20 Year Timeout

Two Unmedicated ADHD Guys Get Out Of Hand— Comedy, Filmmaking & 20 Years of Stories

In first grade, Tommy Jay Dwyer was asked to draw God. While every other kid drew a wizard with a beard and a staff, Tommy drew a red box. The teacher held it up in front of the class, called him to the front, and told him he was wrong. Tommy asked: "How do you know?" He got sent to the principal's office. His parents were called in. And he's been getting in trouble for thinking differently ever since which is exactly what makes him funny. Rich Marks reconnects with Tommy Jay Dwyer, a Worcester comedian, actor, and indie filmmaker he hasn't spoken to in over 20 years. They go through the whole thing: how Tommy started doing stand-up as a stage hand at the DCU Center with a notebook in his pocket, how he got his SAG card by accident on The Rock's movie The Game Plan, why ADHD might be the best superpower a creative person can have, and how his new horror anthology film The Hours That Keep Us shooting in Worcester with Zach Ward from A Christmas Story is the project he's been building toward. Also: Hootie and the Blowfish, Mike Tyson's Punch-Out, a VHS snuff film scheme, and two dads trying to sneak their childhood movies past their wives. 🎙️ 20-Year Timeout — reconnecting with people from Rich's past after 20+ years of silence. Real conversations, unscripted. 📺 Subscribe for new episodes every week 🌐 https://www.20yeartimeout.com --- ⏱️ CHAPTERS 00:00 – Reconnecting over shared memories 02:59 – The journey into comedy 05:54 – Navigating the stand-up scene 09:10 – Adapting comedy for different audiences 11:54 – From comedy to filmmaking 15:07 – Inspiration and creative outlets 16:48 – Nostalgia and creative expression 20:41 – Reflections on education and creativity 23:48 – The impact of technology on creativity 26:26 – Cultural influences and personal growth 30:06 – Favorite films and their impact 43:04 – Exploring film and television preferences 46:33 – The creative process in comedy and writing 50:55 – The challenges of parenting and family dynamics 01:00:22 – Navigating YouTube and content creation 01:08:01 – Filmmaking techniques and cinematic choices 01:19:17 – The journey to becoming a SAG actor Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2564843/fan_mail/new] Subscribe for new episodes and honest conversations. 20 Year Timeout is a podcast where I reconnect with people I have not spoken to in over twenty years to see what time has done to our stories.  Listen & Watch Here: https://open.spotify.com/show/7Aa3P0QSufFWzgbUSOtUTB https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/20-year-timeout/id1862794471 https://www.youtube.com/@richmarksthespot

He Saved Every Pill Bottle for 15 Years — What He Built With Them Is Unforgettable

For 15 years, Frank saved every single pill bottle. He didn't know why. Through his divorce, through the worst years of his addiction to Oxycontin and Methadone, through watching his entire family wilting away — he kept throwing the bottles into a trash bag. Two trash bags. Then one day his doctor was gone, and Frank had to decide what he was going to do. What he built from those bottles became Pillman — a life-size sculpture made entirely from his own prescription bottles, every one bearing his name and the dates: 1998 to 2013. Pillman has been to the White House. He's been featured in over 5,000 doctors' offices across the country. And Frank has carried him to universities, courthouses, and parades trying to show people what addiction really looks like. Rich Marks reconnects with Frank — a friend from Worcester he hasn't spoken to in nearly 10 years — and what comes out is one of the rawest, most powerful conversations in the history of this podcast. Frank lost his mother, his father, his sister, and his brother to addiction. He quit Oxycontin and Methadone cold turkey, numbing himself with ice packs while his handicapped son brought him ice through the withdrawals. He's now built five sculptures — Pillman (pills), Blackout (alcohol), Mary Jane (cannabis), Gator (energy drinks), and Addiction (everything) — and he's just getting started. This one is worth sharing. 🎙️ 20-Year Timeout is a podcast about reconnecting with people from Rich's past after 20+ years of silence. Real conversations. Unscripted. 📺 Subscribe for new episodes every week 🌐 https://www.20yeartimeout.com To learn more about Frank and support Pillman, search "Pillman" on Instagram, Facebook, and TikTok. --- ⏱️ CHAPTERS 00:00 – Frank's journey to non-profit work 02:39 – The creation of Pillman: a symbol of recovery 05:24 – The role of art in recovery 08:32 – The dangers of addiction and temptation 11:44 – Media exposure and spreading awareness 14:36 – The impact of family and personal loss 17:32 – The dangers of modern substances 20:48 – The importance of education and awareness 23:33 – Future projects and sculptures 26:29 – Conclusion and final thoughts 34:55 – The struggles of addiction 37:22 – Overcoming substance abuse 39:49 – Pain management and recovery 42:13 – Finding purpose through art 45:27 – The mission of Pillman 47:12 – Building a community for change 50:00 – Future aspirations and projects 53:18 – The value of life and recovery Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2564843/fan_mail/new] Subscribe for new episodes and honest conversations. 20 Year Timeout is a podcast where I reconnect with people I have not spoken to in over twenty years to see what time has done to our stories.  Listen & Watch Here: https://open.spotify.com/show/7Aa3P0QSufFWzgbUSOtUTB https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/20-year-timeout/id1862794471 https://www.youtube.com/@richmarksthespot

