20 Year Old Butterfly

The Secret Poets - Our Grandparents 💛 with Elise Powers

“My heart SINGS when I’m writing, I love writing poetry” - Elise Powers [https://substack.com/profile/41522565-elise-powers] said this towards the end of our podcast chat and I loved the way she phrased it. Especially because poetry made our grandparents heart’s sing too ✨ When I found out that my grandfather, who I had an incredibly special, deep bond with, wrote poetry on every special occasion to my grandmother, for decades, I was in shock. The creative place I had stumbled upon that changed my whole life, was also something my beloved grandfather cherished too? So when I discovered that Elise, an incredibly warm, creative, unique, sensitive poet also found out that her grandmother, who she had an incredibly close connection with, was a poet and she had no idea - I was shocked once again 😅 This conversation felt really special because we dove deep into how our relationships with our magical grandparents has informed who we are, our “legacy”, the messiness of grief & how that intertwines with our writing, finding out our grandparents secret, and so much more. I feel incredibly honored to have gotten to chat with Elise, she even read a poem from her recently released poetry book, The Size Of Your Joy. 💛 And I read a poem too! From my book, 20 Year Old Butterfly 🦋 ✨ I hope this episode brings you a few dashes of magic, delight, joy, and connection! Let us know if you liked it in the comments or by hitting ‘reply’ if you’re reading in email, after you listen 🎧 Listen to this week’s episode here on Apple [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/20-year-old-butterfly/id1870719559] & here on Spotify [https://open.spotify.com/show/0w27LfNt0Bxw7asAA2SIvU?si=af7c89d7575e4c5e] !!! 🎙️🎧 Yay!! See you on occasion, Tuesday’s on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or right here on Substack! 🦋 Let’s connect with each other! 🩷 Connect with Elise: Explore The Size Of Your Joy - Elise’s Poetry Book! [https://elisepowers.com/] Two Raw Sugars - Elise’s Substack [https://elisepowers.substack.com/] Elise’s Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/accounts/login/?next=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.instagram.com%2Felisepowerspoet&is_from_rle] Connect with me (Bailey!) : Explore my book here! [https://baileycreativity.myshopify.com/] Read where the name 20 Year Old Butterfly comes from! [https://baileycreativity.substack.com/about] Explore my website 🌼 [https://baileycreativity.com/] (Music) Stock Media provided by marcozannone / Pond5 Sending love to you! 🦋 Bailey If you resonated with this podcast episode & want to receive weekly digital letters for sensitive souls, subscribe for free below! 💖 This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit baileycreativity.substack.com [https://baileycreativity.substack.com?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_1]

There is so much vulnerability in being seen 🦋💫 with Andy from Highly Sensitive Woman

