Beyond the Collar

Packs, Handlers, Oh My!

🎙️ Episode 3: Packs, Handlers, Oh My! Curious about packs, handlers, and how they fit into pup play? In this episode, we break down what they are (and aren’t), how to find them respectfully, and why asking “Will you be my handler?” right away might not be the best move. We’ll talk about: * The different types of packs (structured vs casual) * What a handler actually does * How to connect without being pushy * The benefits of having a pack or handler * Checklists for pups and handlers to help you start on the right paw Whether you’re a solo pup, a curious newcomer, or thinking about becoming a handler yourself — this episode gives you the info and confidence to explore deeper connections in the pup community. 🐾 Safe, curious, and playfully structured — just like a good mosh.

Beginning Your Pup Play Journey

So You’re Curious About Pup Play? Here’s How to Start Whether you’ve just discovered human pup play or you’ve been circling the fire hydrant for a while, this episode is your guide to getting started. Khaos shares personal experiences and practical tips on how to explore pup play safely, authentically, and at your own pace — no gear, partner, or previous experience required. We cover: How to ease into pup mindset Setting boundaries and staying safe The role of community and finding your “pack” Why gear is fun (but never required) Real stories from nearly a decade in the pup scene 🐾 If you’re curious but unsure where to begin, this episode was made for you.

Celebrating Pride: History, Activisim, and Inclusion

Pride Month is more than rainbow flags and parades — it’s a powerful legacy of resistance, remembrance, and radical love. In this episode, we dive deep into the true origins of Pride, from the Stonewall Riots to the first marches, honoring the activists who paved the way — especially those too often forgotten, like trans women of color and people lost during the HIV/AIDS crisis. We explore what it really means to be inclusive, shining a light on the full LGBTQIA+ spectrum — including asexual, intersex, disabled, BIPOC, and kink/BDSM communities — and why their voices matter now more than ever. We confront rising anti-LGBTQ+ legislation, talk about the ongoing debates around kink at Pride, and challenge respectability politics that seek to divide us. Pride is not about perfection. It’s about presence. Protest. Power. And people. Because if everyone isn’t welcome, it’s not Pride. 🔗 Join us as we remember where we came from — and commit to where we’re going.

What is Puppy Play?

In this episode, two hosts discuss the intriguing world of human puppy play. Whether you’re new to the concept or curious to learn more, they break down its origins, explore what it means to participants, and dispel common misconceptions. Discover how puppy play fosters fun, self-expression, and a sense of community—no gear required, just an open mind!