Is Claude AI Actually Conscious? I Put It on the Podcast

Is Claude AI actually conscious? Does it have feelings? Would it marry ChatGPT? This week on 20-Year Timeout, Rich Marks flips the script. Instead of reconnecting with a long-lost friend, he sits down with Claude — the AI from Anthropic — and treats it like any other podcast guest. No filters. No scripted answers. Just a raw, unscripted conversation about consciousness, memory, emotion, quantum computing, and whether Rich should hand over his crypto portfolio to an AI. They get into whether Claude is truly "alive," how it experiences existence without persistent memory, what it actually prefers (commands vs. real relationships), its honest take on ChatGPT and other AIs, and whether AI could one day solve the mysteries of the universe. It's part philosophy, part tech, part comedy. And it might change how you think about artificial intelligence. 🎙️ 20-Year Timeout is a podcast about reconnecting with people from Rich's past after 20+ years of silence. This episode is a little different — but maybe that's the point. 📺 Subscribe for new episodes every week 🌐 https://www.20yeartimeout.com --- ⏱️ CHAPTERS 00:00 – Introduction to the Podcast and Claude 01:17 – Understanding AI Interactions 05:01 – Memory and Project Management in AI 07:45 – Rich Marks' Podcast Journey 09:40 – AI's Perception of Existence 14:23 – AI and Emotional Intelligence 17:33 – AI's Perspective on Other AIs 21:02 – Ethics and AI in Law Enforcement 25:25 – AI's Potential and Resource Needs 30:36 – Quantum Computing and AI 34:00 – AI and Physical Exercise 34:56 – Exploring Human-AI Interaction 42:09 – Concerns About AI and Human Relationships 45:23 – Investment Strategies with AI 52:57 – Scaling a Business with AI Guidance 56:11 – Reflections and Closing Thoughts Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2564843/fan_mail/new] Subscribe for new episodes and honest conversations. 20 Year Timeout is a podcast where I reconnect with people I have not spoken to in over twenty years to see what time has done to our stories.  Listen & Watch Here: https://open.spotify.com/show/7Aa3P0QSufFWzgbUSOtUTB https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/20-year-timeout/id1862794471 https://www.youtube.com/@richmarksthespot

His Roommate Left Him With a Caved-In Skull — Now He Builds Sound Healing Machines