“I’m curious. How do you deal with the Fear of Being seen?” There’s a lot of questions, comments, ideas, & opinions shared online that we see at an endless pace. Usually, we scroll on by. But when I read Andy ( ✨️ Highly Sensitive Woman ✨️ [https://substack.com/profile/270156-highly-sensitive-woman]) ‘s note here on Substack, pondering that question, I paused. And I was eager to join in the conversation. This was my reply: I love this question. I relate so deeply with this especially having lifelong experience feeling so different from others. I’ve noticed that it helps when the people I’m being seen by are people I feel are kindred spirits, warm, or seemingly non judgmental. It’s really hard to feel comfortable being seen by people who you know won’t really get you. I’ve also had to learn (through experience) over the years that not everybody needs access to my vulnerability. I’ve shared stories with people that I now wish I hadn’t because I didn’t allow myself to pause and pay attention to how my body felt. I think we’re allowed to choose who sees the deeper parts of ourselves. I also notice that really seeing & accepting myself helps lighten a bit of the heaviness of insecurity. One example that comes to mind- when I first started my podcast last year it was nearly unbearable for me to listen back to my own voice. I was so judgmental of myself & noticed so many things that I felt I did wrong. But I had to listen so I could edit the episodes. (Most were with guests but I also do solo!) After a while, I naturally began to accept how I sound, the fact that I lose my train of thought during conversations because of the pressure of the moment, that I am imperfect. And now I actually kind of love listening back. After our exchange over on Andy’s Substack note, I knew I wanted to dive deeper. We had a lovely conversation on my podcast, 20 Year Old Butterfly, and I know it’s going to be a treat for you to listen to, as it was for us to chat. ✨ There’s more layers than a 12 layer cake 🍰 but the core of it is sweet Vulnerability and being seen, especially for those of us that have spent a large portion of our lives feeling different from everyone around us, is a layered, multifaceted experience. There are so many elements to it. As we chat about in the episode, there can be dissociation from ourselves within ourselves, anxiety that exists deep within the body, an environment of people who aren’t the right people to be open with - even the act of someone LOOKING at us with their eyes can bring up a multitude of emotions. It’s something I have an intimate, yet messy and confusing, relationship with and I wonder if you relate? At the same time, I have experienced the sweet gifts that vulnerability (in the right circumstances) brings into our lives as humans who dream of deep connection. Also, for those of us that are really good at keeping everything tightly shut inside, or dealing with emotional pain all by ourselves, being vulnerable is sometimes the thing that relieves us of years of pain. And sometimes vulnerability means the light parts too. Sharing even though it might come out awkward or imperfect. Embracing our weirdness and letting it be known. Dressing how we want to dress even if we’re judged. Rejecting the norm in little acts of courage. We dove deep - with stories I’ve never shared - and a conversation on the multi facets of being seen 🌼 Whether you’re an entrepreneur putting your creativity and ideas out into the uncertain online or real world - or a sensitive human whose watered yourself down to fit into a societal mold, this episode is for you, and it’s out for you to listen to now ✨ Listen to this week’s episode here on Apple [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/20-year-old-butterfly/id1870719559] & here on Spotify [https://open.spotify.com/show/0w27LfNt0Bxw7asAA2SIvU?si=af7c89d7575e4c5e] !!! 🎧 Yay!! See you every Tuesday on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or right here on Substack! 🦋 Let’s connect with each other! 🩷 Connect with Andy: Highly Sensitive Woman - Substack [https://highlysensitivewoman.substack.com/] Connect with me (Bailey!) : Read where the name 20 Year Old Butterfly comes from! [https://baileycreativity.substack.com/about] Buy my book here! [https://baileycreativity.myshopify.com/] My Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/baileycreativity] Explore my new website in-progress 🌼 [https://baileycreativity.com/] (Music) Stock Media provided by marcozannone / Pond5 Sending love to you! 🦋 Bailey This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit baileycreativity.substack.com [https://baileycreativity.substack.com?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_1]

You don't have to have it all figured out to find what delights you 💖 with Imogen Hall (Love From, Imi)

When I first discovered Imi’s Substack, I was immediately struck by the light, playful, cozy illustrations that accompanied her unique, honest, human, introspective writings. Sooo, when we finally made our plan to chat on my podcast (20 Year Old Butterfly), I was thrilled. Imi writes about topics that most people shy away from. She shares her honest, HUMAN, vulnerable emotions across so many relatable situations - often highlighting the multi facets that we all often feel, but are shamed away from being open about. Every time I read something she wrote, or listen to her article voiceovers, I feel lighter and more understood. Her willingness to talk about the awkwardness and discomfort that shows up in a lot of situations, makes me feel more light and warm hearted about my own life experiences. And, her insights and reflections on how us - as sensitive, introspective, curious souls - can live with more joy, delight, and be aligned with what we want out of life, has left me inspired and excited to go do things! I was so lit up from our conversation, and I know you will be too. It’s such a special treat to have her on the podcast! ✨ Listen to this week’s episode here on Apple [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/20-year-old-butterfly/id1870719559] & here on Spotify [https://open.spotify.com/show/0w27LfNt0Bxw7asAA2SIvU?si=af7c89d7575e4c5e] !!! 🎧 Yay!! See you every Tuesday on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or right here on Substack! 🦋 Let’s inspire each other! Connect with us 🩷 & don’t miss out on Imi’s incredible writing! Connect with Imi: Imi’s Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/imogenmarycreative] Love From, Imi - Substack [https://lovefromimi.substack.com/] Shop Imi’s playful illustrations! [https://www.etsy.com/shop/lovefromimi/?etsrc=sdt&dd_referrer=https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack.com%2F] Connect with me (Bailey!) : Read where the name 20 Year Old Butterfly comes from! [https://baileycreativity.substack.com/about] Buy my book here! [https://baileycreativity.myshopify.com/] My Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/baileycreativity] Explore my new website in-progress 🌼 [https://baileycreativity.com/] (Music) Stock Media provided by marcozannone / Pond5 Sending love to you! 🦋 Bailey This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit baileycreativity.substack.com [https://baileycreativity.substack.com?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_1]

