Talk Bari To Me

Designing Your New Life: From 404 Pounds to Freedom with Bill Streetman

In this powerful episode of Talk Bari To Me, host Char Holmes sits down with Bill Streetman, author of Simple, Not Easy: Escaping the Prison of Obesity, endurance cyclist, and founder of the Tour of Hope. Bill shares his incredible 240-pound weight loss journey through gastric bypass surgery—and, more importantly, how he’s kept it off for over 14 years. From hitting rock bottom to redefining what freedom feels like, Bill opens up about the mindset shift that transformed his life, the power of self-awareness, and why lasting change begins in your mind long before it shows in your body. Char and Bill dive into the emotional side of obesity, the “all or nothing” mindset, and the importance of designing your post-op life with intention. Whether you’re pre-op, post-op, or somewhere in between, this episode is packed with wisdom and perspective that will leave you inspired to take ownership of your transformation journey—inside and out. 🎧 Tune in to hear: * The aha moment that changed everything for Bill * Why mindset—not surgery—is the real secret to weight loss success * How to prepare mentally for life after bariatric surgery * The importance of finding mentors and community support * What “design and election” means and how it can change your life 💬 Join the conversation and connect with Char on Instagram and TikTok at @vsg_bestie [https://www.instagram.com/vsg_bestie]

Inside the Mind: Exploring 3D Human Therapy with Dr. Veronique Elefant-Yanni

In this powerful conversation, Char Holmes sits down with Dr. Veronique Elefant-Yanni — a clinical psychologist and creator of the 3D Human Therapy model — to explore what it really means to understand your inner world. From anger and emotional survival to confidence and weight loss, Dr. Elefant-Yanni shares how true healing starts from within. Together, they dive into how prenatal experiences shape emotional development, why labels in psychology can limit personal growth, and how mindfulness tools like breathing and meditation create lasting change. Dr. Elefant-Yanni also unpacks the impact of media on our mental health, the importance of psychological independence, and why altruism is rooted in shared happiness rather than material gifts. 💡 Key Takeaways: * The 3D Human Therapy model helps decode the mind through tension, activation, and valence. * Anger isn’t the enemy — it’s a survival response that needs understanding. * Weight loss alone doesn’t build confidence; self-awareness does. * Online therapy is just as effective as in-person support. * Spirituality and science can coexist in true psychological healing. ✨ Tune in for an eye-opening discussion that blends science, spirituality, and self-awareness — reminding us that healing starts with knowing ourselves first.

2025 Obesity Help Chat with Yelena and Steve

In this engaging conversation, hosts Char Holmes, Yelena Kibasova, and Steve discuss their personal journeys in the bariatric community, emphasizing the importance of support, education, and community in achieving long-term weight loss success. They share insights about the upcoming Obesity Help Conference, highlighting its welcoming atmosphere, educational components, and unique experiences like costume parties and clothing exchanges. The discussion also touches on the role of GLP-1 medications, the significance of vulnerability, especially for men, and the overall positive impact of community on individual journeys.Chapters 00:00 Introduction to the Guests and Conference 02:59 Yelena's Journey in the Bariatric Community 05:40 Steve's Transformation and Community Support 08:29 The Importance of Community in Weight Loss Journeys 11:18 Navigating Vulnerability and Support for Men 14:04 The Vibes and Atmosphere of the Conference 16:52 Costume Fun and Fashion at the Event 19:52 Inclusivity and Support for Introverts 22:32 The Red Carpet Experience and Photo Opportunities 28:34 The Clothing Exchange Experience 29:54 Consultations and Community Support 32:56 Embracing Body Positivity 35:31 Personal Growth and Community Engagement 37:40 Navigating Weight Management and GLP-1s 40:58 Men's Perspectives on Weight Loss Surgery 44:09 The Importance of Community and Support 46:42 Finding Your Place in the Community 48:22 The Value of Attending Events 51:12 Exploring Vendors and Resources 54:37 Final Thoughts and Affirmations 56:02 Introduction and First Impressions 56:10 Self-Confidence and Personal Style

Dr. Steven Reyes Talks Obesity Help National Conference

Keywords bariatric surgery, obesity, mental health, community support, self-care, obesity help conference, psychological evaluation, weight loss journey, bariatric code, empowerment Summary In this engaging conversation, Char Holmes and Dr. Steve Reyes explore the multifaceted nature of obesity, the importance of psychological evaluations in bariatric surgery, and the vital role of community support. They discuss the upcoming Obesity Help National Conference, emphasizing the significance of shared experiences and personal journeys in the weight loss community. Dr. Reyes introduces his new book, the Bariatric Code, which aims to empower individuals on their self-care journey. The discussion highlights the importance of self-investment, the impact of family and friends, and the transformative power of community in navigating the challenges of obesity and weight loss. Takeaways Obesity is a multifactorial disease influenced by various factors. Psychological evaluations are crucial for bariatric surgery candidates. Community support significantly impacts the success of bariatric patients. The Obesity Help National Conference offers valuable resources and connections. Celebrating personal journeys through events like fashion shows is empowering. Family and friends play a vital role in the bariatric journey. Self-investment in health is essential for long-term success. The Bariatric Code provides a framework for intentional self-care. Navigating the weight loss journey involves more than just physical changes. Empowerment comes from shared experiences and community support. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Dr. Steve Reyes and His Journey 02:56 Understanding Obesity as a Multifactorial Disease 05:42 The Importance of Psychological Evaluations in Bariatric Surgery 08:36 The Role of Community in Bariatric Success 11:24 The Obesity Help National Conference Experience 14:16 Celebrating Transformations: The Fashion Show 17:02 The Value of Support for Spouses and Family 19:52 The Bariatric Code: A New Approach to Self-Care 25:22 The Bariatric Code: A New Paradigm for Self-Care 26:23 Beyond Weight Loss: The Journey of Self-Discovery 28:07 Setting Boundaries: The Importance of Self-Care 29:59 Community and Connection: The Power of Shared Experiences 32:53 Overcoming Hesitations: Embracing New Opportunities 34:38 Investing in Yourself: The Value of Attending Events 37:27 Maximizing Your Experience: Planning for Success 40:27 The Role of Vendors: Education and Resources 42:22 Final Thoughts: Embracing the Journey Together 46:42 Introduction and First Impressions 46:51 Self-Confidence and Personal Style

TLC 1000 Lbs Best Friend Tina and Scott

Get ready for an unforgettable Talk Bari To Me episode where we sit down with the inspiring stars of TLC’s 1000‑lb Best Friends Tina, and newcomer Scott🥳From emotional breakthroughs to fierce accountability, they open up about life before and after surgery—including body image, mental health, and the unbreakable power of friendship. Discover how a tight-knit crew turned weight loss into a shared journey of healing, humor, and hope. 🔥 What you'll hear: * Tough love and unfiltered moments as these BFFs hold each other accountable * Personal wins and setbacks from each of their journeys * How they balance a revived social life with new identities post-op * Exclusive stories sparked by that TikTok moment with VSG Bestie and what it means to share their story with the world This isn't just a show it's a movement. If you're in need of realness, resilience, and a reminder that the best support comes from your ride-or-die crew, this episode is for you. Tune in, feel seen, and get real with one of TLC’s most beloved casts. ❤️ #TalkBariToMe #1000lbBestFriends