Teach Me to Father

Who's Driving Your Car?

Who taught you how to drive a car? Barry shares heartfelt memories of learning to drive with his grandfather and reflects on the parallels between driving and fatherhood. He emphasizes three key characteristics that make the biggest difference. Join FatherFuel for more: https://www.fatherseekers.org/fatherfuel FS Facebook [https://fatherseekers.captivate.fm/fatherseekers-facebook] FS Instagram [https://fatherseekers.captivate.fm/fatherseekers-insta] FS YouTube [https://fatherseekers.captivate.fm/fatherseekers-youtube] Ask Barry a question: barry@fatherseekers.org TIMELINE 00:00 My First Driving Lesson 00:51 Lessons From Grandpa 03:48 Lessons From Driver's Ed Teacher 06:04 Reflecting on Driving Lessons 08:29 Fatherhood: The Ultimate Driving Lesson 10:40 The Importance of Spiritual Fathers 12:13 Taking Responsibility and Learning 14:32 Humility and Teachability in Fatherhood 19:08 fatherseekers.org -- FatherSeekers helps fatherless fathers become better fathers. Get discussion guides, devotionals, and more at FS Website [https://fatherseekers.captivate.fm/fatherseekers-web]

Debunking the Masculinity Myth w/ Mark Oleck

In a world often dominated by misleading ideas about masculinity, we tackle the misconceptions of toxic masculinity. Barry and guest Mark Oleck delve into the attributes of biblical manhood, emphasizing servant leadership, emotional honesty, and strength under control. They address the cultural distortions and forgotten virtues that define true masculinity, encouraging men to reclaim their roles as leaders and protectors in a godly manner. Join FatherFuel for more: https://www.fatherseekers.org/fatherfuel FS Facebook [https://fatherseekers.captivate.fm/fatherseekers-facebook] FS Instagram [https://fatherseekers.captivate.fm/fatherseekers-insta] FS YouTube [https://fatherseekers.captivate.fm/fatherseekers-youtube] Ask Barry a question: barry@fatherseekers.org TIMELINE 00:00 The Myth of Masculinity 01:18 Guest Introduction: Mark Oleck 02:49 Cultural Perceptions of Masculinity 03:55 Historical Context and Feminism 06:33 The Role of Fathers and Family Dynamics 06:56 The Alpha Male Misconception 16:12 Toxic Masculinity Traits 21:45 The Importance of Biblical Manhood 23:49 Pseudo Confidence and Vices 24:25 The Garden of Eden and Adam's Passivity 26:42 Toxic Masculinity and Cultural Distractions 28:38 Humility and the Role of Pride 30:19 Biblical Masculinity vs. Toxic Masculinity 33:10 Elements of Biblical Masculinity 41:52 fatherseekers.org -- FatherSeekers helps fatherless fathers become better fathers. Get discussion guides, devotionals, and more at FS Website [https://fatherseekers.captivate.fm/fatherseekers-web]

Navigating Life’s Seasons with Wisdom and Resilience

The seasons of life never stop. Today Barry reflects on recent season of depression and identifies practical steps to persist through whatever season you may be in. Barry emphasizes the importance of recognizing that no season—whether good or bad—lasts forever. He offers practical advice on assessing and analyzing our experiences during different seasons, and how to utilize those lessons for personal growth and resilience. Join FatherFuel for more: https://www.fatherseekers.org/fatherfuel FS Facebook [https://fatherseekers.captivate.fm/fatherseekers-facebook] FS Instagram [https://fatherseekers.captivate.fm/fatherseekers-insta] FS YouTube [https://fatherseekers.captivate.fm/fatherseekers-youtube] Ask Barry a question: barry@fatherseekers.org TIMELINE 00:00 Understanding Life's Seasons 00:22 Navigating Through Different Seasons 02:22 The Power of Seasons 04:51 Assessing and Analyzing Seasons 07:00 Learning from Seasons 08:37 Dealing with Difficult Seasons 12:45 How to Grow in Challenging Seasons 20:13 fatherseekers.org -- FatherSeekers helps fatherless fathers become better fathers. Get discussion guides, devotionals, and more at FS Website [https://fatherseekers.captivate.fm/fatherseekers-web]

Learning From the Younger Generations w/ Sam Cornelissen

The young guns are teaching the old dogs new tricks. Barry sits down with Sam Cornelissen, a young entrepreneur who has had a profound impact on Barry himself. They discuss the importance of listening to the younger generation, preparing yourself to be a good husband and father while you're single, and what it takes to build a business in your 20s. Join FatherFuel for more: https://www.fatherseekers.org/fatherfuel FS Facebook [https://fatherseekers.captivate.fm/fatherseekers-facebook] FS Instagram [https://fatherseekers.captivate.fm/fatherseekers-insta] FS YouTube [https://fatherseekers.captivate.fm/fatherseekers-youtube] Ask Barry a question: barry@fatherseekers.org TIMELINE 00:00 Listening to the Younger Generation 01:27 Welcome Sam Cornelissen! 03:19 Seeking Fatherhood Wisdom 05:12 Navigating Social Media 06:37 The Role of Family 13:54 Returning to Faith 18:52 Selling on Amazon 21:45 Navigating Entrepreneurial Tensions 23:37 The Importance of Early Decisions 24:51 Building a Business in Your 20s 27:20 Learning from Failures 28:28 Advice for Aspiring Entrepreneurs 30:48 Balancing Business and Personal Life 32:45 Mentorship and Passing on Wisdom 36:02 Challenges of the Younger Generation 38:23 Advice for the Older Generation 40:28 Fatherseekers.org -- FatherSeekers helps fatherless fathers become better fathers. Get discussion guides, devotionals, and more at FS Website [https://fatherseekers.captivate.fm/fatherseekers-web]

How Can I Forgive My Father?

"If you knew what that man did to me..." Barry addresses the emotionally challenging (yet liberating) journey of forgiving your father. Tune in to discover what forgiveness truly is, what it is not, and why it is crucial for your personal and generational healing. Join FatherFuel for more: https://www.fatherseekers.org/fatherfuel FS Facebook [https://fatherseekers.captivate.fm/fatherseekers-facebook] FS Instagram [https://fatherseekers.captivate.fm/fatherseekers-insta] FS YouTube [https://fatherseekers.captivate.fm/fatherseekers-youtube] Ask Barry a question: barry@fatherseekers.org TIMELINE 00:00 How can I forgive HIM? 00:33 Because Christ forgave you 02:03 Misconceptions About Forgiveness 04:34 The True Meaning of Forgiveness 06:40 The Journey and Importance of Forgiveness 09:11 God's Requirement for Forgiveness 16:03 Practical Steps to Forgiveness 21:08 fatherseekers.org -- FatherSeekers helps fatherless fathers become better fathers. Get discussion guides, devotionals, and more at FS Website [https://fatherseekers.captivate.fm/fatherseekers-web]