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Pick Up Lines, Age Gaps, and Salary Negotiations, Dear Guyset

In this month's Dear Guyset episode, I answer the questions guys are actually asking about dating, confidence, work, and figuring out your 20s. I talk about age gaps in relationships, whether pick up lines ever actually work, how to prepare for a job interview quickly, why dating apps can feel so frustrating, and how to negotiate your salary without completely panicking. If you've ever felt like everyone else secretly knows what they're doing except you, this episode is for you. Topics: 02:31 What are your thoughts on age gaps in relationships? 11:40 Why do I keep meeting people I hate on dating apps? 16:35 Are there good pickup lines? 20:05 How do you prepare for an interview quickly? 28:05 How much should you be texting when you first start seeing someone? 30:45 How do I negotiate my salary? 38:00 How often should you wash your work shirts? For more Guyset: Watch full episodes on YouTube: @guyset [https://www.youtube.com/@guyset] Follow on Instagram: @guysetpodcast [https://www.instagram.com/guysetpodcast/] Daily blog posts: https://guyset.com/ [https://guyset.com/] Ask Me Anything: https://guyset.com/ask-me-anything [http://guyset.com/] If You're Going On A Date This Week: listen here [https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL7tZKddlTKrqhumgEDIkYuGR393_DAqbE&si=If6wm4iN4sHicIaG] See you guys next Tuesday!

How To Start Figuring Out What You Want To Do

This week, I wanted to talk about something I think so many people struggle with after graduation, during their first jobs, or honestly at any point in their 20s: how to actually figure out what you want to do with your life. I talk about why I think we spend so much time obsessing over what could be or what could've been instead of paying attention to the things already right in front of us that are trying to point us somewhere. The projects that excite you. The conversations you actually look forward to. The things that come naturally to you that you keep dismissing. I also talk about the idea of finding your "through line" and how the experiences, jobs, interests, and moments in your life eventually start connecting in ways you can't fully understand yet. In this episode, I talk about: * How to figure out what you actually want to do * Why you can't connect the dots looking forward * What your first job is really teaching you * How to stop comparing your path to everyone else's * Why curiosity matters more than certainty * How to use what's already in front of you to start building a life that actually feels right for you If you've been feeling lost, stuck, overwhelmed, behind, or unsure of what direction your life is supposed to go in, I really hope this episode helps. New episodes of Guyset every Tuesday. For more Guyset: Watch full episodes on YouTube: @guyset [https://www.youtube.com/@guyset] Follow on Instagram: @guysetpodcast [https://www.instagram.com/guysetpodcast/] Daily blog posts: https://guyset.com/ [https://guyset.com/] Ask Me Anything: https://guyset.com/ask-me-anything [http://guyset.com/] If You're Going On A Date This Week: listen here [https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL7tZKddlTKrqhumgEDIkYuGR393_DAqbE&si=If6wm4iN4sHicIaG] See you guys next Tuesday!

What Life Actually Feels Like After College

No one really tells you what life actually feels like after college. There's no clear structure anymore. No defined path. And for the first time, it's fully on you to figure out what comes next. In this episode, I talk about post-grad life and why this phase can feel so uncertain. The pressure to have things figured out, the questions about your career, your friends, your future, and the feeling that you might be falling behind. I get into why this happens, why you start to doubt yourself, and how to handle uncertainty when you don't have clear answers. What it means to feel lost in your 20s, how to deal with big life transitions, and how to start trusting yourself as you figure things out. If you've been feeling lost after college, unsure about your next step, or you're about to graduate and starting to feel this coming, this is that experience put into words. For more Guyset: Watch full episodes on YouTube: @guyset [https://www.youtube.com/@guyset] Follow on Instagram: @guysetpodcast [https://www.instagram.com/guysetpodcast/] Daily blog posts: https://guyset.com/ [https://guyset.com/] Ask Me Anything: https://guyset.com/ask-me-anything [http://guyset.com/] If You're Going On A Date This Week: listen here [https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL7tZKddlTKrqhumgEDIkYuGR393_DAqbE&si=If6wm4iN4sHicIaG] See you guys next Tuesday!

The Internal Monologue of Lifting

Why does it feel like everyone is watching you at the gym? Why do you feel like an imposter, even when you've been showing up consistently? In this episode, I break down the internal monologue of lifting, what gym imposter syndrome actually feels like, and why that voice in your head doesn't fully go away. I talk about the moment I felt like I didn't deserve a bench, how that brought me back to when I first started, and the mindset shift that changed everything. If you've ever felt judged, out of place, or unsure of yourself at the gym or in your life, this episode is for you. Timestamps: 0:00 Intro 0:18 Why I started lifting 2:30 Feeling like an imposter at the gym 3:45 The bench moment 7:10 "I don't deserve to be here" 9:20 The realization: no one is watching you 12:00 Why you have to keep showing up 15:00 Why guys don't talk about this 18:30 Everyone feels this way 24:30 The mindset shift 27:10 Take up space New episodes every Tuesday. Subscribe for more conversations on confidence, dating, mindset, and the questions you don't know where to ask. For more Guyset: Daily blog posts: https://guyset.com/ [http://guyset.com] Ask me anything: https://guyset.com/ask-me-anything [https://guyset.com/ask-me-anything] More episodes: https://www.youtube.com/@Guyset [https://www.youtube.com/@Guyset] If You're Going On A Date This Week: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL7tZKddlTKrqhumgEDIkYuGR393_DAqbE [https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL7tZKddlTKrqhumgEDIkYuGR393_DAqbE] See you next Tuesday!

Breakups, Bad Sex, and What To Do Next, Dear Guyset

How do you respond to a breakup text? Should you send one after a few dates? What if sex felt awkward the first time? And how do you actually come across as confident on a date? In this episode of Guyset, I answer real questions guys are asking about breakups, awkward sex, confidence, rejection, and navigating situations no one really prepares you for. If you've ever overthought a text, felt unsure after a hookup, or questioned how you come across on a date, this episode will give you real, honest perspective on what to do next. This episode covers: * How to respond to a breakup text (and what not to say) * Whether you should send a breakup text after 2–3 dates * How many drinks is too many at a work happy hour * What to do if sex felt awkward or "bad" * How to come across as more confident on a date * How to deal with rejection (especially when you really wanted something) Timestamps: 02:33 How do I respond to a breakup text? 06:55 Should I send a breakup text after 2–3 dates? 09:16 How many drinks should you have at a work happy hour? 15:36 I felt bad after having sex, where do I go from here? 20:53 How do I come across as more confident on a date? 25:20 I didn't get the job I wanted, how do I deal with rejection? For More: Watch the full episode on YouTube: @guyset [https://www.youtube.com/@guyset] Instagram: @guysetpodcast [https://www.instagram.com/guysetpodcast/] Ask Me Anything: https://guyset.com/ask-me-anything [http://guyset.com/] Daily blog posts: https://guyset.com/ [https://guyset.com/] See you guys next Tuesday!