Quiet Leaders by THE LATITUDE.IO with Patrick DePeters

Quiet Leaders #8 - Overcoming Trauma with Underdog Cameron Ahouse: Community, Fitness, Football, Men's Mental Health

In this episode of the Quiet Leaders podcast, Cameron Ahouse shares his journey from Woodbury, Connecticut, to becoming a college football player and mental health advocate. He discusses his deep commitment to fitness and mental health and his active participation in men's support groups. Cameron also highlights the valuable lessons he learned from football and the significance of community support in shaping one’s life. Key Takeaways: - Cameron Ahouse's dedication to fitness, mental health, and men's groups is a central theme in his life. - The Gunnery prep school provided a nurturing environment crucial for Cameron, especially after his mother passed away during his sophomore year. - Football was a significant part of Cameron's life, teaching him discipline, hard work, and the importance of being a team player. - Cameron's experiences at the Gunnery and Muhlenberg College influenced his outlook on life, emphasizing the power of community. In Division III sports, a strong focus on academics is essential, and education and athletics are prioritized equally. - Building strong relationships with teammates and coaches is key to the success and growth of a sports program. - Traditions and rivalries in college sports foster a sense of pride and camaraderie among athletes. - Overcoming adversity as an underdog can drive motivation and lead to personal success. - Cameron advocates for the importance of creating safe spaces for men to openly discuss mental health and support each other. - Pursuing passions and overcoming fears are vital steps toward personal fulfillment and achievement. Follow Cameron: - Instagram: @CameronAhouse https://www.instagram.com/cameronahouse Follow Quiet Leaders: - Instagram: @thelatitudeio - Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheLatitudeIO Connect with Patrick DePeters & THE LATITUDE.IO: THE LATITUDE.IO - COACHING: https://www.thelatitude.io Follow Patrick DePeters on TIKTOK: https://bit.ly/44RHkIQ Follow Patrick DePeters on INSTAGRAM: https://bit.ly/4e3hWEn Visit the Quiet Leaders PODCAST: https://bit.ly/3QRgZos Listen on Apple Podcast: https://apple.co/3QVTzya Listen on Spotify: https://spoti.fi/3KevlM1 Connect with Patrick DePeters on LINKEDIN: https://bit.ly/4dSOQqT Subscribe for more inspiring conversations that unite us. Support our show + movement: You can now do four quick (and free) things to support our show and movement: SUBSCRIBE, LIKE, COMMENT, SHARE. Thank you!

Quiet Leaders #7 - From Athlete to Yogi: Embracing a Softer Approach to Life with Peter Anderson