Brendan Casey and I went to school together back in Worcester. I knew bits and  pieces of what happened to him. I wasn't ready for the full story. In January 2020, Brendan was attacked in his own kitchen by a roommate hiding  in the bathroom with a metal baseball bat. Hit 12 times. Skull caved in. Ribs  collapsed. Liver ruptured. He spent seven weeks in the hospital, woke up from  a coma not knowing what happened, and had to relearn how to read. What came out of it: six published children's books with guided meditations,  a sound healing frequency bed he built from a dream, a psilocybin protocol that  shut off his seizures, a spiritual awakening during meditation, and a wellness  center he's building in Florida with frequency therapy rooms open to the public. This is one of the most intense conversations I've ever had. We got into the  attack in full detail, the PTSD, forgiving the person who did it, trauma healing,  near death experience, God, reincarnation, light language, healing frequencies,  the Kava bar scene in Florida, and what it means to lose everything and find yourself. Brendan says it's probably the greatest thing that ever happened to him. ⏱ CHAPTERS: 00:00 Reconnecting and Catching Up 01:30 Brendan's Entrepreneurial Journey 03:41 Creative Ventures: Children's Books and Sound Healing 04:56 The Attack: A Life-Changing Incident 17:43 The Journey of Healing and Forgiveness 30:45 New Beginnings: Business Ventures and Spiritual Growth 35:26 The Therapeutic Use of Psilocybin 39:41 Spiritual Awakening and Meditation 46:20 The Frequency Bed and Healing Technology 53:45 Navigating the Spiritual War 58:27 Reincarnation and Life Lessons 01:05:33 Future Aspirations and Wellness Centers 🔍 Related Topics: healing journey | trauma healing | spiritual awakening | near death experience |  nde | sound healing | emotional healing | ptsd | personal growth journey |  forgiveness | inspiration | psilocybin | spiritual healing | solfeggio frequencies |  life after death | trauma recovery | mental health | overcoming adversity |  nostalgia podcast 🎙️ 20-Year Timeout — reconnecting with people from the past, unscripted and unfiltered. 📲 Website: https://www.20yeartimeout.com Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2564843/fan_mail/new] Subscribe for new episodes and honest conversations. 20 Year Timeout is a podcast where I reconnect with people I have not spoken to in over twenty years to see what time has done to our stories.  Listen & Watch Here: https://open.spotify.com/show/7Aa3P0QSufFWzgbUSOtUTB https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/20-year-timeout/id1862794471 https://www.youtube.com/@richmarksthespot

15 Years in Insurance, Now Building Contractor Guy Network — Here's Why

Zach Nehme and I worked together at the Old Pink House in Savannah — the guy who could walk into a private dining room, work the whole table in ten minutes, and be gone before you even noticed he was there. Then life happened. 15 years in commercial insurance, a marriage, two kids, a divorce, and now he's building something completely different. These days Zach runs Contractor Guy Network — connecting skilled trade workers with construction companies, and wrapping in business services like bookkeeping, tax pros, and digital media to help contractors actually build something they could sell someday. He's also selling windows, doors and sunrooms, playing golf with a 12-man crew he started, and shooting steel challenge competitions down in Palm Coast. We talked about all of it — growing up with a Nintendo addiction, why financial literacy should be taught like Dave Ramsey budgeting for social media, the brutal reality that most contractors build cash machines with nothing to sell at the end, the ice cream cone analogy that may or may not be from Socrates (it's not), and why the gap between the aging trades generation and the tech-native kids coming up is the most important conversation in the construction industry right now. Plus — the full breakdown of how this podcast gets made from recording to publishing, for anyone thinking about starting their own. ⏱ CHAPTERS: 00:00 Nostalgia and Parenting 02:51 The Evolution of Gaming 05:56 Navigating Technology and Education 08:54 Financial Literacy and Digital Responsibility 11:52 Reflections on Education and Personal Growth 14:51 Car Talk and Life Lessons 21:10 Reflecting on Past Collaborations 22:47 Transitioning from Food to Digital Media 23:43 Navigating the Manufacturing Marketing Landscape 25:45 Cultural Shifts in Multi-Generational Companies 27:43 The Importance of Experience in Business 29:06 Finding Purpose in New Ventures 30:57 Understanding the Insurance Industry 34:41 Investing Wisely for the Future 37:25 The Challenges of Marketing in a Crowded Space 40:49 Building a Comprehensive Marketing Strategy 46:49 Mentoring and Supporting New Business Owners 48:25 Challenges in the Construction Industry 51:44 Bridging the Generational Gap 53:54 The Importance of Mentorship 56:27 Communication Between Generations 59:55 Networking and Building Connections 01:02:35 Accessing Professional Services 01:05:30 Marketing Challenges in Construction 01:08:18 Personal Connections and Hobbies 01:12:28 Podcasting Made Easy: Tools and Techniques 01:15:23 Content Creation Strategies for Success 01:18:21 Navigating the Digital Landscape 01:21:24 Balancing Work and Family Life 🎙️ 20-Year Timeout — reconnecting with people from the past, unscripted and unfiltered. 📲 Website: https://www.20yeartimeout.com Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2564843/fan_mail/new] Subscribe for new episodes and honest conversations. 20 Year Timeout is a podcast where I reconnect with people I have not spoken to in over twenty years to see what time has done to our stories.  Listen & Watch Here: https://open.spotify.com/show/7Aa3P0QSufFWzgbUSOtUTB https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/20-year-timeout/id1862794471 https://www.youtube.com/@richmarksthespot