Fathers Sons Brothers

This podcast is a space for having courageous conversations. We aim to open the places most are too scared to tread.  This episode will touch on some of your most deep-seated beliefs and make you question everything.  Do you really have to pay taxes and listen to people in uniform? Are you brave enough to dig deep to the bottom of your money beliefs?  What if everything you believe about yourself… isn’t even yours? In this mind-expanding conversation, Christopher Armstrong joins me to dismantle the invisible programming that runs your life - beliefs inherited through culture, conditioning, and even your DNA. We explore how to reclaim sovereignty, reprogram your mind, and create your life from a place of deep inner truth. In this episode, we explore: * What it really means to “reclaim your power” in a world built on illusion * The hidden gift of being neurodivergent (and how society labels it all wrong) * How emotions, embodiment, and nervous system awareness help you find your truth * How your parents and your birth certificate contracted you into a contractual business deal with your government - and how to get out of it! * Why the “quantum leap” isn't instant but compounded through daily action * How to build community as a key to breaking free from conditioning * A behind-the-scenes look at Christopher’s Rise & Reset program This episode is all about personal sovereignty. Please be sure to tag me @garethpickering on Instagram and share this episode with your community to spread the word if you or someone you know has benefited from this content! I love to hear about all your experiences. Also, be sure to leave a review on iTunes in order to receive a free meditation to reclaim your power. Just screenshot it before submitting it and email it to my team at studio@fatherssonsbrothers.com, and I will see you in the next episode. If you enjoyed this episode, make sure you also check out Episode 56 "Love, Life & Leadership - Lessons for Success with Toni Versic" [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wq8Dz0QYzd8&list=PLf0aX4k0hbBZXlTdr1s15Sr65ZpAm1S5v&index=10]. 🔗 Resources & Links: * Learn more about Christopher’s Rise & Reset course [https://portal.risewithchristopher.com/reset-your-mind] * Explore the Freedom People [https://thefreedompeople.org/?ref=risewithchristopher] platform THE KING'S CIRCLE: A DOJO FOR INTEGRATED LEADERS “We’re magnificent, and we’re broken” - Tom Hirons. An integrated leader recognises that we all have inner work to do. So, these new-paradigm leaders seek out people, processes, and places that support them in recognising and integrating their blindspots. Each month, Fathers Sons Brothers host the King's Circle, a two-hour transformational leadership training experience. It’s a men-only space where visionaries gather to learn tools and frameworks that make them better communicators and more integrated leaders. When you regularly invest in this type of training:  * You gain access to a space where men from all over the world support and encourage you to show up at your best. * You get clear on what you came here to do. You reconnect with your mission. * You recognise where you’re leaking energy, and you reclaim that power to allocate towards serving your mission. * You develop more trust in yourself, and this improvement is reflected in all your relationships.  * You feel inspired and excited about our brave new world, as you connect deeper with the other Integrated Leaders through the King’s Circle. All growth after puberty is optional and the men who attend our circle have a growth mindset like you.  We support each other in becoming the new paradigm of courageous leaders we've been waiting for. Secure your free seat in The King’s Circle here: https://www.fatherssonsbrothers.com/kings-circle [https://www.fatherssonsbrothers.com/kings-circle]. ABOUT OUR GUEST Christopher Armstrong is a transformational guide and Inner Architect who helps neurodivergent misfits and visionaries break free from overwhelm, confusion, and burnout. Through a unique blend of nervous system healing, subconscious reprogramming, and soul alignment, he empowers high-performing individuals to reclaim their purpose and step into the grounded, powerful leaders they were born to be. His work supports those who have never fit the mold in rising beyond survival and creating lives rooted in clarity, authenticity, and deep inner freedom. Connect with him on: Website [https://www.risewithchristopher.com], Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/risewithchristopher], Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/chris.armstrong369],Youtube [https://www.youtube.com/@risewithchristopher] ABOUT YOUR HOST Gareth Pickering [https://garethpickering.com/] is an artist and thought leader. His inspiration is to create spaces for men to have open and honest conversations that shift their mindset and live life to the fullest. He’s a human connection specialist who guides others to level up with their lives through “relationships”. Relationships are a rocket ship for personal development. Gareth provides the tools and maps to fly and land your rocket safely. Connect with him on:  Website [https://garethpickering.com/], Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/garethpickering/], Linkedin [https://www.linkedin.com/in/gareth-pickering/], X [https://twitter.com/garethpickering/status/1485729202208915470], Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/itsmegareth/]