Peter Anderson shares his journey from being a top athlete to finding peace through yoga after battling drug and alcohol addiction. Peter reflects on his small-town Montana roots and the role of nature in shaping him. He emphasizes the significance of trust and self-dependence in his personal development and his creative awakening through photography and yoga instruction. Peter cites the influence of Julia Cameron's 'The Artist's Way' on his thought process, along with the routines of morning pages and artist dates. He also narrates his path from addiction to recovery, facilitated by yoga. A transformative yoga session in New York City led him to sobriety. He outlines the tenets of Jivamukti Yoga, focusing on ahimsa, devotion, and service. He addresses the hurdles of addiction and the crucial step of halting familial patterns. Moreover, Peter underscores the transformative impact of teaching and contributing to others as a catalyst for change. - Adopting a gentler approach to life through yoga, valuing rest, and being fully present. - The significance of trust and self-reliance for personal growth and accountability. - Exploring and embracing creativity in various forms, including photography and teaching. - The influence of Julia Cameron's book 'The Artist's Way,' particularly the practices of morning pages and artist dates. Yoga can be a transformative tool for overcoming addiction and fostering positive life changes. - Jivamukti Yoga emphasizes non-violence, devotion, and service, offering a comprehensive approach to yoga. - While addiction is not a choice, individuals possess the strength to disrupt the cycle of intergenerational addiction and enact positive changes. Teaching and contributing to others can be an influential method of motivating change and assisting others in their personal journeys. Sound Bites: - "I could no longer "Viking" my way through life." - "Being fully present energetically and physically is much more important, even if that's for one thing, than doing 10 things and not being present to any of them." - "The people who took me in in Salt Lake City, the Groth family, showed me respect and allowed me to be me." - "I was inching towards sobriety but wasn't ready. - "Addiction is not a choice. I didn't choose to be an alcoholic." - "Some people get so down the hole that they need someone to shake them up." Chapters: 00:00 - Embracing a Softer Approach to Life 03:03 - The Power of Trust and Self-Reliance 06:07 - Unleashing Creativity Through the Arts, Yoga and Teaching 27:44 - From Addiction to Sobriety 29:07 - Exploring Jeeva Mukti Yoga 33:30 - Breaking the Intergenerational Cycle of Addiction 48:17 - The Power of Teaching and Giving Back Keywords: yoga, athlete, nature, trust, self-reliance, creativity, photography, teaching, Julie Cameron, The Artist's Way, morning pages, artist dates, addiction, sobriety, yoga, Jeeva Mukti, non-harming, devotion, service, intergenerational cycle, teaching, giving back Follow Peter: Follow Peter Anderson on Instagram: @its.about.living https://www.instagram.com/its.about.living/ Follow Quiet Leaders: Instagram: @thelatitudeio Connect with Patrick DePeters & THE LATITUDE.IO: Apply for Patrick's Executive + Life Coaching: https://www.thelatitude.io/apply-for-coaching Follow Patrick DePeters on TikTok: https://bit.ly/44RHkIQ Follow Patrick DePeters on INSTAGRAM: https://bit.ly/4e3hWEn Visit the Quiet Leaders PODCAST: https://bit.ly/3QRgZos Listen on Apple Podcast: https://apple.co/3QVTzya Listen on Spotify: https://spoti.fi/3KevlM1 Visit Patrick DePeters Personal BLOG: https://bit.ly/3WTbUjg Connect with Patrick DePeters on LINKEDIN: https://bit.ly/4dSOQqT Subscribe for more inspiring conversations that unite us. Support our show + movement: Four quick (and free) things you can do now to support our show and movement: Support the show by Subscribing, Liking, Commenting, and Sharing.

Quiet Leaders #6 - How Service led to Purpose with Kyle Cassidy

Patrick DePeters, host of the 'Quiet Leaders' podcast, interviews Kyle Cassidy, Co-Founder of IcePass LA. IcePass LA is a community-centered holistic wellness platform that promotes physical and mental wellness through cold/hot contrast therapy. The platform offers a supportive community where members can access cold therapy, breath work, and meditation sessions. Kyle discusses how cold therapy can help build mental resilience and inner strength, and emphasizes his organization's commitment to providing access to contrast therapy to as many people as possible. Patrick and Kyle discuss a wide range of topics, including the power of community, finding "true north," building successful businesses and learning from failures, reconnecting with our shared humanity, the importance of relationships, servant leadership and leading by example, and the physical and mental wellness benefits one can expect from cold therapy such as ice bathing and contrast (hot) therapy. Takeaways: - Utilize the tools and gifts we have to create a better world. - Community and holding space for others are essential for personal growth and well-being. - Spirituality and faith can guide us in serving others and living healthy lives. - Constructive debate and partnerships are crucial for building a successful business. - Finding true North involves aligning with our purpose and serving others. Community is essential for personal growth and well-being. - Taking courageous leaps and small steps toward growth is essential. - Counting wins, no matter how small, can help build momentum and confidence. - Slowing down and reacquainting ourselves with what makes us human is crucial. - Relationships are the most critical factor for happiness and fulfillment. - Ice baths and saunas can transform physical, mental, and spiritual well-being. - Ice Pass promotes community and personal growth through its ice baths and saunas. Sound Bites: - "We can be on the same ride experiencing the same thing, but your perspective is so negative." - "Let's utilize our tools to create a better world." - "Building a new business from nothing and during the pandemic." - "We're not going to be here forever. Things can be taken from us. Things can, the control that we think we have can be stripped from us very easily." - "Being in a village-type atmosphere is such a blessing, and it sparks more enthusiasm, it sparks more ideas, there are more gathering places where we can start to feel heard, seen, understood." - "Small steps in the direction of your fear or the direction of growth are courageous to me." Chapters: 00:00 - Creating a Better World 01:20 - The Power of Community 08:16 - Building a Successful Business 13:08 - Finding True North 37:43 - Counting Wins and Taking Small Steps 42:14 - Reconnecting with Our Humanity 43:39 - Relationships for Happiness 01:06:43 - Transformative Ice Baths and Saunas 01:07:40 - Ice Pass Community Follow Kyle Cassidy: Kyle Cassidy on IG: @Spiritmovement3 Ice Pass on IG: @Icepass_la Book your first guided session FREE via link below: https://calendly.com/kylecassidy/guided-contrast-mud-wtr-gather Connect with Patrick DePeters & THE LATITUDE.IO: Apply for Patrick's Executive + Life Coaching: https://www.thelatitude.io/apply-for-coaching Follow Patrick DePeters on TikTok: https://bit.ly/44RHkIQ Follow Patrick DePeters on INSTAGRAM: https://bit.ly/4e3hWEn Visit the Quiet Leaders PODCAST: https://bit.ly/3QRgZos Listen on Apple Podcast: https://apple.co/3QVTzya Listen on Spotify: https://spoti.fi/3KevlM1 Visit Patrick DePeters Personal BLOG: https://bit.ly/3WTbUjg Connect with Patrick DePeters on LINKEDIN: https://bit.ly/4dSOQqT Subscribe for more inspiring conversations that unite us. #QuietLeaders #IceBaths #HolisticWellness #Community #PersonalGrowth #Spirituality #Yoga #Fitness #Faith #IcePass #Podcast #Leadership #KyleCassidy #IcePass #ColdPlungeFF

