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Dr. Christine Cocchiola discusses the methods of narcissistic abusers and her experience helping survivors. 00:00 Narcissists plan to abuse you 02:42 Language for control 03:49 Abusers use mockery 04:23 Covert Authority 05:51 Coercive Control Defined 07:25 Dr. C's experience of coercive control 08:55 Threats of Suicide 10:17 Unspoken Threats 10:58 What motivates abusers? 15:58 Trauma Bonds are like torture 20:32 Preventing narcissistic abuse 23:53 Recognizing evil 25:07 Ideal victims 27:50 You don't see the betrayal 29:32 Write down the behavior 32:27 Can you expose a narcissist? 33:40 SMEAR CAMPAIGNS start day 1 38:55 Provoke & Record (Reactive Abuse) 42:55 Love bombing is a trap 43:39 Signs of love bombing 44:21 Abusers will have inauthentic relationships 48:10 how to protect your identity 49:51 Persectutor, Rescuer, Victim Triangle 52:34 Find Dr. Cocchiola online 52:54 Dr. Cocchiola's experience helping survivors  54:44 SHARE this episode. Raise awareness about narcissistic abuse.  DISCLAIMER: The information provided is for educational purposes only and should not be considered as a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice from a qualified healthcare provider. ----------------------------  RELATED LINKS Dr. Peter Salerno on Narcissistic Abuse: https://youtu.be/yx-0px-ymtM [https://youtu.be/yx-0px-ymtM] Dr. George Simon on Narcissists and Manipulation: https://youtu.be/rThlIF1Hzp4 [https://youtu.be/rThlIF1Hzp4] Prof. Sam Vaknin on Narcissistic Abuse: https://youtu.be/MVulOdCa1YU [https://youtu.be/MVulOdCa1YU] Dr. Kerry McAvoy on Narcissistic Abuse: https://youtu.be/lkxBdZs2VLk [https://youtu.be/lkxBdZs2VLk] Narcissistic Abuse Recovery: https://youtu.be/XXP941XRLUI [https://youtu.be/XXP941XRLUI] Narcissistic Relationships Episode: https://youtu.be/dl52f2vy7FQ [https://youtu.be/dl52f2vy7FQ] Dr. Cocchiola's website: https://www.coercivecontrolconsulting.com/ [https://www.coercivecontrolconsulting.com/] Dr. Cocchiola's channel: @DrCocchiola  🔔 SUBSCRIBE to help get more guests on the show: https://goo.gl/uEAeNp [https://goo.gl/uEAeNp] ✉️ Get Immediately Actionable Tactics to Be More Strategic: http://eepurl.com/dELB39 [http://eepurl.com/dELB39] -------------------------- #narcissisticabuse

H.G. Tudor discusses smear campaigns, manipulation, emotional thinking, and the mind of a narcissistic psychopath. 00:00 The Golden Rule of Freedom 00:23 Get Out. Stay Out. 02:22 The SMEAR CAMPAIGN starts before the breakup 03:02 The Narcissist's Prime Aims 03:41 You are an appliance 05:03 The SMEARING is to control you 06:33 The Narcissist values lies 10:21 Some narcissists are consciously SMEARING 13:26 Specific Language. Narcissistic Fuel. 16:01 Does talk fuel the narcissist? 17:35 Getting in 22:18 You are witnessing your own future 24:57 How is the Fuel Matrix structured? 32:08 Who obeys the narcissist? 33:50 Triangulation and Brainwashing 37:39 The Majority Effect 43:01 Emotional thinking 47:23 Emotional thinking makes you vulnerable to love bombing 50:20 How to spot a narcissist 51:59 How narcissists spot victims 54:16 digital SMEAR CAMPAIGNS 57:32 Do Flying Monkeys get tired of SMEARING? 59:47 Laziness and narcissists 01:01:48 find HG Tudor online 01:03:47 Narcissistic psychopath's meaning of life 01:04:58 Maintaining The Matrix 01:05:33 Does awareness change a narcissist? 01:07:24 How Narcissists use religion 01:10:16 Aging and narcissism 01:12:03 HG Tudor's last word DISCLAIMER: The information provided is for educational purposes only and should not be considered as a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice from a qualified healthcare provider.  ---------------------------- RELATED LINKS Dr. Peter Salerno on Narcissistic Abuse: https://youtu.be/yx-0px-ymtM [https://youtu.be/yx-0px-ymtM] Dr. George Simon on Narcissists and Manipulation: https://youtu.be/rThlIF1Hzp4 [https://youtu.be/rThlIF1Hzp4] Prof. Sam Vaknin on Narcissistic Abuse: https://youtu.be/MVulOdCa1YU [https://youtu.be/MVulOdCa1YU] Dr. Kerry McAvoy on Narcissistic Abuse: https://youtu.be/lkxBdZs2VLk [https://youtu.be/lkxBdZs2VLk] Narcissistic Abuse Recovery: https://youtu.be/XXP941XRLUI [https://youtu.be/XXP941XRLUI] Narcissistic Relationships Episode: https://youtu.be/dl52f2vy7FQ [https://youtu.be/dl52f2vy7FQ] HG Tudor's website: narcsite.com  HG Tudor's channel:  @hgtudor-theultra  [https://studio.youtube.com/channel/UC5zIX8qBAl2CUIyF9AeTjaA] HG Tudor's books: https://amzn.to/4cATHgn [https://amzn.to/4cATHgn] 🔔 SUBSCRIBE to help get more guests on the show: https://goo.gl/uEAeNp [https://goo.gl/uEAeNp] ✉️ Get Immediately Actionable Tactics to Be More Strategic: http://eepurl.com/dELB39 [http://eepurl.com/dELB39] --------------------------  #narcissisticabuse

Anoushka Marcin discusses the inevitable harm of relationships with narcissists. 00:00 Narcissists will harm you 00:44 Sex for the Narcissist 01:23 Sex as a tool for control 03:53 Spotting the Narcissist early 05:48 Future Faking and promises 06:29 Isolation, Cult Behavior, SMEAR CAMPAIGN 08:44 Narcissists will trap you 10:19 Trauma bonding 11:21 Trauma in relationships 12:31 The victim is uncomfortable in their own body 13:13 The goal of Gaslighting 15:58 Breaking your reality test 17:32 Compliance is the Narcissist's greatest need 18:26 Narcissist's lies feel good 19:54 The Discard is a long silent treatment. 24:41 Narcissist's trail of destruction 25:21 Comply. Otherwise I'll make your life Hell. 25:44 The cost of staying with the Narcissist 27:10 Healthy breakups 28:03 Protecting people from the Narcissist 29:22 Recovering from the Narcissist 30:54 Lessons from the Narcissist 31:35 Rebuilding your identity 33:45 Reframing your identity 37:05 Anoushka's trauma experience 38:51 Find Anoushka online 39:35 Anoushka's experience helping survivors 40:44 SHARE this episode. Raise awareness about narcissistic abuse. DISCLAIMER: The information provided is for educational purposes only and should not be considered as a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice from a qualified healthcare provider. ---------------------------- RELATED LINKS Dr. Peter Salerno on Narcissistic Abuse: https://youtu.be/yx-0px-ymtM [https://youtu.be/yx-0px-ymtM] Dr. George Simon on Narcissists and Manipulation: https://youtu.be/rThlIF1Hzp4 [https://youtu.be/rThlIF1Hzp4] Prof. Sam Vaknin on Narcissistic Abuse: https://youtu.be/MVulOdCa1YU [https://youtu.be/MVulOdCa1YU] Dr. Kerry McAvoy on Narcissistic Abuse: https://youtu.be/lkxBdZs2VLk [https://youtu.be/lkxBdZs2VLk] Narcissistic Abuse Recovery: https://youtu.be/XXP941XRLUI [https://youtu.be/XXP941XRLUI] Narcissistic Relationships Episode: https://youtu.be/dl52f2vy7FQ Anoushka's website: askanoushka.co.uk Anoushka's channel: ⁠ @anoushkamarcin ⁠ [https://studio.youtube.com/channel/UC-cXb6DkHL43qXl1y3h351g] 🔔 SUBSCRIBE to help get more guests on the show: https://goo.gl/uEAeNp [https://goo.gl/uEAeNp] ✉️ Get Immediately Actionable Tactics to Be More Strategic: http://eepurl.com/dELB39 [http://eepurl.com/dELB39] -------------------------- #narcissisticabuse

