Carry On Fire Family

S2. E11. How Firefighters and Spouses Can Lead Systemic Change

Carry On Fire Family and Wildfire and Resistance sit down to explore the complex intersection of social issues, politics, and the fire service community. We highlight the importance of open dialogue, understanding, and advocacy for systemic change within fire departments and related communities. key topics The impact of politics on fire service policies The role of fire spouses in advocacy and change Addressing systemic racism and historical issues in firefighting The importance of open dialogue about social issues Challenges faced by wildland firefighters and their families Chapters 00:00 Navigating Controversial Topics in the Fire Service 04:56 Life as a Fire Spouse: Challenges and Adaptations 07:43 The Impact of Politics on Wildland Firefighters 13:26 The Role of Fire Wives in Advocacy and Community 19:04 Addressing Social Issues in the Fire Service 25:56 Historical Context of the Fire Service and Politics 37:43 The Role of Firefighters and Contractors 42:59 The Politics of Firefighter Pay and Benefits 46:35 Navigating Uncomfortable Conversations 50:40 Finding Common Ground in Political Discourse 57:37 Building Trust and Community in Firefighting 01:05:25 Creating a Legacy for Future Generations 01:13:30 Black and White Modern Animated Vlog YouTube Intro (7).mp4 Hall of Flame Fire Museum - https://hallofflame.org/ [https://hallofflame.org/] Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/wildfire_and_resistance/ [https://www.instagram.com/wildfire_and_resistance/] https://www.instagram.com/carryonfirefamly/ [https://www.instagram.com/carryonfirefamly/] keywords fire service, social issues, politics, advocacy, community, systemic change, fire spouse, wildland firefighting, public lands, social justice

S2. E10 Going First, slowing down, and being vulnerable with Christine Brandt

In this episode, Christine Brandt shares her journey as a fire family wife, emphasizing the power of vulnerability, doing less on purpose, and building authentic connections. She discusses her experience with social media detox, the importance of initiating relationships, and how to navigate the unique challenges of fire family life. keywords key topics The importance of vulnerability in relationships Strategies for doing less on purpose to reduce stress Building authentic community within fire families Chapters 00:00 The Power of Going First 01:55 Doing Less on Purpose 02:55 Introduction to Christine and Her FireFamily Life 05:43 Navigating Life as a Firefighter's Partner 08:16 The Journey of Starting a YouTube Channel 11:25 The Impact of Social Media on Mental Health 14:14 The Power of Going First in Relationships 22:46 Navigating Depletion in Relationships 28:19 The Importance of Vulnerability 36:46 Strategies for Shift Days 39:35 Addressing Parental Burnout 41:02 Legacy and Commitment Subscribe to Christine's YouTube Channel here: https://www.youtube.com/@ChristineBrandt [https://www.youtube.com/@christinethebrandt] Or her Substack - https://christinebrandt.substack.com [https://christinebrandt.substack.com] Follow us on socials! Audra - Carry On Fire Family [https://www.instagram.com/carryonfirefamily] Christine- https://www.instagram.com/christinethebrandt/?hl=en [https://www.instagram.com/christinethebrandt/?hl=en] fire family, fire wife, vulnerability, doing less on purpose, social media detox, building community, fire department, mental health, fire spouse, authentic connection

S2. E9. Understanding the Wildland Fire Life: with Faith R

In this episode Faith Reimers, a seasoned wildland fire wife, shares her experiences navigating the unique challenges of supporting her firefighter husband during long fire seasons. From the emotional toll of extended absences to managing step-parenting and financial planning, this conversation offers valuable insights and practical advice for fire families. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Wildland Fire Spouses 01:55 Understanding the Unique Challenges of Wildland Fire Families 02:33 Introduction to Wildland Fire Life 05:04 The Unique Challenges of Wildland Fire Families 07:44 Communication and Reintegration During Fire Season 10:43 Navigating Step-Parenting in a Fire Family 13:12 The Impact of Home Stress on Firefighters 15:39 Understanding Wildland vs. Municipal Firefighting 18:11 Creating Community and Support for Fire Wives 19:25 The Importance of Financial Literacy for Fire Families 21:58 Future Aspirations and Legacy in the Fire Service 28:34 Black and White Modern Animated Vlog YouTube Intro (7).mp4 Resources & links: * The Firewife's Guide to Staying Whole [https://www.etsy.com/listing/4484146975/the-wildland-fire-wifes-survival-guide?ls=s&ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=thewildlandfirewife&ref=sr_gallery-1-2&sr_prefetch=0&pf_from=search&dd=1&content_source=abaec3cc-ecb4-4804-bb4b-5e8429183046%253ALT0244d4bb9ed9beb8c881600164f2c0c25777e3ea&organic_search_click=1&logging_key=abaec3cc-ecb4-4804-bb4b-5e8429183046%3ALT0244d4bb9ed9beb8c881600164f2c0c25777e3ea] - real tips for keeping yourself together during fire season * Wildland Fire Family Financial Playbook [https://www.etsy.com/listing/4471490214/the-wildland-fire-wife-financial?ls=s&ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=thewildlandfirewife&ref=sr_gallery-1-1&sr_prefetch=0&pf_from=search&dd=1&content_source=abaec3cc-ecb4-4804-bb4b-5e8429183046%253ALT8e00c60e0b8827b18525da0e00b50be95a3335bf&organic_search_click=1&logging_key=abaec3cc-ecb4-4804-bb4b-5e8429183046%3ALT8e00c60e0b8827b18525da0e00b50be95a3335bf] - how the pay actually works and how to plan around it * Follow Faith — The Wildland Fire Wife [https://www.instagram.com/thewildlandfirewife] * The Wildland Firefighter Paycheck Protection Act [https://congress.gov/bill/xxxx/] * Follow @carryonfirefamily on instagram [https://www.instagram.com/carryonfirefamily]  keywords wildland fire wife, firefighter spouse, fire season, step-parenting, fire service, emotional resilience, financial planning, fire community  Thanks for being here, and for standing with the fire families who hold the line for all of us.  Carry On.

