The HENRY to Wealthy Podcast

Why You Know What to Do With Money… But Still Don’t Do It

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2558122/fan_mail/new] In Part 2 of this series, we shift from awareness → action. In the first episode, we talked about why earning more money doesn’t automatically fix your mindset. In this episode, we dig into the harder question: how do you actually change your behavior around money? I’m joined again by therapist Ginger Houghton, and we break down: *  Why change feels so hard—even when you know what to do  *  The “stages of change” and how they show up in your financial life  *  Why most people get stuck before taking real action  *  How to make progress without overwhelming yourself  *  The role of identity, self-worth, and the stories you tell yourself about money  *  Why small, consistent changes beat big, dramatic ones every time  We also talk about when it might make sense to bring in a therapist alongside a financial advisor—especially if money brings up stress, anxiety, or deeper emotional patterns. If you’ve ever thought:  👉 “I know what I should be doing… I just can’t seem to do it” This episode will help you understand why—and what to do about it.

Why High Earners Still Feel Financially Stressed (Even With More Money)

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2558122/fan_mail/new] In this episode, I’m joined by therapist Ginger Houghton to dive into something that doesn’t get talked about enough: the psychology of money—especially for high earners. Because here’s the truth…  Making great money doesn’t automatically mean you feel confident, secure, or at peace with your finances. We talk about: *  How your money story growing up shapes your financial behavior today  *  Why high earners still experience scarcity mindset (even when they’re financially secure)  *  How lifestyle inflation and social comparison quietly creep in—especially in today’s social media world  *  Why some people overspend… while others are overly frugal  *  And one of the biggest (and most misunderstood) patterns: avoidance If you’ve ever: *  Felt anxious about money despite earning a high income  *  Found yourself comparing your lifestyle to others  *  Or avoided looking at your finances altogether  …this episode will likely resonate. This is Part 1 of a two-part conversation. In the next episode, we’ll focus on how to actually start making changes.

Bonds, Explained: What They Are, How They Work, and Why They’re Not Always “Safe”

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2558122/fan_mail/new] Bonds are often labeled as the “safe” part of a portfolio — but that’s not always the full story. In this episode, I break down how bonds actually work in a way that’s simple and practical. We’ll cover what a bond really is (at its core, a loan), how interest rates and credit quality impact returns, and why not all bonds carry the same level of risk. I also walk through what happens to bond prices when interest rates change, why longer-term bonds typically pay more than shorter-term bonds, and how bond ratings play a role in both risk and return. We’ll then shift to bond funds — which tend to confuse a lot of people — and simplify what’s actually going on under the hood (hint: they’re just collections of individual bonds). I’ll also share why I generally prefer bond funds over individual bonds, and how I think about structuring the bond portion of a portfolio. My approach is to keep bonds on the more conservative side and take risk where it’s better rewarded — in stocks. But as always, it comes down to understanding the trade-offs so you can make the best decision for your situation.

The One Investment Decision That Actually Drives Your Returns

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2558122/fan_mail/new] Asset allocation — your big-picture mix of stocks and bonds — is the single biggest driver of risk and return in your portfolio. Not the specific fund. Not the stock picks. Not the headlines. In this episode, I break down why your stock-to-bond allocation matters more than almost anything else when it comes to long-term results — and why misunderstanding that can lead to major frustration. I share a real-life example of a prospective client who believed her advisor had underperformed “the market.” But once we looked at her asset allocation, the story changed. She wasn’t invested like “the market” at all — she was in a 60/40 portfolio. Given that mix, her returns were exactly what we’d expect. The real issue wasn’t performance. It was communication and expectations. We’ll talk about: * Why asset allocation drives portfolio outcomes * How risk tolerance questionnaires are just the starting point — not the decision * The tradeoffs between being more conservative vs. more aggressive * The spectrum of bonds (yes, some are much riskier than others) * How stocks break down: U.S. vs. international, large vs. small, growth vs. value * Strategic vs. tactical vs. dynamic allocation — and why I firmly believe in strategic * Why rebalancing is essential (and how it’s essentially “buy low, sell high” on autopilot) If you’ve ever wondered why your returns don’t match what you see on the news — or how to decide what allocation is right for you — this episode will help you understand the framework that drives everything else. Because investing success doesn’t start with picking the perfect fund. It starts with choosing the right mix.

Not All Financial Advisors Are the Same — Here’s What You Need to Know

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2558122/fan_mail/new] If you’re working with a financial advisor — or thinking about hiring one — this episode is for you. In this conversation, I sit down with Kelly Palmer, CFA, CFP®, Founder of The Wealthy Parent, to break down the often confusing world of financial advisors: how they charge, what services they provide, and how to evaluate whether you’re truly getting value for what you’re paying. We unpack the difference between fee-only and fee-based advisors, what it really means to be a fiduciary, and why those distinctions matter more than most people realize. But we also go deeper: you can’t compare advisors by fee alone without understanding what’s included. Investment management only? Financial planning only? Or comprehensive planning plus portfolio management? The scope of services makes a big difference. We also cover: * How to research advisors using the SEC and FINRA websites * Key questions to ask about fees, services, and conflicts of interest * Why personality fit may matter just as much as credentials Whether you’re interviewing advisors for the first time or already have one and aren’t sure how you’re paying — or what else is out there — this episode will help you become a more informed, empowered consumer of financial advice. Because clarity isn’t just for your portfolio. It’s for the people managing it.