Experience Over Expectation

Don’t Say Crazy to Me: Marion Hoffman Koenig on Empathy, Mental Health Advocacy, and Turning Loss into Kindness

In this episode of Experience Over Expectation, Mary McCorvey sits down with memoirist and mental health advocate Marion Hoffman Koenig, author of Don’t Say Crazy to Me. Marion’s story moves through grief, creativity, 1980s New York energy, and the strange, tender places where humor and death sit at the same table. We talk about what it means to be an empath, how empathy can help and how it can misfire, and why “crazy” is often just a lazy label for what someone does not understand. You will also hear practical grounding tools Marion uses in real life, including square breathing, plus a powerful reminder: you can show up for someone in pain without losing yourself. Get the books 1. Don’t Say Crazy to Me (Marion Hoffman Koenig) 2. Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Dont-Say-Crazy-Me-Sinatra-ebook/dp/B0FVGF7Z75 [https://www.amazon.com/Dont-Say-Crazy-Me-Sinatra-ebook/dp/B0FVGF7Z75] 3. Barnes & Noble: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/dont-say-crazy-to-me-marion-hoffman-koenig/1148689899 [https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/dont-say-crazy-to-me-marion-hoffman-koenig/1148689899] 4. Goodreads: https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/242577401-don-t-say-crazy-to-me [https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/242577401-don-t-say-crazy-to-me] 5. Experience Over Expectation (Mary McCorvey) 6. Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FPJ9NK4H?ref_=pe_93986420_775043100 [https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FPJ9NK4H?ref_=pe_93986420_775043100] Connect with Marion 1. LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/marion-koenig/ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/marion-koenig/]

Eternity in Mind: Rev. Dr. Frank Selden on Chronic Illness, Faith, and Choosing to Stay

Frank Selden came to a cemetery ready to end his life and walked away with one question: “What if my actions in this life affect what comes next?” In this episode of Experience Over Expectation, I sit down with Rev. Dr. Frank Selden, a former Army National Guard officer and JAG detachment veteran, and a respected tax and estate attorney who helped thousands of entrepreneurs build with calm, clarity, and care. Then chronic, late stage Epstein Barr and related complications changed everything. Frank went from high performance and a full life to being in bed most of the day with no clear medical cure, and he reached a breaking point at Tahoma National Cemetery in Washington State. What happened next, and what he did with that moment, became the beginning of a rebuilt life, reshaped faith, and a slow, deliberate return to meaning. Frank now serves others through trauma informed men’s work, functional medicine exploration, spiritual training, and writing for those living with chronic illness, pain, and mental health struggles. His upcoming autobiography tells the story, and the long work of learning to live again with eternity in mind. Guest Resource SoulBuilding: https://soulbuilding.life/ [https://soulbuilding.life/] About the guest Frank Selden is a former Army National Guard officer and JAG detachment veteran, attorney, and trauma informed guide. After chronic illness changed the trajectory of his life, he rebuilt through spiritual training, functional medicine exploration, and men’s work. In his soon to be released autobiography, he shares his candid account of a suicide attempt, a faith questioned and reshaped, and the slow, intentional work of learning to live again with eternity in mind. About the host Mary McCorvey is the author of Experience Over Expectation: Let Go of the Plan, Live on Your Terms, and host of the Experience Over Expectation podcast.

Harmony, Suffering, and Sovereignty: Robin H. Clare on The Frequency of True Success