BONUS (REPOST): The Frederick Gunn School Podcast with Patrick DePeters ('06 Alum)

Patrick DePeters is the CEO of The Latitude, a company that focuses on executive coaching for emerging leaders. He also hosts the podcast "Quiet Leaders," which showcases the stories of society's unsung heroes.   Originally from Woodbury, Connecticut, Patrick has always been passionate about adventure and the outdoors. While his career began on Wall Street, he later transitioned to entrepreneurship. Patrick advocates aligning personal values with one's career and believes in taking incremental risks to build self-assurance. Looking ahead, he aims to expand his coaching practice, grow the success of his podcast, and continue his efforts to bring about positive change in the world. Part 1: Introduction and Early Life: 👋 Introduction to Patrick DePeters: CEO of Latitude IO, entrepreneur, and executive coach. 📚 Early Life and Education: Grew up in Woodbury, Connecticut. Attended St. Margaret's and The Gunnery. Enjoyed adventurous activities like go-karting with his dad. 🎓 College Experience: Studied at the University of Richmond, focusing on Business Administration and Leadership. Benefitted from a liberal arts education and studied abroad in Italy. 💼 Wall Street Journey: Worked at MUFG (Mitsubishi Financial Group UFJ) post-college. Patrick realized a lack of passion for a long-term finance career and desired to venture into entrepreneurship. Part 2: Entrepreneurial Path and Mentorship 🏢 Transition to Startups: Left Wall Street for Los Angeles to become CFO and partner of a startup. Emphasized learning from challenges and successes. 🎙️ Quiet Leaders Podcast: Launched a podcast highlighting unsung heroes across society, aiming to inspire and educate through their stories. 🧠 Importance of Mentors: Discussed the role of mentors in personal and professional growth. Shared insights on seeking guidance and learning from various experiences. Part 3: Risk-Taking and Future Plans: ⚖️ Managing Risks: Encouraging small, calculated risks to build confidence and resilience. Promoting side hustles to explore entrepreneurial interests. 📈 Future Vision: Patrick aims to grow his executive coaching practice, develop robust online courses, and expand the Quiet Leaders podcast into a global movement. Patrick plans to write a book compiling stories from the podcast. Sound Bites: - "Caring for oneself is essential because if your glass isn't full, how will you serve your company? How are you going to serve your community? How are you going to serve your family or anyone else?" - "Starting with small risks in the personal domain might be a good way to start. So, as an example, if you're afraid of public speaking, you might consider it a risk to give a speech to maybe the school." - "The companies that go the distance are typically not the ones that take the Silicon Valley approach. The ones that play the long game, like the small business owners committed to something they essentially dedicated their life towards over decades." Learn more about The Frederick Gunn School in Washington, CT: https://www.frederickgunn.org/ [https://www.frederickgunn.org/]   SUPPORT SHOW: Don't forget to Subscribe, Like, Comment, and Share to support our show. Thank you so much for your support!

