Imperfectly Married the Podcast

Summer Shorts: The 5-Minute Check-In That Changes Everything

Is your marriage communicating… but not really connecting? In this first Summer Short, Michael and Heather talk about one of the most common challenges couples face: drifting into routine. When life gets busy, it’s easy to become partners in managing a household while slowly losing meaningful connection. They share a simple practice called the 5-Minute Check-In and three powerful questions that can help you reconnect, deepen communication, and strengthen your marriage—without adding more stress to your schedule. Because great marriages aren’t built in big moments alone. They’re built in small moments, done consistently. Challenge: Try the 5-Minute Check-In every day for the next week and see what changes. Website: ⁠https://imperfectlymarriedpodcast.com/ ⁠Merch: https://imperfectlymarriedpodcast.com/store ⁠Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/imperfectlymarried_thepodcast/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@imperfectly_married #ImperfectlyMarried #MarriagePodcast #MarriageAdvice #Relationships #CommunicationInMarriage #MarriageTips #SummerShorts

What Happens When One Spouse is Barely Hanging On

In this episode of Imperfectly Married, we have an honest conversation about navigating seasons where one partner is carrying grief, stress, burnout, disappointment, job loss, health struggles, or emotional exhaustion while the other is trying to figure out how to help. We share lessons from our own recent season and talk about the challenges of supporting your spouse without trying to "fix" them, the importance of patience and presence, and how to stay connected when life feels incredibly uneven. Website: ⁠https://imperfectlymarriedpodcast.com/⁠Merch: https://imperfectlymarriedpodcast.com/store⁠Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/imperfectlymarried_thepodcast/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@imperfectly_married

The Book that Nearly Ruined our Marriage

We thought this marriage book was going to help us grow closer… instead, it exposed years of insecurity, miscommunication, emotional wounds, and false stories we didn’t even realize we were carrying. And honestly, our marriage is so much stronger because of it. In this episode of Imperfectly Married, we share how one relationship book nearly pushed us into some of the hardest conversations we’d ever had about intimacy, rejection, emotional safety, and the lies we believed about ourselves and each other. We talk honestly about how unspoken assumptions can quietly damage a marriage, why communication matters more than we realize, and how healing finally started when we stopped hiding what we were actually feeling. If you’ve ever felt misunderstood, emotionally disconnected, insecure in your relationship, or afraid to say what’s really going on inside your marriage, this episode is for you. Website: ⁠https://imperfectlymarriedpodcast.com/⁠Merch: https://imperfectlymarriedpodcast.com/store⁠Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/imperfectlymarried_thepodcast/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@imperfectly_married

What Parenting Revealed About Us

How does parenting affect your marriage? In this episode of Imperfectly Married, we talk honestly about the emotional weight of raising kids, parenting stress in marriage, communication struggles, different parenting styles, and how children can either strengthen or strain a relationship. We share real stories about parenting mistakes, conflict, exhaustion, emotional disconnect, and learning how to stay united as a couple while raising children.We also dive into protecting your marriage during parenthood, parenting adult children, letting go of control, healing from unhealthy family patterns, and why kids need grace more than perfection. If you’ve ever wondered how to balance marriage and parenting, stay emotionally connected after having kids, or stop parenting stress from damaging your relationship, this conversation is for you. Website: ⁠https://imperfectlymarriedpodcast.com/ ⁠Merch: https://imperfectlymarriedpodcast.com/store ⁠Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/imperfectlymarried_thepodcast/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@imperfectly_married

The Core Fear Driving Your Marriage Conflicts

What if your marriage arguments aren’t actually about the dishwasher, money, parenting… or even sex? In this episode of Imperfectly Married, Michael and Heather unpack how the Enneagram reveals the deeper fears driving conflict in marriage. Because underneath every argument is often something more vulnerable: fear of rejection, failure, losing control, being unseen, abandoned, or misunderstood. Through each of the nine Enneagram types, they explore how personality shapes the way we react in conflict — whether that looks like shutting down, pursuing harder, getting defensive, avoiding hard conversations, or trying to “win” the fight altogether. Website: ⁠https://imperfectlymarriedpodcast.com/⁠Merch: https://imperfectlymarriedpodcast.com/store⁠Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/imperfectlymarried_thepodcast/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@imperfectly_married