Episode Summary: If you feel like you're giving everything to your relationship but still ending up stressed, resentful, or unappreciated, this episode is for you. Gareth and Matt unpack the real reason why things might feel off and explore how one simple shift—setting clear boundaries—can radically improve how you show up in love, parenting, and partnership. This powerful conversation emerges from the lessons and breakthroughs inside the Legendary Lover Method, their signature relationship and intimacy program for men. 💡 What You’ll Learn: 1. Why knowing and communicating your needs isn’t enough—and what’s missing. The 3-step framework for setting boundaries that create clarity and connection. 2. How to avoid hidden resentment and miscommunication by speaking your "why." Why setting boundaries is actually an act of love and leadership. 3. The difference between expressing a need and protecting it. 4. How masculine clarity creates safety in your relationship. 🧠 Quote of the Episode: “You can’t be the husband or father you want to be unless you first prioritise the relationship you have with yourself.” — Gareth Pickering 🎁 Free Training: Join our upcoming Relationship Reflections part of the Kings and Queens series – A guided process to mine gold from past relationships, close old energetic loops, and prepare to love with clarity. Get the details on this page: https://www.fatherssonsbrothers.com/kings-and-queens [https://www.fatherssonsbrothers.com/kings-and-queens]. If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to catch Episode 59 "Stop Stepping on Relationship Landmines" [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sGQFZhAKnYg&list=PLf0aX4k0hbBZXlTdr1s15Sr65ZpAm1S5v&index=6] with Gareth Pickering. About your hosts: Gareth Pickering is an artist and thought leader. His inspiration is to create spaces for men to have open and honest conversations that shift their mindset and live life to the fullest. He’s a human connection specialist who guides others to level up with their lives through “relationships”. Relationships are a rocket ship for personal development. Gareth provides the tools and maps to fly and land your rocket safely.   Connect with him on:   Website [https://garethpickering.com/], Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/garethpickering/], Linkedin [https://www.linkedin.com/in/gareth-pickering/], X [https://twitter.com/garethpickering/status/1485729202208915470], Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/itsmegareth/] Matt Dahse is a father and conscious creator, designing pathways for men to follow to unlock their potential and step into their power.

What if the chaos you're avoiding is the key to your next breakthrough? In this episode, I sit down with Lewis Huckstep for a raw and insightful conversation about the deep inner work required to lead powerfully and love deeply. We explore the intersection of leadership and relationships, revealing how emotional triggers, unresolved trauma, and life’s inevitable chaos are actually opportunities to build greater capacity and resilience. Lewis shares hard-won insights on the masculine and feminine dynamic, how to navigate emotional storms without losing your center, and why true transformation only happens when you’re willing to go all in. If you’ve ever struggled to let go of control, feared emotional challenges, or hesitated to claim your true value, this is a masterclass in building emotional strength and stepping into transformative leadership. Lewis and I explore the deeper layers of personal growth, showing that true change isn’t just about mindset - it’s about learning to trust yourself in the face of uncertainty and becoming the kind of leader who transforms not just your own life, but the lives of those you love. In this episode, you'll Learn: * Why transformation doesn’t happen until you commit financially and how investing in yourself shifts your results. * The real reason you’re struggling with sales or asking for what you’re worth. * How the feminine tests the masculine, and why your ability to hold space determines the strength of your leadership. * How to sit with emotional chaos without losing your center. * The balance between inner work and outward action, and why you need both to create success. * What to expect when stepping into fatherhood and why it challenges your emotional strength like nothing else.  