Quiet Leaders #5 - South Side of Chicago to New Horizons as a Rapper, Recording Artist + Producer - Resilience in Life + Music with Chi City

Raised in the South Side of Chicago's projects, Chi City encountered numerous challenges, including community violence and drugs. Yet, he maintained a curiosity to explore beyond his immediate surroundings. Facing racism in a small Iowa town, he chose forgiveness over offense, befriending the very person who tormented him. These experiences molded his worldview and steeled his resolve to transcend his environment's constraints. Chi City's path of self-belief and tenacity amidst great adversity is genuinely inspirational. Undeterred by his rough Chicago upbringing, he ventured into music and fashion. Chi City underscores the significance of positive associations and the refusal to let others' views limit one's capabilities.  He shares insights on achieving viral fame after getting Kanye West's beat—an episode that had Rolling Stone knocking and 'Meeting Up with the Kardashians' promoting—and his shift to writing songs for other artists. Chi City plans to launch a clothing line that caters to all body types, aiming to fill a gap in the fashion market. His story highlights the importance of diverse experiences and the power of personal growth and resilience. 🌟 Takeaways: ➡️ Growing up in challenging environments can shape one's perspective and fuel a desire for change. ➡️ Exposure to different environments and experiences can broaden one's horizons and challenge preconceived notions. ➡️ Personal growth and resilience are vital in overcoming adversity and breaking free from limitations. ➡️ Racism and prejudice can be overcome through understanding and building relationships. ➡️ Surround yourself with positive influences and believe in your dreams and potential. Change your environment. Be curious. Observe. Listen. Relate. ➡️ Viral success can open doors and lead to unexpected opportunities. ➡️ Don't be afraid to pivot and explore new avenues in your life and career. ➡️ Fill white spaces in industries by creating products that cater to underserved markets. Sound Bites: ➡️ "Growing up in Chicago, you'll be surprised that there were a lot of people on the South Side that, then, it didn't make sense, but now, they've even left the South Side...It was damn near like a movie" ➡️ "That was the first time I experienced, like, holy shit, I used to always hear about racism, but that was the first time I actually ever experienced it." ➡️ "I gotta get out of here, I gotta move around any chance I get. If it's a field trip that can get me out of the city, I wanna go because there's a lot more out there I have to see and learn." ➡️ "You can't expect someone who doesn't believe in themselves to encourage you to be anything great." ➡️ "In someone's book, it's still an agenda. It's someone's agenda to make people view others this way." ➡️ "I never really wanted to live here at first. I used to come to visit now and then, but to live here, I was so caught up in the music." 📖 Chapters - 00:00 Introduction and Childhood Experiences - 06:43 Family Dynamics and Support - 13:22 Beauty and Madness in the South Side - 35:12 Understanding Racism and Agendas - 45:21 Being an Artist and Songwriting - 51:47 Creating a Clothing Brand     🙏🏻 SUPPORT SHOW 🙏🏻 Like, comment, and subscribe to support our mission of changing the world.  👊 Follow Chi City on Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/iamchicity/ [https://www.instagram.com/iamchicity/] Watch 4K video on Youtube  https://www.youtube.com/@TheLatitudeIO [https://www.youtube.com/@TheLatitudeIO] Follow Patrick: www.tiktok.com/@patdepe [http://www.tiktok.com/@patdepe] https://www.instagram.com/patrickdepeters/ [https://www.instagram.com/patrickdepeters/] https://www.linkedin.com/in/patrickdepeters [https://www.linkedin.com/in/patrickdepeters] Tags:  #ChiCity #QuietLeaders #LeadershipPodcast #Racism #Adversity #Healing #thelatitudeIO #patrickdepeters South Side of Chicago, projects, violence, drugs, racism, curiosity, exploration, personal growth, resilience, self-belief, resilience, music, fashion, viral success, songwriting, clothing brand