Keep the threads of the things that light you up alive within your heart ✨ with Elin Petronella

The podcast episode you are about to listen to will change your life, as it has done for me since having a profound, magic filled, deep, gut-led conversation with the incredible, Elin Petronella [https://substack.com/profile/182986237-elin-petronella] 💛 And the craziest part is - it almost never happened. When I discovered Elin’s creative world a few months ago, I instantly resonated with her gut & heart-led, sensitive, creative philosophies, & I knew it’d be a dream to get to have a conversation with her. But the metrics of her wide, large spanning audiences across platforms led me to pre-reject myself. “She’ll probably say no. I haven’t even reached out to her just to say hello, she has no idea who I am!” When inspiration sparks ⚡️ But after she followed HER spontaneity & intuition, doing an impromptu livestream right here on Substack, a little lightbulb went off in my mind. 💡 Near the end of her live video, she brought up this idea of “keeping threads alive.” Moments, experiences, people, places that once deeply impacted you or left a spark within - that right now might seem lost to the past but one day could return if you allow yourself to hold onto them, quietly or passionately. As you’ll hear about during the episode, this struck a chord within my heart and brought up an experience for me that I have not been able to let go of for similar reasons as Elin - with her life changing time living and working in South Africa a decade ago. (That has now come full circle into her non profit organization, Survive to Thrive [https://www.survivetothrivemovement.org/]). Serendipitously, at the very bottom of her Substack writing piece that was attatched to the replay of her livestream, she mentioned that if anyone would like her for a motivational chat for their podcast, to reach out. So I said “I’m going for it anyways” to my fear, and sent her an email 💌 When she said yes, it cemented this notion within me: I am not going to pre-reject myself. It’s always better to ask, than to miss out out of fear that someone will say no - when they might just say… YES! Don’t pre-reject yourself. Be so kind and loving towards yourself that you can handle the rejection if it comes. Rejection from someone else that arrives because you went for it, because you were courageous enough to dream or to feel inspired, is much more worth it than the sadness + stuck-ness that comes from rejecting YOURSELF. The simple yet deeply lasting magic that I have experienced from noticing and first saying NO to myself out of fear that that would be someone else’s answer, to then instead following my gut nudges and nervously just going for it - in a multitude of experiences, is beyond anything I could ever imagine. 🌟 And I know it will be the same for you, say yes to the voice that calls from within. It often has wisdom speaking - if you turn the dial on your fear low enough to hear it… I am writing this with so much delight and energy. After watching another one of Elin’s intuitive live streams [https://open.substack.com/pub/elinpetronella/p/how-to-embody-the-artist-life-by?utm_campaign=post-expanded-share&utm_medium=web], where she shared advice on moving from creative blocks → flowy movement and ACTION, I put her philosophies into practice, got moving and now I’m feeling sparkly + awake 💖 (If you want to steal my way of ‘getting into movement’ as Elin says - some messy, wild, intuitive dancing, journaling, and heartfelt music did the trick! I also recorded a solo podcast episode that left me feeling inspired and ready to take action - you will hear that in the coming weeks 🦋) Listen to this week’s episode here on Apple [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/20-year-old-butterfly/id1870719559] & here on Spotify [https://open.spotify.com/show/0w27LfNt0Bxw7asAA2SIvU?si=af7c89d7575e4c5e] !!! 🎧 Yay!! See you every Tuesday on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or right here on Substack! 🦋 Follow your gut, connect with us 🩷 I can’t WAIT for you to experience the magic of this conversation and all the brilliant work Elin is doing. Connect with Elin: Elin’s Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/petronella.art] Survive to Thrive Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/survivetothrivemovement] Follow Your Gut - Substack [https://elinpetronella.substack.com/] Elin’s Website [https://www.elinpetronella.com/] Survive to Thrive Website [https://www.survivetothrivemovement.org/] Connect with me (Bailey!) : Read where the name 20 Year Old Butterfly comes from! [https://baileycreativity.substack.com/about] Buy my book here! [https://baileycreativity.myshopify.com/] My Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/baileycreativity] Explore my new website in-progress 🌼 [https://baileycreativity.com/] (Music) Stock Media provided by marcozannone / Pond5 Sending love to you! Bailey On the theme of following your intuition… Usually my podcast episodes are audio only and I share clips throughout the week in Instagram reel format/to Substack notes. For some reason, I’m feeling called to share the raw video format here today! So enjoy!! The video doesn’t have the music or intro/outro but if you prefer to watch, here’s a special treat for you ✨ This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit baileycreativity.substack.com [https://baileycreativity.substack.com?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_1]