This episode is all about inner strength! Please be sure to tag me @garethpickering on Instagram and share this episode with your community to spread the word if you or someone you know has benefited from this content! I love to hear about all your experiences. Also, be sure to leave a review on iTunes in order to receive a free meditation to reclaim your power. Just screenshot it before submitting it and email it to my team at studio@fatherssonsbrothers.com, and I will see you in the next episode. If you enjoyed this episode, make sure you also check out Episode 60 "From Stuck to Unstoppable with Todd Jason" [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rALekVIfCtQ&t=129s] RESOURCE LINKS "The Inspired Life Method" by Lewis Huckstep [https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/1763651045] Join "Conscious Community" with Lewis Huckstep [https://www.skool.com/inspired-life-method-9441/] YOUR MESSAGE IS YOUR MAGIC Struggling to connect with your audience and convert leads? Message Magic will help you craft a clear, powerful brand message that attracts your ideal clients and drives sales. This proven system guides you step-by-step to define your core message, sharpen your positioning, and create a brand that stands out. If your business feels stuck or your message isn’t landing, Message Magic will unlock the clarity and confidence you need to grow. Don’t let a weak message hold you back - check it out now: igniteyourbusiness.io/message-magic [https://igniteyourbusiness.io/message-magic]. RECONNECT WITH BROTHERHOOD — JOIN US FOR A TRANSFORMATIVE MEN’S WEEKEND IN SOUTH AFRICA It’s time to reconnect with your strength, truth, and brothers. Join us for a powerful weekend of deep connection and growth at Waterfall Farm in the Cederberg Mountains. Sit in a sacred circle, share your truth without judgment, and experience a transformative San Pedro ceremony under the stars. You’ll rediscover your inner strength and clarity by being surrounded by nature's raw beauty. Spaces are limited - claim your spot now and step into the next chapter of your life. https://www.fatherssonsbrothers.com/offers/DYxddz2W/checkout [https://www.fatherssonsbrothers.com/offers/DYxddz2W/checkout] THE KING'S CIRCLE: A DOJO FOR INTEGRATED LEADERS “We’re magnificent, and we’re broken” - Tom Hirons. An integrated leader recognises that we all have inner work to do. So, these new-paradigm leaders seek out people, processes, and places that support them in recognising and integrating their blindspots. Each month, Fathers Sons Brothers host the King's Circle, a two-hour transformational leadership training experience. It’s a men-only space where visionaries gather to learn tools and frameworks that make them better communicators and more integrated leaders. When you regularly invest in this type of training:  * You gain access to a space where men from all over the world support and encourage you to show up at your best. * You get clear on what you came here to do. You reconnect with your mission. * You recognise where you’re leaking energy, and you reclaim that power to allocate towards serving your mission. * You develop more trust in yourself, and this improvement is reflected in all your relationships.  * You feel inspired and excited about our brave new world, as you connect deeper with the other Integrated Leaders through the King’s Circle. All growth after puberty is optional and the men who attend our circle have a growth mindset like you.  We support each other in becoming the new paradigm of courageous leaders we've been waiting for. Secure your free seat in The King’s Circle here: https://www.fatherssonsbrothers.com/kings-circle [https://www.fatherssonsbrothers.com/kings-circle]. ABOUT OUR GUEST Lewis Huckstep is a performance and fulfillment coach specializing in helping high achievers create lives on their own terms. He entered the business world at 18 and went on to own three gyms by the age of 22. This early success sparked a deeper exploration into personal development, which led to the creation of the Inspired Life Method — a powerful framework that combines business strategy with personal growth tools. Through this method, Lewis has helped over 6,000 people discover their purpose, break through mental and emotional barriers, and achieve greater success, love, and fulfillment. He is also the author of the best-selling book The Inspired Life Method and hosts The Lewis Huckstep Experience podcast, where he explores personal transformation, business, and relationships. Connect with him on: Website [https://www.lewishuckstep.com/], Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/lewishuckstep/], Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/Lewishuckstepp], X [lewishuckstep],Youtube [https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCFydq4ZV3RLWo8dK-nRfMzg] ABOUT YOUR HOST Gareth Pickering [https://garethpickering.com/] is an artist and thought leader. His inspiration is to create spaces for men to have open and honest conversations that shift their mindset and live life to the fullest. He’s a human connection specialist who guides others to level up with their lives through “relationships”. Relationships are a rocket ship for personal development. Gareth provides the tools and maps to fly and land your rocket safely. Connect with him on:  Website [https://garethpickering.com/], Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/garethpickering/], Linkedin [https://www.linkedin.com/in/gareth-pickering/], X [https://twitter.com/garethpickering/status/1485729202208915470], Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/itsmegareth/]