Kevin McKee ( @TheRoyalWe  [https://studio.youtube.com/channel/UCjl9RgJSokTXPR68wsrX7Zw]) discusses the manipulation, mimickry, social control and smear campaigning of narcissists. Kevin shares his three phases of the journey of healing. 00:00 - Narcissist need you to be dependent 01:03 - Narcissists have no identity 03:42 - Giving is a trap 07:10 - Discernment with receiving gifts 10:55 - Giving time can be a tool too 11:08 - The danger of being mimicked 14:23 - Defense against mimickry 15:57 - Narcissists are computers and chameleons 17:32 - Testing an accomplice 19:33 - Narcissists are tribalistic 20:20 - Narcissist's SMEAR CAMPAIGN will turn on you 21:31 - Victims of compliance. The Narcissists fan club. 26:45 - How to spot flying monkeys 27:10 - The Enablers hurt you the most 29:50 - Hell's deepest circle is for betrayers 31:45 - Narcissists are threatened by independence 33:53 - Narcissists can't succeed among independent thinking 35:02 - They will try to destroy you 35:12 - Prevent a SMEAR CAMPAIGN? 35:33 - How to End a SMEAR CAMPAIGN 36:16 - People who listen to SMEAR CAMPAIGN are not your friends 37:15 - You can choose your family 38:19 - How to confidently leave people 38:42 - purging. rock bottom. ego death 41:59 - Hope helps. But it will not be easy. 43:23 - Don't look back 46:10 - The cost of staying with narcissists 46:58 - You are limited by the narcissist's group 50:36 - Can narcissists be redeemed? 53:17 - What are the steps of healing narcissistic abuse? 53:36 - Introspection 55:12 - Validation 57:58 - Transformation 1:01:12 - how to heal faster 1:02:34 - Pain can protect you 1:05:21 - Narcissists kill people 1:06:46 - find Kevin online 1:07:03 - Give yourself permission. 1:08:41 - Narcissists don't give closure 1:09:31 - SHARE this episode. Raise awareness about narcissistic abuse. DISCLAIMER: The information provided is for educational purposes only and should not be considered as a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice from a qualified healthcare provider. ----------------------------  RELATED LINKS Dr. Peter Salerno on Narcissistic Abuse: https://youtu.be/yx-0px-ymtM [https://youtu.be/yx-0px-ymtM] Dr. George Simon on Narcissists and Manipulation: https://youtu.be/rThlIF1Hzp4 [https://youtu.be/rThlIF1Hzp4] Prof. Sam Vaknin on Narcissistic Abuse: https://youtu.be/MVulOdCa1YU [https://youtu.be/MVulOdCa1YU] Dr. Kerry McAvoy on Narcissistic Abuse: https://youtu.be/lkxBdZs2VLk [https://youtu.be/lkxBdZs2VLk] Narcissistic Abuse Recovery: https://youtu.be/XXP941XRLUI [https://youtu.be/XXP941XRLUI] Narcissistic Relationships Episode: https://youtu.be/dl52f2vy7FQ [https://youtu.be/dl52f2vy7FQ] Kevin McKee's website: jointheroyalwe.com Kevin McKee's channel:  @TheRoyalWe  [https://studio.youtube.com/channel/UCjl9RgJSokTXPR68wsrX7Zw] 🔔 SUBSCRIBE to help get more guests on the show: https://goo.gl/uEAeNp [https://goo.gl/uEAeNp] ✉️ Get Immediately Actionable Tactics to Be More Strategic: http://eepurl.com/dELB39 [http://eepurl.com/dELB39] -------------------------- #narcissisticabuse

Dr. Kerry McAvoy discusses the psychological tactics that a Narcissist uses to destroy lives, manage their fake image, and control other people. 00:00 - Narcissists are predators without conscience 00:24 - What makes a narcissist hard to leave? 00:57 - You are living in the narcissist's movie 01:47 - Agony of mixed reality 02:16 - Excuses: state-driven behavior 03:09 - Targeting people who believe in goodness 03:39 - Testing victim's vulnerability 04:31 - Most victims are agreeable and conscientious, not traumatized 05:30 - Abusers prey on your conscience 06:02 - Abusers spot victims and test boundaries 07:30 - Pickup artist narcissist boundary testing 08:20 - how Dr. Kerry's ex tested her 09:17 - Narcissism and Big 5 Personalities, Dr. Keith Campbell 09:40 - Dr. George Simon: They have no conscience 10:07 - The brain deficiency of a narcissist 11:22 - Narcissists are predatory from birth 12:01 - How abusers build their skills 13:59 - Dr. Peter Salerno: The SMEAR CAMPAIGN is premeditated 14:24 - Mind mapping: How to tell a believable SMEAR CAMPAIGN 16:20 - Mind mapping to control people 17:34 - Triangulation: playing sides to get the middle 18:12 - Trusting your gut won't work! 18:45 - Gossip itself is the problem. TRIANGULATION 21:19 - What can you do after gossip? DISEMPOWERED 22:30 - Recognize the aggression in gossip 23:22 - Narcissist's incredible charm 24:36 - Fake rapid trust and closeness (Cult Leader Tactics) 25:35 - Mimicking, mirroring, parroting 26:51 - How Narcissist creates a sense you've always known them 28:47 - Narcissism in horror movies 29:25 - Overwhelming narcissistic seduction 30:10 - The alien evil of the narcissist 30:48 - Sociopath or Psychopath? 