What if success is not another achievement, it is a frequency you learn to live in In this conversation, I sit down with Robin H. Clare, best selling author, creator of The Harmony Method, and a spiritual recovery guide whose work is grounded in her own forty year journey through obsessive compulsive food disorder and bulimia. Her new book, Harmony, The Frequency of True Success, offers a path for aligning your inner life with your outer purpose so that success stops being a scoreboard and becomes something quieter and more powerful, ease, authenticity, and sovereignty. We talk about messages from the divine, addiction to suffering, recovery as an integrated mind body spirit emotional journey, and what it means to live in harmony in a world that seems designed for discord. In this episode * The origin story of The Harmony Method, awareness, commitment, mastery, service, leadership, and freedom * How alignment between inner truth and outer purpose helps us manage expectations * Robin’s journey as a “sacred messenger” and what it feels like to receive spiritual guidance * The role of Sophia and the divine feminine in healing addiction and suffering * Why Sophia says there is only one true addiction, suffering, and everything else is a secondary expression * Pain is inevitable, suffering is optional, how surrender and grace open the door to recovery * Writing from addiction versus writing from recovery, and why Robin left both voices in her book * Practical tools, the pause, cutting energetic ties, and letting others be themselves without losing your center About Robin H. Clare Robin H. Clare is the creator of The Harmony Method, a transformational framework for restoring balance, clarity, and alignment. She is a best selling author, speaker, podcaster, writing coach, retreat leader, energy healer, and recovery coach whose work is grounded in her sustained recovery from a forty year battle with obsessive compulsive food disorder and bulimia. She has been named among the “10 Best Life and Business Coaches” and “10 Best Energy Healers” by Natural Nutmeg readers for seven consecutive years. Connect with Robin Website: https://www.robinhclare.com/ [https://www.robinhclare.com/] Books: https://www.robinhclare.com/books [https://www.robinhclare.com/books] Work with Robin: https://www.robinhclare.com/engage [https://www.robinhclare.com/engage] YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@RobinHClare [https://www.youtube.com/@RobinHClare] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/robinhclareauthor [https://www.facebook.com/robinhclareauthor] Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/robin_h_clare/ [https://www.instagram.com/robin_h_clare/] Connect with Mary Website: https://www.marymccorvey.com [https://www.marymccorvey.com] Substack, Experience Over Expectation: https://marymccorvey.substack.com 📘 Mary’s book Experience Over Expectation, Let Go of the Plan, Live on Your Terms is available on Amazon and wherever you get your books.

Detours, Money, and Meaning: Gal Ezra on Ethical Millionaires and Real Prosperity

What if the biggest no of your life became the turning point for everything that followed In this conversation, Gal Ezra, a South African-born entrepreneur, investor, and founder of Guaranteed Prosperity, shares how being stranded in Cape Town at 19 after a visa rejection with no money and no plan forced him to rebuild from the inside out. By 25, Gal had built his first million-dollar business. By 30, he had sold four more. Yet his mission is not just about wealth. It is about creating 10,000 ethical millionaires who understand money as a tool for service, not status. We talk about detours, havingness, fake realities around money, and what it really means to become the source of your own knowledge and your own life. In this episode: * Stranded at 19, how one no became Gal’s defining detour * From events to finance to training, the through line behind multiple successful exits * Why your current bank balance reflects what you believe you can have * “Fake realities” about money and success that quietly keep people stuck * The concept of havingness, why many people would subconsciously destroy a sudden windfall * Principles of money, why tools do not work without the right foundation * How Gal’s father refused rescue and gave him something harder and better, true ownership of knowledge * What it means to become source over what you learn * Why Gal’s mission is 10,000 ethical millionaires, not just millionaires Connect with Gal Ezra: Website, programs and resources: https://gprosperity.com [https://gprosperity.com] Social: search Gal A Ezra on your preferred platform Connect with Mary: Website: https://www.marymccorvey.com [https://www.marymccorvey.com] Experience Over Expectation on Substack: https://marymccorvey.substack.com 📘 Mary’s book: Experience Over Expectation, Let Go of the Plan, Live on Your Terms is available on Amazon and wherever you get your books.

From Rock Bottom’s Basement to the Castle: Kevin Palmieri on Self-Belief, Self-Worth, and Consistency

Achievement isn’t the same as fulfillment. Host Mary McCorvey talks with Kevin Palmieri, founder/host of Next Level University (top-100 podcast, 1M+ listeners across 170 countries). Kevin shares the moment he says “rock bottom has a basement,” why he reached out for help, and how he rebuilt with small promises, habit tracking, identity work, and better relationships. You’ll learn * Why purpose starts with self-belief—and why self-worth keeps what you build * Habit tracking and “commitment devices” that make consistency inevitable * Identity upgrades: from who you were to who you’re becoming * Evaluating your circle (best from your past vs. best for your future) * Love + ambition: weekly check-ins, date nights, and honest boundaries Guest: Kevin Palmieri, Founder & Host, Next Level University Host: Mary McCorvey, Experience Over Expectation Subscribe/follow for new episodes Share this with someone rebuilding after a hard season