Most men wake up every day without a clear vision for their future. They’re grinding, they’re hustling, but deep down, they don’t know if they’re actually building the life they want. If you feel stuck, like you're coasting through life without real direction, this conversation will change the way you think about your future. I sit down with Todd Jason to break down why clarity is the foundation of success, fulfillment, and freedom - and how you can develop it. Todd’s distilled decades of wisdom into a simple but powerful framework for getting crystal clear on your purpose and creating the life you truly want. IN THIS EPISODE, YOU’LL LEARN: * Why you may lack clarity—and how it's keeping you stuck * The #1 mindset shift that will unlock your next level * A powerful "eulogy exercise" to create a vision for your life * How to align your actions with your ultimate purpose * The surprising connection between clarity and your relationships * The Golden Path Framework—and how it can shift your entire trajectory * Why community is the secret accelerator for success * How you can use Todd’s Clarity Course to break free from indecision and start moving forward EXCLUSIVE OFFER FOR OUR LISTENERS: Todd is giving our listeners 50% off his Clarity Course—a two-day deep dive into the life-changing framework we talk about in this episode. Go to Todd Jason [https://toddjason.com/clarity-catalyst/] and use code GARETH-2025 for 50% off! If you're ready to stop drifting and start leading your life with purpose, take advantage of this now. This episode is all about achieving clarity! Please be sure to tag me @garethpickering on Instagram and share this episode with your community to spread the word if you or someone you know has benefited from this content! I love to hear about all your experiences. Also, be sure to leave a review on iTunes in order to receive a free meditation to reclaim your power. Just screenshot it before submitting it and email it to my team at studio@fatherssonsbrothers.com, and I will see you in the next episode. RESOURCE LINKS * Todd’s upcoming book: Clarity: Master This One Quality And Create A Life Beyond Your Dreams [http://www.toddjason.com] * Todd’s Clarity Course [https://toddjason.com/clarity-catalyst/] (50% off for listeners)   [http://www.toddjason.com] If you enjoyed this episode, make sure you also check out Episode #39 From People-Pleaser to Unapologetically You with Dr Robert Glover [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Gs4IlKR8G_4&list=PLf0aX4k0hbBZXlTdr1s15Sr65ZpAm1S5v&index=27&t=15s]. THE KING’S CIRCLE: A DOJO FOR INTEGRATED LEADERS. “We’re magnificent, and we’re broken” - Tom Hirons. An integrated leader recognises that we all have inner work to do. So, these new-paradigm leaders seek out people, processes, and places that support them in recognising and integrating their blind spots. Each month, Fathers Sons Brothers host the King's Circle, a two-hour transformational leadership training experience. It’s a men-only space where visionaries gather to learn tools and frameworks that make them better communicators and more integrated leaders.  When you regularly invest in this type of training:  * You gain access to a space where men from all over the world support and encourage you to show up at your best. * You get clear on what you came here to do. You reconnect with your mission. * You recognise where you’re leaking energy, and you reclaim that power to allocate towards serving your mission. * You develop more trust in yourself, and this improvement is reflected in all your relationships.  * You feel inspired and excited about our brave new world, as you connect deeper with the other Integrated Leaders through the King’s Circle. All growth after puberty is optional and the men who attend our circle have a growth mindset like you.  We support each other in becoming the new paradigm of courageous leaders we've been waiting for. Secure your free seat in The King’s Circle here: https://www.fatherssonsbrothers.com/kings-circle [https://www.fatherssonsbrothers.com/kings-circle]. ABOUT OUR GUEST: Todd Jason is an author, speaker and community leader who helps people achieve astounding success in life and work. He's worked with Eckhart Tolle, Tony Robbins, Deepak Chopra and developed online programs that have reached millions.  His upcoming book ‘Clarity: Master This One Quality And Create A Life Beyond Your Dreams’ lays out a precise roadmap for you to attain more freedom, more abundance, and a deep sense of personal fulfillment. Visit his website to get an advanced copy and gain access to some immediate tools to help you get that clarity!  