32:55 - Confusion: the best way to exploit a person 34:18 - Victims consume a false reality 35:04 - How victims are misled 36:42 - Narcissist is the consummate actor. Prof. Sam Vaknin 37:08 - Victims give up reality for the relationship 38:12 - The danger of prioritizing relationships 38:55 - The "long suffering" victim is ideal 40:20 - How Breadcrumbing and Devaluation work 42:01 - The Narcissist is completely dependent on others 44:01 - Isolation, Withholding, SMEAR CAMPAIGN 44:11 - The most DANGEROUS moment 44:31 - The SMEAR CAMPAIGN grows 44:59 - The abuser looks good. Victim looks crazy. 46:28 - Defense against SMEAR CAMPAIGN 47:58 - Leaving Narcissist takes many attempts 48:53 - How Narcissists rely on compartmentalization 51:14 - Narcissist's weird relationship with time, memory, identity 54:16 - "Splitting" defense mechanism 57:18 - The narcissist's jealousy is competitive 57:47 - The narcissist must MALIGN you 1:00:02 - Narcissistic abuse in friendships 1:00:36 - Narcissistic abuse is worse with friendship 1:02:05 - The Twinship tactic of abusers 1:03:20 - Joining a friend group as a form of isolation 1:03:43 - Joining the narcissist bully's entourage 1:03:59 - Complying with the narcissist to get their approval 1:04:23 - Narcissists prey on your need to belong 1:05:10 - Why Narcissists take victims to new places 1:06:02 - Preying on the victim's need to be special 1:07:04 - Narcissistic abuse regresses the victim 1:07:47 - The Art of Seduction. Robert Greene 1:08:17 - Defense against Narcissists 1:10:02 - How big a cult can a narcissist build? 1:11:10 - The Narcissist wants to destroy you 1:12:42 - Consequences for the narcissist 1:13:01 - Listener question: Other dangerous personalities? 1:13:16 - The 4 dangerous personalities 1:15:15 - Sexuality in dangerous persons 1:16:25 - Find Dr. Kerry online 1:16:44 - How to trust after narcissistic abuse? 1:18:09 - SHARE this episode. Raise awareness about narcissistic abuse.  DISCLAIMER: The information provided is for educational purposes only and should not be considered as a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice from a qualified healthcare provider. ---------------------------- RELATED LINKS Dr. George Simon on Narcissists and Manipulation: https://youtu.be/rThlIF1Hzp4 [https://youtu.be/rThlIF1Hzp4] Dr. Peter Salerno on Narcissistic Abuse: https://youtu.be/yx-0px-ymtM [https://youtu.be/yx-0px-ymtM] Prof. Sam Vaknin on Narcissistic Abuse: https://youtu.be/MVulOdCa1YU [https://youtu.be/MVulOdCa1YU] Narcissistic Abuse Recovery: https://youtu.be/XXP941XRLUI [https://youtu.be/XXP941XRLUI] Narcissistic Relationships Episode: https://youtu.be/dl52f2vy7FQ [https://youtu.be/dl52f2vy7FQ] Dr. Kerry McAvoy's website: www.kerrymcavoyphd.com [https://www.kerrymcavoyphd.com] Dr. Kerry McAvoy's channel:  @KerryMcAvoyPhD  [https://studio.youtube.com/channel/UCKLQyhjWUzWrBfoQlC5ZotQ] 🔔 SUBSCRIBE to help get more guests on the show: https://goo.gl/uEAeNp [https://goo.gl/uEAeNp] ✉️ Get Immediately Actionable Tactics to Be More Strategic: http://eepurl.com/dELB39 [http://eepurl.com/dELB39] -------------------------- #narcissisticabuse How Narcissists Use Dark Psychology to Hurt Everyone | Dr. Kerry McAvoy How Narcissists Use Psychology to Destroy Victims | Dr. Kerry McAvoy How Narcissists Use Psychology to Destroy Lives | Dr. Kerry McAvoy