S2. E8. From Entrepreneur to Paramedic: Felicia Kelly’s Journey

Felicia Kelly shares her transformative journey from a successful entrepreneur to a paramedic, emphasizing the importance of life architecture over motivation. Discover her Rich Method for Living, designed to help high-capacity professionals build sustainable structures for success and fulfillment. takeaways Motivation is fleeting; architecture is sustainable. Relationships require intentional access and boundaries. Healing from past trauma is essential for growth. High-capacity careers demand structural support, not just effort. Living intentionally involves managing money, time, and energy. Chapters 00:00 The Power of Architecture Over Motivation 05:01 Unlearning Outdated Models 08:16 Transitioning to Paramedicine 12:56 High Capacity Careers and Their Challenges 16:38 Building Supportive Structures in Relationships 21:38 Intentional Living and Access Management 25:28 Building a Life Worth Living 25:40 The Impact of Social Media on Relationships 27:27 Breaking Bad Habits and Patterns 29:05 Understanding Trauma Bonds 30:41 Choosing Happiness Over Unhappiness 32:20 The Rich Method: Intentional Living 35:06 Cultivating Growth in Life 37:43 Finding Harmony and Harvest in Life 40:39 Creating a Lasting Legacy 46:24 Black and White Modern Animated Vlog YouTube Intro (7).mp4 resources Felicia Kelly’s Website - https://feliciakelly.com [https://feliciakelly.com] Rich Method for Living Course - https://feliciakelly.com/rich-method-reset [https://feliciakelly.com/rich-method-reset] Felicia Kelly’s Instagram - https://instagram.com/feliciakelly [https://instagram.com/feliciakellyinternational] Felicia Kelly’s TikTok - https://tiktok.com/@feliciakelly [https://tiktok.com/@thefeliciakelly] Carry On Fire Family Instagram - https://instagram.com/carryonfirefamily [https://instagram.com/carryonfirefamily] Carry On Fire Family website- carryoncarrion.com [http://carryoncarrion.com]

S2. E7 Mastering Leadership in the Fire Service- Front Seat Academy

In this episode, we get deep into the essentials of leadership in fire services, the pitfalls of current promotion systems, and how to truly prepare for leadership roles. With Mike from Front Seat Academy, we explore how capable firefighters are often unfairly filtered out and how leadership should be about influence, not rank. TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 - The danger of lack of leadership versus skills in the firehouse 00:30 - Why many firefighters struggle with leadership roles 01:00 - The pitfalls of current promotional testing focused on memorization 01:50 - How influence, not rank, defines true leadership 03:00 - Early signs of a crew being off and disengaged 04:00 - Impact of poor culture and how it affects performance 05:00 - Why training for promotion often neglects emotional intelligence and leadership 06:00 - The current state of firefighter training and what needs to change 07:00 - The role of mentorship and leadership from probation to advanced ranks 08:00 - How to foster leadership at every level from the firehouse 09:00 - Building confidence and influence through meaningful engagement 10:00 - Practical modifications to firefighter exams and promotion criteria 11:30 - The importance of experience in real leadership settings 12:30 - Encouraging younger firefighters to develop leadership early 13:30 - The false narrative of leadership styles and the importance of authenticity 14:30 - The impact of organizational culture on leadership quality 15:30 - Recognizing and overcoming institutional trauma and complacency 16:30 - Cultivating a culture of adaptability and humility 17:30 - How to navigate the complexities of modern fire service leadership 18:30 - The significance of visibility and presence in leadership roles 19:30 - How to measure true leadership qualities beyond tests and ranks 20:30 - Practical tips for firefighters aspiring to leadership positions 21:30 - The role of spouses and family support in leadership journeys 22:30 - Creating pathways for leadership development beyond traditional training 23:30 - The importance of early engagement and continuous growth 24:30 - How to reframe leadership as service, not authority 25:30 - The future of fire service promotion and leadership: Innovation and integrity 26:30 - Final thoughts from Mike on creating lasting impact RESOURCES & LINKS: * Front Seat Academy [https://frontseatacademy.com/] * Mike Front Seat Academy on Instagram [https://instagram.com/frontseatacademy_official] * Carry On Fire Family on Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/carryonfirefamily/] * James Kars and Simon Sinek - Finite and Infinite Games [https://www.mindtools.com/pages/article/newLDR_81.htm]