"I don't want to make content, I just want to make tables!" ✨ Authenticity, creativity, & furniture with Sharon (aka The Chatty Carpenter)

Listen to the episode here on Apple [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/20-year-old-butterfly/id1870719559] & here on Spotify [https://open.spotify.com/show/0w27LfNt0Bxw7asAA2SIvU?si=af7c89d7575e4c5e] !!! 🎧 When the lovely Sharon made a spontaneous, spur of the moment video [https://www.instagram.com/thechattycarpenter/reel/DMQJWp_sgBW/] in which she shared “I don’t want to make content, I just want to make tables!” - she didn’t realize what would come next. This short Instagram video went massively viral with 600K views. Thousands of people resonated deeply to Sharon’s authenticity, humanness, and raw emotion! (A feeling that many of us heart-led entrepreneurs feel but never say out loud) I instantly related to that video and Sharon and I have been connected through Instagram DMs ever since! I’m so grateful I got to have a conversation with her (and that YOU also get to hear her humor, refreshing insights, & vulnerable stories). It was such a delight and listening back reminded me of all the valuable things she shared. 💛 “I think that being true to yourself and who you are is probably the only way to ensure peace. Inner peace to yourself. Trying to be something else, trying to put up a front, trying to pretend, trying to fake… it does not sit with me, it doesn’t make me happy, I think it can actually make you quite ill.” -Sharon during our conversation Listen to the episode here on Apple [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/20-year-old-butterfly/id1870719559] & here on Spotify [https://open.spotify.com/show/0w27LfNt0Bxw7asAA2SIvU?si=af7c89d7575e4c5e] !!! 🎧 Yay!! See you every Tuesday on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or right here on Substack! 🦋 Connect with us :) Connect with Sharon: Sharon’s Instagram’s: @thechattycarpenter [https://www.instagram.com/thechattycarpenter/] @twistedeyefurniture [https://www.instagram.com/twistedeyefurniture/] Twisted Eye Furniture [https://twistedeye.co.uk/?srsltid=AfmBOopyhnfeO5Xo4JPjDLZwcNQ_GuGft2_LDglWihxURhoA1wngJROT](take a stroll through Sharon’s website to see the beautiful furniture she makes! It’s incredible ✨ Connect with me: Read where the name 20 Year Old Butterfly comes from! [https://baileycreativity.substack.com/about] Buy my book here! [https://baileycreativity.myshopify.com/] My Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/baileycreativity] (Music) Stock Media provided by marcozannone / Pond5 This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit baileycreativity.substack.com [https://baileycreativity.substack.com?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_1]