The Misunderstood Podcast

Ep 10 The Isolation before Expansion (Part 4/5)

In this raw and emotional episode, I open up about my month-long silence, walking away from a 25-year nursing career, my son’s surgery, the refining season God has pulled me into, and the uncomfortable reality of slowing down when your nervous system has been wired for survival your entire life. We also dive deep into Stage 4 of healing: rewiring and reparenting. This is where healing stops being intellectual and becomes embodied. Together we explore what it looks like to revisit the wounded inner child with Jesus at the center and finally receive the safety, love, comfort, and presence you may have never received growing up. If you’ve been exhausted, overwhelmed, anxious, disconnected from yourself, or questioning the season God has you in right now… this episode will feel like home. Be sure to follow me over on INSTAGRAM @theheartact.co because the Brave Girls community officially opens next week.

Ep 9 The moment everything starts to make sense (Part 3/5)

This episode is part three of my five-part healing series. If you haven’t listened to Stage One (Awareness) and Stage Two (Acceptance), go back and start there — because healing doesn’t work when we skip steps. Today we’re talking about Stage Three: The Root. This is the moment when everything finally starts making sense. For years I went to therapy, talked through my childhood, and intellectually understood why certain things happened in my life. And while that helped me gain insight, I still found myself repeating the same patterns. The same relationships. The same emotional triggers. The same cycles. Because understanding the story isn’t the same as healing the wound. In this episode, I break down: • Why talking about your childhood alone doesn’t create real freedom • How limiting beliefs are formed in childhood and stored in the body • Why every child carries some form of wounding (even without big trauma) • How to uncover the root of patterns that keep repeating in your life • What it actually looks like to revisit the moment where the wound began This stage is where the deeper work begins. And next week, we move into Stage Four: Reparenting — the moment where healing becomes transformation. If this episode resonated with you, share it with someone who might need to hear it. And if you’re curious about working with me or joining the Brave Girls community launching soon, send me a DM on Instagram @theheartact.co and drop the word BRAVE.

Ep 8 The Hardest Part of Healing (Part 2/5)

Stage Two of Healing: Acceptance. This is where most people tap out. Last week we talked about Awareness — recognizing your patterns without defending them. But awareness alone doesn’t heal anything. Acceptance is where you stop running. In this episode, I break down: * Why modern-day therapy often keeps you stuck in your head * How trauma, childhood wounding, and unresolved emotions are stored in the body * What acceptance actually looks like (and what it’s not) * Why fight, flight, freeze, and people-pleasing block real healing * How emotions metabolize when you stay with them instead of escaping them We are not talking about drowning in your feelings. We’re talking about finally staying long enough for your nervous system to release what it’s been gripping for years. Next week, we move into Stage Three: The Root — where subconscious patterns unravel. And if something in this episode made your body go quiet… or curious… my private 12-week container Healed & Dangerous is now open. It’s intimate, high-touch, and not for the faint of heart. If you feel called, you’ll know. Apply through the link in my Instagram bio @theheartact.co.

Ep 7 The Illusion of Self-Awareness (Part 1/5)

Most people think they’re self-aware. They’re just articulate. In this first episode of my five-part healing series, I break down what awareness actually is and what it’s not. You can talk about your childhood for ten years. You can label your attachment style. You can explain your trauma in perfect detail. And still be completely run by it. In this episode, I walk you through: • The difference between intellectual awareness, nervous system awareness, and embodied awareness • Why modern therapy often stops at insight • The pattern I didn’t want to see in myself • Why high-performing women stay stuck in “doing” instead of regulating • What true awareness actually feels like when the armor drops This is not fluffy self-help. This is the doorway to real healing. Next week, we move into Stage Two: Acceptance: the part most people avoid. If this episode challenged you, share it. Tag me. And let’s raise the standard of what healing really means.

Ep 6 When God redirects by saying nothing

I didn’t plan to record this episode tonight. It’s almost midnight in Phoenix, and the last four days have left me spiraling, disconnected, and exhausted in a way I couldn’t think my way out of. This episode is about what happens when you stop overriding your body, stop forcing yourself forward, and finally listen to the resistance instead of shaming it away. We’re talking about energy leaks, emotional burnout, spiritual disconnection, and the quiet truth most people don’t want to admit: sometimes the heaviness isn’t something to fix; it’s something trying to protect you. If you’ve been pouring yourself into people, projects, and expectations that no longer give life back… If you’ve been praying for clarity but ignoring what your body has been whispering… If you’ve felt the guilt of slowing down even when everything inside you is begging for rest… You’re not broken. You’re being redirected. This episode is raw, unfiltered, and honest, not because I have answers, but because I’m willing to sit in the questions with you. Listen gently. If this resonates, please consider following the show, leaving a review on Apple Podcasts, or sharing this episode with someone who needs permission to stop pushing and start listening.