart.com/an-uncertain-future-on-demand/ [https://keltiemaguire.thrivecart.com/an-uncertain-future-on-demand/] _ MORE HELP FOR YOUR KIDS OR CHILDFREE DECISION Start Here: sign up for an upcoming WORKSHOP 🔗 https://kidsorchildfree.com/workshop [https://kidsorchildfree.com/workshop] Join a GROUP PROGRAM 🔗 Kids or Childfree Group Program ▸ https://www.kidsorchildfree.com/kids-or-childfree-program [https://www.kidsorchildfree.com/kids-or-childfree-program] 🔗Confidently Childfree Group Intensive ▸ https://www.kidsorchildfree.com/confidently-childfree-group-intensive [https://www.kidsorchildfree.com/confidently-childfree-group-intensive] Access an ON DEMAND class 🔗 Peruse the entire On Demand Collection ▸ https://www.kidsorchildfree.com/ondemand [https://www.kidsorchildfree.com/ondemand] Join one of our monthly SUPPORT SERIES sessions 🔗 Kids or Childfree Support Series ▸ https://kidsorchildfree.com/kids-or-childfree-support-series [https://kidsorchildfree.com/kids-or-childfree-support-series] 🔗Confidently Childfree Support Series ▸ https://kidsorchildfree.com/confidently-childfree-support-series [https://kidsorchildfree.com/confidently-childfree-support-series] Work with me in 1-on-1 COACHING 🔗 https://kidsorchildfree.com/coaching FREE resources ▸ https://kidsorchildfree.com/free-resources [https://kidsorchildfree.com/free-resources] CONNECT ONLINE 💻 Website ▸ http://kidsorchildfree.com [http://kidsorchildfree.com] 📸 Instagram ▸ http://instagram.com/kidsorchildfree [http://instagram.com/kidsorchildfree] ⏰ Tiktok ▸ https://tiktok.com/@kidsorchildfree [https://tiktok.com/@kidsorchildfree] 👉 Brought to you by Keltie Maguire, Clarity Coach ▸ http://keltiemaguire.com [http://keltiemaguire.com] Love what you're hearing? 💕 Subscribe | Like | Comment | Share with a friend

88. Zoë Noble on Cultivating Childfree Community

In this conversation, Keltie Maguire is joined by We Are Childfree founder, Zoë Noble, for a conversation that's a celebration of the childfree choice. Hear them discuss: * The inspiration behind We Are Childfree and why Zoë personally chose the childfree path * How friendships — and especially those with parents — can evolve over time * How to cultivate childfree community * The myths surrounding aging without children * The importance of advocating for a more inclusive and understanding childfree community As mentioned in the show: Find We Are Childfree online at wearechildfree.com [https://wearechildfree.com/]. Join We Are Childfree'a private community here: wwearechildfree.com/join [https://wearechildfree.com/join/] We Are Childfree is on social media at: Instagram at instagram.com/weare.childfree [https://www.instagram.com/weare.childfree/] TikTok at tiktok.com/@wearechildfree [https://www.tiktok.com/@wearechildfree] YouTube at youtube.com/c/WeareChildfree [https://www.youtube.com/c/WeareChildfree] Tune into the We Are Childfree podcast: wearechildfree.com/podcasts [https://wearechildfree.com/podcasts/] About Zoë: Zoe Noble is a photographer and the founder of We are Childfree, a global movement celebrating childfree lives. Through portraits, podcasts and workshops, she works to destigmatise non-parenthood and build inclusive communities where childfree people feel seen, supported and empowered to live authentically. _ Check out our brand-new Kids or Childfree On Demand collection [https://www.kidsorchildfree.com/ondemand]. Check out our free resources here [https://www.kidsorchildfree.com/free-resources], or at kidsorchildfree.com/free-resources https://www.kidsorchildfree.com/responseguide And don't forget to subscribe, rate, and review The Kids or Childfree Podcast if you love what you're hearing! You can leave a rating and review on Apple Podcasts [https://podcasts.apple.com/de/podcast/the-kids-or-childfree-podcast/id1720765874], or a rating on Spotify [https://open.spotify.com/show/1H8Cjavw0ThIxFUyxlNnzA?si=X0tu4janTi-5OsMdoHPZbg]. Find us online at www.kidsorchildfree.com [https://www.kidsorchildfree.com/]. Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/kidsorchildfree]: www.instagram.com/kidsorchildfree

