I'll Hold It Up Girls

Raising Daughters Part 2: The Good, the Not-So-Good, and Our Advice

Best and Worst * Kim’s Best: Like Elephants [https://jenhatmaker.com/blog/the-elephant-story/], women rally around one another in support and service. * Kim’s Worst: Girls are observant and pick up on your own negative and undesired behaviors. * Lauren’s Best: Their feminine nature: Gentleness, kindness, generosity, etc. and their friendship they experience as sisters. * Lauren’s Worst: Girls are little spies that mirror all the ways you are not the best. * Teresa’s Worst: daughters reveal the worst of yourself when they display bad behaviors learned from you. * Teresa’s Best: The Privilege of raising someone’s future wife and mother. * Christine’s best and worst: Their intellect and curiosity. * Stacy’s Best: Seeing daughters and loving their beauty and loveliness is a reminder of the delight God takes in watching us. * Stacy’s Worst: Girls are loud and catty, at least more so than guys. Advice: * Teresa: Celebrate bodies and weights of all shapes and sizes! Also to remind boys to treat their sisters with respect so she will be aware of what is unacceptable behaviors in her own future relationships. * Kim: Teach them how to apologize and forgive, (which fosters humility * Christine: Parent your girls like you wanted to be treated. * Lauren: Teach them early to bring it all to God, teach them to pray as early as you can! Stacy mentioned a bible verse. This was the one she was thinking of: "Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it" (Proverbs 22:6) * Stacy: Make room for your daughters and all their unique preferences, don’t try and control them, but give them freedom to be themselves. Honorable mention video [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RTrCBcrFMCI] about the difference between raising boys and girls (Warning it has cuss words, but it still pretty funny)

Raising Daughters Part 1: Modesty is Hottest-y

Modesty Is quote * “Modesty is the safe place that hides me from the eyes of those who seek to hold the body and not the heart. It is not shame that keeps me covered, it is dignity and honor. It is not insecurity that keeps me hidden, it is that I have already been made secure. A man cannot add to this validation or take away from it. And I do not dress to glorify my own body. I dress to glorify my king.”-Reel on Instagram Quote on “heavy” knowledge * “And so seated next to my father in the train compartment, I suddenly asked, "Father, what is sexsin?" He turned to look at me, as he always did when answering a question, but to my surprise he said nothing. At last he stood up, lifted his traveling case off the floor and set it on the floor. Will you carry it off the train, Corrie?" he said. I stood up and tugged at it. It was crammed with the watches and spare parts he had purchased that morning. It's too heavy," I said. Yes," he said, "and it would be a pretty poor father who would ask his little girl to carry such a load. It's the same way, Corrie, with knowledge. Some knowledge is too heavy for children. When you are older and stronger, you can bear it. For now you must trust me to carry it for you.” ― Corrie Ten Boom, The Hiding Place: The Triumphant True Story of Corrie Ten Boom [https://www.goodreads.com/work/quotes/878114] Modest swimwear: www.radswim.com

Suffering: Joke's on You, I'm into That

Suffering Episode Resources * TELL US WHAT YOU THINK on our website! [www.jumpincatholic.com/podcast] * THE reason we did this podcast Meme [https://static.wixstatic.com/media/321ad5_170f2b1b9db648d59613da917da9873b~mv2.jpg]: Joke’s On You, I’m Into That * Karlo’s Article on Suffering [https://www.catholic.com/magazine/online-edition/hope-through-suffering] * Suffer Like Mary Free Download (Sorrows of Mary Reflections) [https://www.jumpincatholic.com/product-page/suffer-like-mary-a-marian-guide-to-suffering-well] * Clip of 4th Sorrow of Mary: Jesus Meets His Mother [https://youtu.be/FQnJ3sifNQQ?si=O2L2QVn2-jrj8CU2]. (Warning, you’ll cry a lot) * Meditations for Moms on the Sorrowful Mysteries [https://www.jumpincatholic.com/product-page/praying-the-rosary-for-motherhood-sorrowful] Saints who suffered well: * Christina the Astonishing [https://www.churchpop.com/christina-the-astonishing-indestructible-woman/] * Padre Pio [https://www.vatican.va/news_services/liturgy/saints/ns_lit_doc_20020616_padre-pio_en.html] * Gemma Galgani [https://www.stgemmagalgani.com/] * Lawrence [https://www.franciscanmedia.org/saint-of-the-day/saint-lawrence/] * Dymphna [https://catholicmhm.org/st-dymphna] * Chiara Corbella Petrillo [https://www.chiaracorbellapetrillo.org/en/the-story-of-chiara/] Practical tips to endure suffering: * Morning Offering [https://www.morningoffering.com/] * Suffering Together is Better than suffering alone * It’s ok to feel your feelings: * Christine’s meme [https://static.wixstatic.com/media/321ad5_a8e62d2cf1c84f2c87116d511a87102f~mv2.jpg] * JP2 Quote: "It's better to cry than be angry, because anger hurts others while tears flow silently through the soul and cleans the heart," * Go to Adoration * Take a Nap and eat a snack (Thanks Elijah) * Remember pain CAN be an invitation to intimacy with Christ. * Don’t forget the power of fasting and sacrificing as a way to love others.

Looking back at 2025: Our Rose, Thorn and Bud

It's been a minute since we've uploaded a new episode, but we just had to share some news from the previous year! We've had some incredible things, some super difficult things, and even some awesome things to look forward to in 2026! To stay in the loop with all the podcast updates, make sure you subscribe to our emails at www.jumpincatholic.com!

Merry Chrysler: The Advent and Christmas Episode!

WARNING: Please don't listen around children as we discuss Santa Claus (Spoilers!) Listen as we discuss what each of our families does for Advent, followed by our favorite Christmas Memory, and favorite Christmas movies! Here are some Advent Suggestions: * Jotham’s Journey [https://a.co/d/j2kOUPL] * Good deeds manger [https://a.co/d/gueVdFK] * O Antiphons [https://www.catholicculture.org/culture/liturgicalyear/activities/view.cfm?id=958] * Padre Pio Reflection [https://www.padrepiodapietrelcina.com/en/prayer-padre-pio-christmas-christ-child/] * Light one candle for hope song [https://share.google/5jlElzf9W7ZLvx9Ih] * St. Lucy feast day [https://acatholicmomslife.com/our-st-lucy-feast-day-family-traditions/] * Advent playlist [https://www.catholicmom.com/articles/catholicmom-advent-playlist] * Advent Like Mary mini-retreat for families [https://www.jumpincatholic.com/product-page/advent-like-mary-a-mini-advent-retreat-for-families] We pray you have a beautiful advent, Christmas, and happy New Year!