The Heretic Therapist

Post-Modern vs Enlightenment Marriages

Psychoanalyst Adam Ayala and co-host Joseph Barbosa answer, 1. How much sex should you have in a marriage? 2. How to Answer, “Do I look fat in this?” 3. What to do when your spouse cheats on you. 4. What’s the difference between Post-Modern and Enlightenment Marriages. 5. What to do when you’re stuck in a Post-Modern Marriage. Work with Psychoanalyst Adam Ayala: https://www.wvctherapy.com [https://www.wvctherapy.com]

What is a Good Spouse? Saying Yes to a Proposal & Understanding Your Spouse is Overrated

Adam Ayala and Joseph Barbosa talk through if we should understand our spouse or be curious about them and what's the difference in there. We also answer questions from you on What is a good spouse? How do I know I should say yes to a marriage proposal and How much money is enough? Work with Psychoanalyst Adam Ayala: https://www.wvctherapy.com/contact [https://www.wvctherapy.com/contact]

How To Not Be a Savior in Relationships

You don't date drug addicts and losers to save them. You're deciding to live a life of Hell through making yourself small while holding the position of perpetual victim and hero in your false adventure. This is how you don't do that.

Not Letting Bad People Change You: How To Get Over Things

We have a talk with Al, who remembers a time when a relationship when horrible and he had the opportunities to act as badly as she did towards him (as she publicly humiliated him) but he explains why he didn't and how he got over this tragedy.

Postmodernist Can't Happily Marry

In my practice I keep coming across something that devastates me. That those who follow relativist ideologies are not having sex, compared to Enlightened ideological counterparts, and their relationships don't ever start or fall apart. I want to see everyone in a good relationship that's lasting, but there is something with the postmodern ideology that is ruining it. So today, we start an investigation on this while also being aware that we may be straw-manning the postmodern position and that there are very few folks that are fully relativist and acknowledging the realities of life versus philosophy.