87. Melissa Guida-Richards on The Nuances of Adoption

In this conversation, Keltie sits down with transracial adoptee, author, and advocate, Melissa Guida-Richards, for a conversation about adoption, and the considerations prospective adoptive parents need to make. They discuss: * Melissa's personal experience as an adoptee, and why it's critical that we listen to and learn from adoptees. * The key question prospective adoptive parents need to ask themselves before they adopt. * The myth that adopting an infant offers that child — and its adoptive parents — a "fresh start." * Why adoption agencies who encourage people to adopt outside of their adoption preferences, can be problematic. * The different kinds of adoption, and the respective practical and ethical considerations that must be made. As mentioned in the show: Find Melissa on Instagram at @adoptee_thoughts [https://www.instagram.com/adoptee_thoughts] Her website is www.adopteethoughts.com [https://www.adopteethoughts.com/books/] Purchase Melissa's book and it's accompanying workbook, What White Parents Should Know About Transracial Adoption: adopteethoughts.com/books [https://www.adopteethoughts.com/books/] For adoption resources, check out adoptionsupport.org [https://adoptionsupport.org/] (C.A.S.E) and adopteementorship.org [https://www.adopteementorship.org/]. About Melissa: Melissa Guida-Richards is a transracial adoptee, author, and advocate whose work explores child welfare, adoption influencers ethics and reform. She is the author of What White Parents Should Know About Transracial Adoption and she's had her writing and interviews featured on national platforms including NBC, Good Day LA and Tamron Hall. She is currently working on her next book with her agent, Kat Kerr, from Donald Maass Literary Agency. You can find her @adoptee_thoughts or AdopteeThoughts.com. __ Check out our brand-new Kids or Childfree On Demand collection [https://www.kidsorchildfree.com/ondemand]. Check out our free resources here [https://www.kidsorchildfree.com/free-resources], or at kidsorchildfree.com/free-resources https://www.kidsorchildfree.com/responseguideAnd don't forget to subscribe, rate, and review The Kids or Childfree Podcast if you love what you're hearing! You can leave a rating and review on Apple Podcasts [https://podcasts.apple.com/de/podcast/the-kids-or-childfree-podcast/id1720765874], or a rating on Spotify [https://open.spotify.com/show/1H8Cjavw0ThIxFUyxlNnzA?si=X0tu4janTi-5OsMdoHPZbg]. Find us online at www.kidsorchildfree.com [https://www.kidsorchildfree.com/]. Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/kidsorchildfree]: www.instagram.com/kidsorchildfree

86. Ask Anne with Childfree 91-Year-Old Anne Wennhold

In this episode, Keltie is joined by past guest, Anne Wennhold — a 91-year-old who is childfree by choice — for a special "Ask Anne" Q&A. Keltie and Anne discuss... * Why the 70s and 80s were the best years of Anne's life. * Why Anne often finds it difficult relating to other people her age. * How we can handle the difficulties and challenges that inevitably will arise in our lives. * Anne's secret to maintaining friendships with parents. * How Anne has navigated seeing her friends and loved ones die. * Perspectives on who to leave your possessions and money to when you die as a childfree person. As mentioned in the show: Listen to Anne's first appearance on the podcast in Episode 62 [https://www.kidsorchildfree.com/podcast/episode/2b7ea0b5/62-anne-wennhold-on-being-childfree-by-choice-at-90]. Here's the Conscious Eldering blog post [https://www.centerforconsciouseldering.com/2024/01/05/navigating-the-tipping-point-a-journey-into-elderhood/] that Anne wrote which we discussed. About Anne: Here's Anne in her words: "I live alone in northern New Jersey. I was widowed at an early age, have no children by choice. My chosen family is scattered about the USA and available by phone and Zoom. At 90 years old, I am focused on working with elders who are interested in continuing to grow as human and spiritual beings, and sharing with them all aspects of living to an older age including having children or not." __ Check out our brand-new Kids or Childfree On Demand collection [https://www.kidsorchildfree.com/ondemand]. Check out our free resources here [https://www.kidsorchildfree.com/free-resources], or at kidsorchildfree.com/free-resources https://www.kidsorchildfree.com/responseguideAnd don't forget to subscribe, rate, and review The Kids or Childfree Podcast if you love what you're hearing! You can leave a rating and review on Apple Podcasts [https://podcasts.apple.com/de/podcast/the-kids-or-childfree-podcast/id1720765874], or a rating on Spotify [https://open.spotify.com/show/1H8Cjavw0ThIxFUyxlNnzA?si=X0tu4janTi-5OsMdoHPZbg]. Find us online at www.kidsorchildfree.com [https://www.kidsorchildfree.com/]. Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/kidsorchildfree]: www.instagram.com/kidsorchildfree

85. Lisa Patterson on Reinventing Parenting Gender Norms

In this episode, Keltie is joined by friend, Lisa Patterson, who shares how her and her partner are navigating parenting roles in a way that goes against traditional norms. Hear Keltie and Lisa discuss... * How Lisa made the decision to become a parent, despite it not having been a part of her life's "success criteria" * How she and her partner have communicated about and negotiated their respective parenting roles * The way others have responded to Lisa and Andy's role reversal of "primary" and "secondary" parent * The perks of raising a child outside of the U.S. * The tension between and trouble fitting the all-or-nothing categories of "mom" vs. "career woman". As mentioned in the show Find Lisa on Instagram at instagram.com/captlisann [https://www.instagram.com/captlisann/] About Lisa Lisa Patterson is an outdoor enthusiast, tech nerd, vinophile and working mom. __ Join an upcoming Kids or Childfree workshop here: kidsorchildfree.com/workshop [https://www.kidsorchildfree.com/workshop] Check out our free resources here [https://www.kidsorchildfree.com/free-resources], or at kidsorchildfree.com/free-resources https://www.kidsorchildfree.com/responseguideAnd don't forget to subscribe, rate, and review The Kids or Childfree Podcast if you love what you're hearing! You can leave a rating and review on Apple Podcasts [https://podcasts.apple.com/de/podcast/the-kids-or-childfree-podcast/id1720765874], or a rating on Spotify [https://open.spotify.com/show/1H8Cjavw0ThIxFUyxlNnzA?si=X0tu4janTi-5OsMdoHPZbg]. Find us online at www.kidsorchildfree.com [https://www.kidsorchildfree.com/]. Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/kidsorchildfree]: www.instagram.com/kidsorchildfree TikTok [https://www.tiktok.com/@kidsorchildfree]: www.tiktok.com/@kidsorchildfree