Diary of a Cat Mom

Ep. 69 - Why Your Cat Acts Destructive 🐾🐱

Has your cat ever knocked something off a table, jumped on your laptop, or started causing trouble with another cat the moment you got busy? In this episode of Diary of a Cat Mom [https://diaryofacatmom.com/], I share what I learned from living with a cat who always seems to want attention at exactly the wrong time. What looked like destructive behavior at first turned out to be something very different. What You'll Learn in this Cat Podcast Episode *  Why some cats become disruptive when they want attention  *  What I noticed before the behavior escalated  *  How routines helped create more peace in our home  *  Ways I keep my cats occupied when I need to work  *  Why connection is often at the heart of the behavior  Timestamps & Chapters 00:00 Introduction 00:05 Why Your Cat Acts Destructive 00:35 When Attention-Seeking Starts to Escalate 01:18 What I Didn't Want to Teach My Cat 01:47 The Real Problem I Discovered 02:12 Routines, Playtime & Keeping Cats Occupied 02:58 Creating a Cat-Friendly Workspace 03:20 Why Connection Matters 03:39 The Headphones Solution This is where I’ve gathered everything that supports me and my cats: https://diaryofacatmom.com/cat-care-resources/ [https://diaryofacatmom.com/cat-care-resources/] About the Diary of a Cat Mom Podcast Diary of a Cat Mom [https://diaryofacatmom.com/] is a quiet, personal cat podcast created by Dagmar Gatell [https://diaryofacatmom.com/about-the-host/], sharing real moments, emotions, and experiences from life with cats [https://diaryofacatmom.com/about/]. This space is meant for connection, comfort, and companionship. Everything shared comes from lived experience as a cat mom and is not intended as professional veterinary advice. Every cat is unique, and for health concerns, it’s always best to consult your trusted veterinarian. Most of all, please remember:  You’re not alone on this journey. We’re learning, loving, and growing together — one paw print at a time.

Ep. 68 - Your Cat Can Have Arthritis Too 🐾🐱

Have you ever picked up your cat and heard her cry out? Or noticed that a cat who once loved being petted suddenly pulls away from your touch? In this episode of Diary of a Cat Mom [https://diaryofacatmom.com/], I share how one of my senior cats taught me an important lesson about pain, aging, and listening more carefully to what our cats are trying to tell us. Sometimes what looks like grumpiness isn't a behavior problem at all—it may be discomfort that deserves our attention. What You'll Learn in this Cat Podcast Episode *  Common signs of arthritis in cats  *  Why senior cats may become sensitive to touch  *  How pain can change a cat's behavior  *  Small clues cats give when they're uncomfortable  *  Ways to help an aging cat feel safer and more comfortable  Timestamps & Chapters 00:00 Introduction  00:11 Your Cat Can Have Arthritis Too  00:49 When a Loving Cat Starts Reacting Differently  01:23 The Vet Visit and Diagnosis  01:58 Signs of Pain and Arthritis in Cats  02:28 How I Changed My Interactions  02:53 Why Behavior Changes Matter  03:15 Final Thoughts This is where I’ve gathered everything that supports me and my cats: https://diaryofacatmom.com/cat-care-resources/ [https://diaryofacatmom.com/cat-care-resources/] About the Diary of a Cat Mom Podcast Diary of a Cat Mom [https://diaryofacatmom.com/] is a quiet, personal cat podcast created by Dagmar Gatell [https://diaryofacatmom.com/about-the-host/], sharing real moments, emotions, and experiences from life with cats [https://diaryofacatmom.com/about/]. This space is meant for connection, comfort, and companionship. Everything shared comes from lived experience as a cat mom and is not intended as professional veterinary advice. Every cat is unique, and for health concerns, it’s always best to consult your trusted veterinarian. Most of all, please remember:  You’re not alone on this journey. We’re learning, loving, and growing together — one paw print at a time.

Ep. 67 - Why Your Cat Is Not a Low-Maintenance Pet 🐾 👑

Many people think cats are low-maintenance pets. Feed them, clean the litter box, and let them do their own thing. But anyone who has lived closely with cats knows the truth is very different. In this episode of Diary of a Cat Mom [https://diaryofacatmom.com/], I share what I learned after living with multiple cats, why every cat has a unique personality, and how understanding your cat often feels like learning an entirely new language. I also talk about the book Decoding Your Cat, observations from daily life with my cats, and the surprising ways our cats may be helping us emotionally and physically without us even realizing it. Based on the episode transcript.  What You'll Learn in this Cat Podcast Episode *  Why cats are not truly low-maintenance pets  *  How every cat develops a unique personality  *  What cats communicate through body language and routines  *  Why observation is one of the most important cat parenting skills  *  How cats may positively affect human health and well-being  *  Why understanding your cat creates a stronger bond  Timestamps & Chapters 00:00 Introduction 00:18 The Myth of the Low-Maintenance Cat 01:01 Every Cat Has a Different Personality 01:55 What Decoding Your Cat Taught Me 02:40 Why Observation Matters 03:15 How Cats Help Humans Too 03:55 The Real Gift of Understanding Your Cat This is where I’ve gathered everything that supports me and my cats: https://diaryofacatmom.com/cat-care-resources/ [https://diaryofacatmom.com/cat-care-resources/] About the Diary of a Cat Mom Podcast Diary of a Cat Mom [https://diaryofacatmom.com/] is a quiet, personal cat podcast created by Dagmar Gatell [https://diaryofacatmom.com/about-the-host/], sharing real moments, emotions, and experiences from life with cats [https://diaryofacatmom.com/about/]. This space is meant for connection, comfort, and companionship. Everything shared comes from lived experience as a cat mom and is not intended as professional veterinary advice. Every cat is unique, and for health concerns, it’s always best to consult your trusted veterinarian. Most of all, please remember:  You’re not alone on this journey. We’re learning, loving, and growing together — one paw print at a time.

