Pursue Reality Podcast

The Gift of Being Trusted | Sally Jo 7 Katie | Pursue Reality #68

In this episode of the Pursue Reality Podcast, Lindsay sits down with Sally Jo and Katie for an honest conversation about friendship, vulnerability, sexuality, and following Jesus with truth and grace. Sally Jo shares what it was like to open up about her experience with same-sex attraction, and Katie reflects on how to respond as a friend without fear, pressure, or trying to “fix” someone. Together, they talk about the gift of being trusted with someone’s story, the importance of prayer, the role of the Holy Spirit, and what it looks like to point people to Jesus while loving them well. This conversation is for anyone who wants to be a better friend, navigate hard conversations with wisdom, and grow in a deeper, more honest community.  Learn More About Reality Church: www.pursuereality.org [https://www.pursuereality.org]Follow Reality Church: Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/realitychurchlancaster/] Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/pursuereality] YouTube [https://www.youtube.com/@RealityChurch] Join Us In Person in Lancaster County, PA [https://www.pursuereality.org/locations]

Idolizing Marriage | Sally Jo & Katie | Pursue Reality Podcast Ep#67

In this episode of the Pursue Reality Podcast, we dive into one of the most overlooked conversations in the church: the idolatry of marriage, sex, and relationships. What happens when we make marriage the ultimate goal instead of Jesus? How should Christians think about singleness, celibacy, intimacy, desire, and sexuality through a biblical lens? Connor sits down with Sally Jo and Katy for a raw, thoughtful, and deeply theological conversation about human sexuality, identity, and the gospel. Together, they unpack how marriage and singleness both point to Christ, why sexual desire itself isn’t something to fear, and how the church can begin having healthier, more honest conversations about intimacy and fulfillment. This episode challenges cultural assumptions, confronts unhealthy narratives inside the church, and ultimately points listeners back to the greatest love and deepest intimacy found in Jesus.  Learn More About Reality Church: www.pursuereality.org [https://www.pursuereality.org]Follow Reality Church: Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/realitychurchlancaster/] Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/pursuereality] YouTube [https://www.youtube.com/@RealityChurch] Join Us In Person in Lancaster County, PA [https://www.pursuereality.org/locations]

PRP 66 | Standing for Truth in Love | Sally Jo & Katie

In this powerful and honest conversation, Pastor Connor sits down with Sally Jo and Katie Friesen to tackle one of the most challenging topics facing the Church today: how to stand for truth without losing love. From personal stories to years of ministry experience, Sally Jo and Katie unpack the reality that sexual brokenness isn’t a “them” issue—it’s an all of us reality. Together, they explore how followers of Jesus can navigate conversations around LGBTQ topics, identity, and sexuality with humility, clarity, and compassion. This episode doesn’t offer quick fixes or cookie-cutter answers. Instead, it invites you into the tension—the “dance” between truth and grace—and challenges you to walk alongside people in a real, messy, Spirit-led way. Whether you’re a parent, student, leader, or someone personally wrestling through these questions, this conversation will equip and encourage you to: *  Engage difficult conversations instead of avoiding them  *  Love people deeply without compromising biblical truth  *  Understand discipleship as a process, not a moment  *  Trust God in the middle of the mess and the unknown  At the heart of it all: Jesus isn’t intimidated by brokenness—and neither should we be. 🎧 Tune in and learn what it really looks like to stand for truth… in love. Learn More About Reality Church: www.pursuereality.org [https://www.pursuereality.org]Follow Reality Church: Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/realitychurchlancaster/] Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/pursuereality] YouTube [https://www.youtube.com/@RealityChurch] Join Us In Person in Lancaster County, PA [https://www.pursuereality.org/locations]

PRP 65 | Can You Lose Your Salvation? - Big Words, Good God Series

In the final episode of the Big Words, Good God series, Pastor Lindsey, Pastor Connor, and Chris Laustsbaugh tackle a question many Christians wrestle with at some point in their faith: Can you lose your salvation? The conversation explores two historic perspectives held by faithful Christians throughout church history. One view suggests that while salvation cannot be accidentally lost, a person could deliberately reject their faith and walk away from Christ. The other view holds that true salvation is secure because those who are genuinely saved are sealed by the Holy Spirit and cannot ultimately fall away. Rather than trying to settle a centuries-old debate, the discussion focuses on what both views affirm: salvation is not fragile, God’s grace is bigger than our sin, and believers can live with confidence and assurance in Christ. The episode also addresses the spiritual battle believers face, reminding listeners that the enemy seeks to accuse and create doubt, while the truth of the gospel calls us to continually look to Jesus. Ultimately, the encouragement is simple: if you care about your faith and are still running toward Jesus—even after stumbling—you can rest in the confidence of God’s grace and keep pursuing Him. Learn More About Reality Church: www.pursuereality.org [https://www.pursuereality.org]Follow Reality Church: Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/realitychurchlancaster/] Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/pursuereality] YouTube [https://www.youtube.com/@RealityChurch] Join Us In Person in Lancaster County, PA [https://www.pursuereality.org/locations]

PRP 64 | Sanctification: Becoming Like Jesus - Big Words, Good God Series

You are sanctified—and you are being sanctified. In this episode of the Pursue Reality Podcast, Pastor Lindsey and Chris Lautsbaugh talk about one of the most important and often misunderstood words in the Christian life: sanctification. What does it mean to be made holy, and why does the Bible describe it as both something already true of us and something still happening? Together they explore the beautiful tension of the Christian life: in Christ, we are already made holy, and by the Spirit, we are still being changed. If you’ve ever felt discouraged by your lack of growth, this conversation will remind you that God’s grace doesn’t stop at salvation—it continues shaping you every step of the way. Learn More About Reality Church: www.pursuereality.org [https://www.pursuereality.org]Follow Reality Church: Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/realitychurchlancaster/] Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/pursuereality] YouTube [https://www.youtube.com/@RealityChurch] Join Us In Person in Lancaster County, PA [https://www.pursuereality.org/locations]