Golden Fractures

Christlike Attribute: Purity

Purity is one of those words we often reduce to “avoiding bad things,” but the more I study the life of Christ, the more I realize purity is so much deeper than that. It’s not just about staying clean—it’s about becoming refined through Jesus Christ. In this episode, I’m diving into the Christlike attribute of purity and exploring how the process of sanctification is a lot like refining metal. God doesn’t expect instant perfection from us. He works with us layer by layer, helping us release impurities and become something stronger, holier, and more beautiful through the Savior’s Atonement. I talk about the different stages of spiritual refinement and how daily repentance, covenants, and the companionship of the Holy Ghost are all part of becoming pure in heart. We’ll also talk about why Zion isn’t just a place—it’s a condition of the heart—and how every small effort to turn toward Christ matters. I share insights from leaders like Elder David A. Bednar and Marion G. Romney that have completely changed the way I view growth, repentance, and the refining process. Because purity isn’t about never making mistakes. It’s about continually letting Christ shape and cleanse us as we keep trying. If you’ve ever felt discouraged in your spiritual progress, overwhelmed by your weaknesses, or unsure if real change is possible, I hope this episode reminds you that sanctification is a process—and Jesus is patient with the process. We don’t become pure all at once. We become pure little by little, as we keep choosing Christ. Thank you for being here with me today. Let’s keep chiseling away the natural man and moving toward Zion—one faithful step at a time.

Christlike Attribute: Forgoing Worldliness

Most of us don’t even realize how easily the things of the world can start pulling our hearts away from God. Not always through obvious sin, but through distraction, comfort, validation, achievement, or even good things that slowly become the center of our lives. In this episode, I’m talking about the Christlike attribute of forgoing worldliness and what it actually means to live with our hearts focused on eternal things instead of temporary ones. We’ll look at moments from the Savior’s life that show us what this attribute really looks like—not just in what He taught, but in how He lived. From feeding the 5,000 and walking away from worldly recognition, to the rich young ruler struggling to let go of what mattered most to him, Christ continually showed us that fulfillment isn’t found in status, possessions, or the approval of the world. I also dive into how worldliness shows up in modern life in subtle ways—through social media, comparison, pride, comfort, busyness, and the constant pull to build our identity around things other than God. Because the truth is, anything—even a really good thing—can become an idol when it becomes the main source of meaning in our lives. This episode is an invitation to honestly examine what we may be holding onto that’s keeping us from fully following Christ. We talk about sacrifice, surrender, trust, and the beauty of the Savior’s example as He willingly gave up everything out of love for the Father and for us. If you’ve been feeling spiritually distracted, emotionally exhausted by the noise of the world, or simply wanting to realign your heart with Christ, I hope this conversation helps you slow down and remember what matters most. Forgoing worldliness isn’t about living a smaller life—it’s about discovering the deeper, eternal life the Savior is trying to lead us into.

Healing One Small Step at a Time | My Personal Story of Finding Christ

I think a lot of us spend our lives trying to feel God’s love, wondering why peace feels so far away, or questioning why healing doesn’t come faster. In this episode, I share my own journey through faith, depression, doubt, healing, and learning how to truly know Jesus Christ for myself. I talk about growing up in a gospel-centered home while quietly battling fear, judgment, perfectionism, and a heavy fog of depression that followed me for years. For a long time, I believed in God—but I didn’t really know how to let Him into the deepest, most broken parts of me. I share the moments that slowly changed everything for me: moving away from home, stepping into uncomfortable situations, finding genuine community, going to therapy, and learning that healing often comes through small acts of courage and consistency. What I discovered is that God’s love usually doesn’t arrive in loud, dramatic ways. More often, it gently fills the cracks over time. In this conversation, I open up about what it looked like to study scripture with real intent, wrestle through spiritual numbness, and keep reaching for Christ even when I couldn’t feel Him. I share the moment my Savior became personal to me—not just someone I believed in, but someone I truly knew. We also talk about mental health, faith, wilderness seasons, and the quiet persistence it takes to keep moving forward when everything feels dark. Because sometimes healing doesn’t happen all at once. Sometimes it comes one small step, one prayer, one act of faith at a time. If you’ve ever felt distant from God, overwhelmed by life, emotionally exhausted, or unsure if healing is even possible for you, I hope this episode reminds you that you are not alone. Jesus Christ is closer than you think, and even when you can’t see it yet, He is still working in your life. Maybe the breakthrough you’re praying for starts with one small step toward Him.

Christlike Attribute: Long-suffering

Most of us don’t naturally lean into the idea of long-suffering—it’s hard, it’s uncomfortable, and honestly, it’s something we usually try to avoid. But what if those very experiences are actually shaping us to become more like the Savior? In this episode of Golden Fractures, I share some personal thoughts and honest reflections on what it really means to endure life’s challenges with faith. We’ll look at the life of Jesus Christ—what He endured, how He responded, and what His example teaches us about facing our own struggles with patience, humility, and trust in God. We’ll also talk about stories from people like Job and Moses, and how their experiences can shift the way we see suffering. Sometimes we think hardship means something has gone wrong—but what if it’s actually part of something going right? I also share a few practical ways to approach these harder seasons of life, including a reminder from Jeffrey R. Holland that the path to real joy is often slower and rockier than we expect—but it’s still leading somewhere beautiful. If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed, discouraged, or just tired of carrying something heavy, this episode is for you. My hope is that it helps you see your struggles a little differently—not as punishments, but as meaningful parts of your growth and your journey back to God. You are deeply loved. And even in the middle of the hard things, God is shaping something beautiful in you.

Christlike Attribute: Diligence

Diligence isn’t loud. It’s not flashy. But it quietly shapes everything—our faith, our trust in God, and our relationship with Jesus Christ. In this episode, I’m diving into why diligence really matters—and why it’s something we can’t afford to overlook. We’ll walk through the parable of the ten virgins and talk about what it actually means to be prepared. Because the truth is, no one else can build your testimony for you. You can’t borrow spiritual oil. That part is yours. I also break down Alma 32 in a really practical way—what it looks like to plant a seed of faith, to nourish it, and to keep showing up even when growth feels slow. Because that steady, consistent effort? That’s where change happens. We’ll talk about what happens when we neglect our spiritual growth—and why it’s more serious than we sometimes think. But more importantly, we’ll talk about how to prevent that. Simple, daily things that keep your faith alive and growing. And I share a powerful reminder from the Savior Himself—what diligence looked like in His life, even in His hardest moments. His example shows us that real diligence isn’t about convenience, it’s about commitment. If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed, tired, or unsure if your efforts are enough, this episode is for you. My hope is that it helps you feel grounded, encouraged, and ready to keep going—one small, faithful step at a time. Because diligence does matter. It changes everything.