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How does our mental health relate to our faith? How can we become whole while living in a broken world? Every day, we all strive to encounter God amidst the challenges of balancing faith and family, work and leisure, our sense of self and complicated relationships. Pat & Kenna Millea bring joy, hope, and wisdom to those who believe there *is* a connection between holiness and happiness. Kenna is a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist; Pat served for 15 years as a youth minister; together they have 7 children and a perfectly imperfect marriage. From their education and experience, they share tools, resources, interviews, and stories that point the way to sanity and sanctity. (Music: "You're Not Alone" by Marie Miller. Used with permission.)

Ep102 Raising Sons Who Actually Know Who They Are with Paul and Rachel Balducci

"The most transformative thing you can do as a parent is to know who you are in God's eyes." ~ Rachel Balducci * What does it actually look like to raise boys into men of faith and character? * How do you stay united as parents when the chaos of a house full of boys threatens to divide you? * What do you do when your sons walk away from the faith, and how do you hold on to hope? In episode 102 of This Whole Life, Pat and Kenna Millea sit down with Paul and Rachel Balducci, parents of five sons and one daughter, for a conversation about what it really takes to raise boys well. Paul is an immigration attorney and Rachel is an author, journalist, and co-host of The Gist on Catholic TV. Together they have 32 years of marriage and a lot of hard-won wisdom to share. They talk honestly about what the early years looked like with four boys under five, the exhaustion Rachel carried as a stay-at-home mom, and how Paul's quiet steadiness became one of the greatest gifts he gave his sons. They dig into the difference between parenting from fear and parenting from a secure identity in God, and why that shift changes everything. Paul shares one of the most moving moments in the episode: the story of how a small Wednesday night dinner group, built on nothing more than a meal and a short video, led to a full-scale revival among a group of young men who had stopped going to Mass. It is a story about patience, trust, and what happens when parents refuse to give up. Rachel offers something equally honest for the moms: you cannot pour from a place of anxiety, you have to learn to let go, trust the Holy Spirit, and love your kids exactly where they are. This episode is for every parent who has wondered whether they are doing enough, and every mom or dad who needs to hear that God loves your kids far more than you ever could. Rachel Balducci is a cohost of The Gist, a talk show for women on CatholicTV, and teaches journalism at Augusta University. She is the author of Make My Life Simple: Bringing Peace to Heart and Home and How Do You Tuck in a Superhero and Other Delightful Mysteries of Raising Boys. Paul Balducci is an attorney who specializes in immigration and naturalization law. Paul & Rachel have been married for 32 years, live in Georgia, and have five “strapping” sons and one “precious” daughter. Reflection Questions [https://martincenterforintegration.com/show-notes-102#reflection] Chapters: * (00:37) - Welcome and guest introductions * (02:15) - Highs and Hards * (10:15) - How Paul and Rachel met and discerned marriage * (17:46) - What life actually looked like with a house full of boys * (26:35) - Raising sons: vision, modeling, and masculine genius * (35:11) - What your sons need from you as they grow up * (47:27) - Avoiding the trap of over-critical parenting * (54:25) - When your sons walk away from the faith * (59:52) - Challenge by choice * (01:01:26) - Closing prayer Links and Resources: * Rachel Balducci [https://rachelbalducci.com/] - https://rachelbalducci.com/ * Rachel on Instagram: @rachelbalducci [https://www.instagram.com/rachelbalducci/] * Rachel Balducci on Catholic TV: The Gist [https://www.catholictv.org/the-gist.html] - https://www.catholictv.org/the-gist.html * Make My Life Simple: Bringing Peace to Heart and Home [https://a.co/d/036UJ4LT] by Rachel Balducci - https://a.co/d/036UJ4LT * How Do You Tuck in a Superhero? [https://a.co/d/03Flj5LR] by Rachel Balducci - https://a.co/d/03Flj5LR Support the show [https://ko-fi.com/thiswholelife] Thank you for listening, and a very special thank you to our community of supporters [https://ko-fi.com/thiswholelife]! Join our email list [https://martincenterforintegration.com/podcast#email-list] and never miss an episode or an event Visit us online at thiswholelifepodcast.com [https://martincenterforintegration.com/podcast], and send us an email [thiswholelife@martincenterforintegration.com] with your thoughts, questions, or ideas. Follow us on Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/thiswholelifepodcast/] & Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/thiswholelifepodcast] Interested in more faith-filled mental health resources? Check out the Martin Center for Integration [https://martincenterforintegration.com/] Music: "You're Not Alone" by Marie Miller [https://www.mariemillermusic.com/]. Used with permission.

8 de jun de 2026 - 1 h 4 min