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Feed Your Mind, Starve Your Doubts - #027

Your mind runs on whatever you feed it. Most people try to fight their negative thoughts head-on and end up giving them more more power. I get into how a mental diet rewires the way you see yourself from the inside out, and why what you consume between your ears decides who you are and who you become. Join me at The Self Concept Summit on May 16th. Reserve your seat: https://herenorthere.space/self [https://herenorthere.space/self]

Be a Student, Not a Follower - #026

There's a real difference between following someone and actually studying them. Watching and imitating the surface behaviors of the people you admire, without ever taking action towards the behavior of what's actually attracting their success is the difference between envying their results and living it yourself. In this episode, I'm breaking down what it really means to be a student of success instead of just another follower, and why that mindset changes everything about how fast you level up in life.

Success by Subtraction - #025

We're talking about success by subtraction in this one. Not another framework to learn. Not another fad strategy to stack on top of what you're already doing. This is about peeling back the layers—the complicated narratives, the complex explanations, the clichés that other's may tell you to focus on—until you uncover what's actually been running the show all along.

"I'z Married Now!" - #024

The title of this episode comes from a scene from the original The Color Purple movie that I grew up watching as a young kid with my older sister. Today, I get real about what it actually felt like to manifest something that big—and how sometimes the calm after the excitement is the most important part. No fireworks. No choir of angels. Just peace. And a well-fitted, electronic ring. Tune in, laugh a little, reflect a lot, and maybe ask yourself: What if the thing you’re chasing is just the feeling you haven’t let yourself feel yet?

Fifty Noes and a Yes, means Yes - #023

In this episode, I’m sharing a simple truth that often goes unnoticed. The universe pays attention to what you say NO to and uses that just as much as your YES to guide what shows up next. I tell a personal story from my early 20's when a clear NO opened the door to real love and life changing opportunity. That choice aligned me with something far more meaningful. We’ll explore how this small, two-letter word carries the power to move you into new timelines. If you’ve been feeling stuck or unsure of what’s next, this conversation will meet you right where you are and offer something steady to lean into.