A Gentleman's Guide

Episode 46 - What To Do When She Disappears… and Then Comes Back

She vanished without a word… and now she’s back like nothing happened. What do you do? In this episode of A Gentleman’s Guide, I break down the confusing dynamic of ghosting followed by a sudden return. I share two personal stories — one romantic, one platonic — and explore what motivates this behaviour, how to interpret it, and most importantly, how to respond without losing your self-respect. We’ll cover: - Why people ghost and come back months later - The most common (and flimsy) excuses - How to tell if she’s sincere — or just seeking validation - The three ways to respond (and when silence is best) - Why outcome independence is the real superpower If you’ve ever had someone dip out and reappear like nothing happened, this episode is for you. Got a hot take on dating or relationships? Or a question you've been dying to ask? Join me on A Gentleman’s Guide and share your story, insights, or curiosity with the world. Reach out at alex@polyglotradio.com [alex@polyglotradio.com] or slide into my DMs on Instagram: @agg_podcast. Watch the full episode on YouTube: youtube.com/@AGentlemansGuidePodcast [http://youtube.com/@AGentlemansGuidePodcast] Hosted by Audion. Visit https://www.audion.fm/privacy-policy [https://www.audion.fm/privacy-policy] for more information.

Episode 45 - Pub Crawl Dilemma: When Two Friends Like the Same Girl

What do you do when you and your best friend fall for the same woman — on the same night? In this episode, Alexandre shares a true story from a pub crawl in Croatia that turned into an unexpected showdown of attraction, ego, and friendship. Through this humorous yet insightful tale, he explores male dynamics, jealousy, and how to navigate tricky social situations without wrecking the mood—or your friendship. The big takeaway? Sometimes it’s not about “winning the girl”… it’s about keeping your integrity and your friendships intact. Got a hot take on dating or relationships? Or a question you've been dying to ask? Join me on A Gentleman’s Guide and share your story, insights, or curiosity with the world. Reach out at alex@polyglotradio.com [alex@polyglotradio.com] or slide into my DMs on Instagram: @agg_podcast. Watch the full episode on YouTube: youtube.com/@AGentlemansGuidePodcast [http://youtube.com/@AGentlemansGuidePodcast] Hosted by Audion. Visit https://www.audion.fm/privacy-policy [https://www.audion.fm/privacy-policy] for more information.

Episode 44 - Why You’re Dating All Wrong: What the Data Really Says About Love

In Episode 44, Alexandre digs into what big data really says about dating and long-term happiness. Spoiler: the traits we obsess over on apps - looks, height, job - barely predict relationship joy. Instead, your own mindset and emotional health matter way more. Discover why “shiny” qualities are overrated and how chemistry often grows over time with the underrated partners we overlook. Plus, the top four traits that truly predict lasting love. Ready to stop dating wrong? Tune in! Got a hot take on dating or relationships? Or a question you've been dying to ask? Join me on A Gentleman’s Guide and share your story, insights, or curiosity with the world. Reach out at alex@polyglotradio.com [alex@polyglotradio.com] or slide into my DMs on Instagram: @agg_podcast. Hosted by Audion. Visit https://www.audion.fm/privacy-policy [https://www.audion.fm/privacy-policy] for more information.

Episode 43 - Looks, height and money: how important are they in dating?

Turns out, dating apps don’t lie—and neither do the cold, hard stats. In this episode, Alexandre uncovers what really makes you swipe-right material: hotness helps, height matters, and your job title might beat your salary. From sexy names to firefighter fantasies, it’s a data-driven reality check with a side of sarcasm. Spoiler: Your vibe still beats your bank account. Got a hot take on dating or relationships? Or a question you've been dying to ask? Join me on A Gentleman’s Guide and share your story, insights, or curiosity with the world. Reach out at alex@polyglotradio.com [alex@polyglotradio.com] or slide into my DMs on Instagram: @agg_podcast. Hosted by Audion. Visit https://www.audion.fm/privacy-policy [https://www.audion.fm/privacy-policy] for more information.

Episode 42 - Danny Vera: “Raise Your Frequency” — On Leveling Up, Filtering Women, and the Role of Looks

This second episode with dating coach Danny Very touches on essential elements of personal development and dating success. Danny emphasizes the importance of operating at a higher frequency by eliminating low-frequency habits and adopting healthier daily routines. They explore the significance of filtering potential partners, recognizing red flags in texting, and analysing post-date behaviours to gauge interest. The conversation also touches on the role of physical attractiveness in dating dynamics and the necessity of effective communication skills for building romantic connections. Danny's YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@itsdannyvera [https://www.youtube.com/@itsdannyvera] Instagram: @itsdannyvera Do you have a question about dating or relationships? Do you have interesting insights into the subject? Why not become a guest on my podcast? Get in touch at: alex@polyglotradio.com [alex@polyglotradio.com], or DM me on my Instagram profile agg_podcast. Hosted by Audion. Visit https://www.audion.fm/privacy-policy [https://www.audion.fm/privacy-policy] for more information.