Ep. 66 - How Your Cat Communicates With You 🐾🐱

Have you ever felt like your cat is trying to tell you something? In this episode of Diary of a Cat Mom [https://diaryofacatmom.com/], I share a simple realization that changed the way I listen to my cats. What started with a few meows while I was working on my laptop turned into a deeper understanding of how cats communicate through sounds, touch, body language, and even emotional energy. If you live with a cat, you may discover that they have been talking to you all along. What You'll Learn in this Cat Podcast Episode *  Why cat meows are often directed specifically at humans  *  How different meows can have different meanings  *  Why cats use touch to communicate  *  What happens when a cat's needs are ignored  *  How catnip toys can help redirect energy  *  Why observing body language matters as much as listening to sounds  *  How understanding communication can create a calmer household  Timestamps & Chapters 00:00 Introduction 00:04 How I Noticed My Cat Communicating 00:47 Different Meows Mean Different Things 01:16 What Happened When I Ignored Him 01:43 Two Ways I Helped Restore Peace 02:19 Why Cats Meow Mainly at Humans 02:40 Learning to Listen Differently 02:55 Gentle Takeaway This is where I’ve gathered everything that supports me and my cats: https://diaryofacatmom.com/cat-care-resources/ [https://diaryofacatmom.com/cat-care-resources/] About the Diary of a Cat Mom Podcast Diary of a Cat Mom [https://diaryofacatmom.com/] is a quiet, personal cat podcast created by Dagmar Gatell [https://diaryofacatmom.com/about-the-host/], sharing real moments, emotions, and experiences from life with cats [https://diaryofacatmom.com/about/]. This space is meant for connection, comfort, and companionship. Everything shared comes from lived experience as a cat mom and is not intended as professional veterinary advice. Every cat is unique, and for health concerns, it’s always best to consult your trusted veterinarian. Most of all, please remember:  You’re not alone on this journey. We’re learning, loving, and growing together — one paw print at a time.

Ep. 65 - How Your Cat Communicates with Other Cats 🐾🐱

Have you ever watched two cats quietly staring at each other and wondered what was really happening? In this episode of Diary of a Cat Mom [https://diaryofacatmom.com/], I share a moment between my cats Hope and Black Nosey that completely changed how I understand cat communication. What looked like a peaceful interaction at first turned out to be a conversation happening entirely through body language. We explore how cats communicate through ear position, posture, eye contact, tails, scent marking, and subtle signals that many cat parents miss. Understanding these signals can help prevent conflict, reduce stress, and create a more peaceful multi-cat home. What You'll Learn in this Cat Podcast Episode *  How cats communicate without making a sound  *  What ear positions can reveal about a cat's emotions  *  How body language can help prevent cat conflicts  *  Why cats use scent and "pee mail" to communicate  *  Signs that a friendly interaction may be turning tense  *  How understanding communication creates a calmer home  Timestamps & Chapters 00:00 Introduction  00:22 Hope and Black Nosey on the Sofa  01:22 The Ear Position Clue  02:01 Preventing a Cat Fight  02:36 How Cats Communicate Silently  03:00 Scent Marking and "Pee Mail"  03:24 Visual Communication Between Cats  03:48 Creating a More Peaceful Multi-Cat Home This is where I’ve gathered everything that supports me and my cats: https://diaryofacatmom.com/cat-care-resources/ [https://diaryofacatmom.com/cat-care-resources/] About the Diary of a Cat Mom Podcast Diary of a Cat Mom [https://diaryofacatmom.com/] is a quiet, personal cat podcast created by Dagmar Gatell [https://diaryofacatmom.com/about-the-host/], sharing real moments, emotions, and experiences from life with cats [https://diaryofacatmom.com/about/]. This space is meant for connection, comfort, and companionship. Everything shared comes from lived experience as a cat mom and is not intended as professional veterinary advice. Every cat is unique, and for health concerns, it’s always best to consult your trusted veterinarian. Most of all, please remember:  You’re not alone on this journey. We’re learning, loving, and growing together — one paw print at a time.