Ryan Wekenman | Escaping the Me Maze
Ryan Wekenman is a storyteller, pastor, and teaching pastor at Red Rocks Austin, a vibrant church he helped plant with close friends. He’s passionate about helping people explore life’s biggest questions through creative communication, co-hosts multiple podcasts, and is the author of Free Me From Me [https://www.amazon.com/Free-Me-Self-Centeredness-Embracing-God-Centered/dp/0593600967/ref=sr_1_2?crid=3293EO0O3Q3HF&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.QyDdwvZbF5xsy5Z0X6VBJxZF5Xry8FLUOhYzxXyo8LMg0E4N8eMLlLayEG5AAJOMhEpxnFjZ4huPpvwAotP3gtZd6K5QVNezBV8akWC4Y9rYSLac9BqdKlFunI2qv5g0rqLDfrSLW0rtSQ9Q1AGUXL81H0cjoPdWXIWsUm95q4biJxKr3zzEFzMPI32_P_46msER0meqb7W3zJS-mdh9mV6SqxahjrGsGBd0qW-z2GU.INw0wI6jC3P8tWNilD-MaqDZVtWm29PXR_t0VWmJ4yk&dib_tag=se&keywords=ryan+wakeman&qid=1778857026&sprefix=ryan+wekenma%2Caps%2C294&sr=8-2] and Single Today. [https://www.amazon.com/Single-Today-Conquer-Yesterdays-Tomorrows/dp/0593600940/ref=sr_1_1?crid=GJMXTDE51EDP&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.cLzdfJE1rPXgQed2SG2rWQ.eJZpwvWznSoBgTEcdsdhIpkG1Ytv49UYeSEUAnyxRuk&dib_tag=se&keywords=ryan+wakeman+single+today&qid=1778857063&sprefix=ryan+wakeman+single+today%2Caps%2C170&sr=8-1]
In this episode, Stephen sits down with Ryan for an honest and surprisingly funny conversation about the “me maze” — that exhausting cycle of performance, comparison, control, and self-focus that so many of us get stuck in. From a wild COVID self-help overdose story (yes, literally passing out in his backyard) to practical tools for shifting from self-centered living to God-centered freedom, Ryan unpacks why self-help isn’t the enemy—but why self at the center always leaves us weary. Together, they explore modern-day “fig leaves,” the pressure of performance, the power of prayer, and what it looks like to honestly answer God’s question: “Where are you?” If you’ve ever felt stuck in your own head, weighed down by pressure, or exhausted trying to keep it all together, this episode is for you.
In this episode, we talk about:
* The “me maze” and how performance, comparison, and control quietly keep us stuck
* Ryan’s hilarious (and painfully relatable) story of “overdosing on self-help”
* The difference between self-care and the soul care only God can provide
* Practical ways to shift from self-focused living through prayer and Christ-centered breath prayer
* What it means to be fully known, truly loved, and free from the pressure of performing
Connect with Ryan:
Instagram: @ryanwekenman [https://instagram.com/ryanwekenman/]
https://ryanwekenman.comBook: Free Me From Me [https://www.amazon.com/Free-Me-Self-Centeredness-Embracing-God-Centered/dp/0593600967/ref=sr_1_2?crid=3293EO0O3Q3HF&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.QyDdwvZbF5xsy5Z0X6VBJxZF5Xry8FLUOhYzxXyo8LMg0E4N8eMLlLayEG5AAJOMhEpxnFjZ4huPpvwAotP3gtZd6K5QVNezBV8akWC4Y9rYSLac9BqdKlFunI2qv5g0rqLDfrSLW0rtSQ9Q1AGUXL81H0cjoPdWXIWsUm95q4biJxKr3zzEFzMPI32_P_46msER0meqb7W3zJS-mdh9mV6SqxahjrGsGBd0qW-z2GU.INw0wI6jC3P8tWNilD-MaqDZVtWm29PXR_t0VWmJ4yk&dib_tag=se&keywords=ryan+wakeman&qid=1778857026&sprefix=ryan+wekenma%2Caps%2C294&sr=8-2] on Amazon
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