Connect with him on:  Website [https://toddjason.com/], Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/thetoddjason/], Linkedin [https://www.linkedin.com/in/todd-jason-2657627/], YouTube [https://www.youtube.com/@TheToddJason/podcasts], Facebook [https://web.facebook.com/thetoddjason/] ABOUT YOUR HOST: Gareth Pickering [https://garethpickering.com/] is an artist and thought leader. His inspiration is to create spaces for men to have open and honest conversations that shift their mindset and live life to the fullest. He’s a human connection specialist who guides others to level up with their lives through “relationships”. Relationships are a rocket ship for personal development. Gareth provides the tools and maps to fly and land your rocket safely. Connect with him on:  Website [https://garethpickering.com/], Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/garethpickering/], Linkedin [https://www.linkedin.com/in/gareth-pickering/], X [https://twitter.com/garethpickering/status/1485729202208915470], Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/itsmegareth/]

On their deathbeds, 10,000 men were asked, "What made your life meaningful?" It wasn’t the size of their house, the money in their bank account, or the career milestones they hit. It was the quality of their relationships. So, here’s the real question: If relationships are what make life meaningful, how much time have you spent mastering relationship skills? In this episode, Gareth shares his powerful talk, "Stop Stepping on Relationship Landmines," to help you stop blowing up your love life and start leading with clarity and connection. In this episode, you’ll learn: * How to spot hidden emotional triggers before they explode. * Practical tools to defuse emotional landmines in your relationships. * How to break free from repeating toxic patterns. * Why mastering relationships is essential to becoming a purpose-driven leader and legendary lover. This isn’t just relationship advice - it’s bomb squad training for your love life. Time to take off the blindfold and navigate with purpose. This episode is all about relationship mastery! Please be sure to tag me @garethpickering on Instagram and share this episode with your community to spread the word if you or someone you know has benefited from this content! I love to hear about all your experiences. Also, be sure to leave a review on iTunes in order to receive a free meditation to reclaim your power. Just screenshot it before submitting it and email it to my team at studio@fatherssonsbrothers.com, and I will see you in the next episode. Resource Links: The Soulmate Safari [https://www.fatherssonsbrothers.com/safari] If you enjoyed this episode, make sure you also check out Episode #26 The Art of F#cking up Your Relationship with Brian Jenkins [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i_1f2buLwus&list=PLf0aX4k0hbBZXlTdr1s15Sr65ZpAm1S5v&index=48&t=58s]. THE KING’S CIRCLE: A DOJO FOR INTEGRATED LEADERS. “We’re magnificent, and we’re broken” - Tom Hirons.   An integrated leader recognises that we all have inner work to do. So, these new-paradigm leaders seek out people, processes, and places that support them in recognising and integrating their blindspots. Each month, Fathers Sons Brothers host the King's Circle, a two-hour transformational leadership training experience. It’s a men-only space where visionaries gather to learn tools and frameworks that make them better communicators and more integrated leaders. When you regularly invest in this type of training:  * You gain access to a space where men from all over the world support and encourage you to show up at your best. * You get clear on what you came here to do. You reconnect with your mission. * You recognise where you’re leaking energy, and you reclaim that power to allocate towards serving your mission. * You develop more trust in yourself, and this improvement is reflected in all your relationships.  * You feel inspired and excited about our brave new world, as you connect deeper with the other Integrated Leaders through the King’s Circle. All growth after puberty is optional and the men who attend our circle have a growth mindset like you.  We support each other in becoming the new paradigm of courageous leaders we've been waiting for. Secure your free seat in The King’s Circle here: https://www.fatherssonsbrothers.com/kings-circle [https://www.fatherssonsbrothers.com/kings-circle]. ABOUT YOUR HOST: Gareth Pickering [https://garethpickering.com/] is an artist and thought leader. His inspiration is to create spaces for men to have open and honest conversations that shift their mindset and live life to the fullest. He’s a human connection specialist who guides others to level up with their lives through “relationships”. Relationships are a rocket ship for personal development. Gareth provides the tools and maps to fly and land your rocket safely. Connect with him on:  Website [https://garethpickering.com/], Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/garethpickering/], Linkedin [https://www.linkedin.com/in/gareth-pickering/], X [https://twitter.com/garethpickering/status/1485729202208915470], Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/itsmegareth/]