Lacey & Flynn Have Sex

Have you ever found yourself unleashing your anger unintentionally onto someone you love? Your partner, your kids? What if we told you there’s a much healthier way to release your rage and that it’s through sex? Between your legs is an untapped world of power and pleasure. This sacred, amazing place is capable of helping you dig deeper into every single emotion you could ever experience and release it in a much more positive and energetic way. In this episode, we’re showing you how to use it to unleash anger and rage consensually through self-pleasure and sex with your partner. We’re also exploring the higher level of intimacy found in turning yourself on as Flynn shares his experience of letting go of porn and moving into the full experience of his own body. This is self-love, self-awareness, and self-acceptance like you’ve never heard before.  Grab your headset, tune in, and get ready to learn how to healthily release your anger through sex, quit porn, and begin turning yourself on.  Be sure to DM us on Instagram [https://instagram.com/laceyandflynn] and let us know your thoughts on moving into a deeper, fuller expression of all your emotions through self-pleasure and sex. Get all the juicy episode notes at https://laceyandflynn.com/podcast/23-rage [https://laceyandflynn.com/podcast/23-rage] Learn more about Sex Elevated [https://www.laceyandflynn.com/sex-elevated], our online course to amplify your intimacy, supercharge your sex, and slingshot you into a new dimension of pleasure, connection, and love in your relationship. Want your questions answered on the show? Submit them here. [https://z5e4p7ztsah.typeform.com/to/xWYXl0RZ]

Do you always need clitoral stimulation to orgasm? Have you ever felt like a victim to your own body thinking you can only receive pleasure and reach orgasm by rubbing your clit?  Normally, we don’t use orgasm as the goal during sex, but in this episode, we’re doing a complete 180! Thanks to one of our listener questions we received on Instagram, we are going on a different sexual exploration than we’ve done in years: the pleasure journey without intentional external clitoral stimulation to achieve an orgasm.  Join us as we explore different ways of touching, communicating with one another, releasing stress and contraction from the body, dropping fully and deeply into a more spacious energy, developing a deeper pussy intelligence, what’s happening when you disconnect during the experience, and so much more.    Grab your headset, tune in, get your tongue out, leave the clit alone, and dive deep into an extended fingering practice to achieve orgasm without external clitoral stimulation. Get all the juicy episode notes at https://laceyandflynn.com/podcast/22-orgasmic-journey [https://laceyandflynn.com/podcast/22-orgasmic-journey] Learn more about Sex Elevated [https://www.laceyandflynn.com/sex-elevated], our online course to amplify your intimacy, supercharge your sex, and slingshot you into a new dimension of pleasure, connection, and love in your relationship. Chat with us on Instagram [https://instagram.com/laceyandflynn]. Send us a DM and tell us your experience in sex and listening to the episode. Want your questions answered on the show? Submit them here. [https://z5e4p7ztsah.typeform.com/to/xWYXl0RZ]

What can happen when love and ease flow through your relationship? Dreams can come true. Goals can be accomplished. Overwhelm can be diminished by laughter.  We just returned from possibly the best holiday we’ve had in a long time as parents. During those potent 5 days of freedom, we disconnected from technology, lived spontaneously, and, as a result, realized something so important: when you’re living in fun and flow with your partner - the nucleus of your life - everything is just so much easier.  But, if it’s so simple, why is it that so many relationships fail? In a recent article we wrote, we explored the thing that ultimately is the root cause -- us, the individual. You are the common denominator in all of your relationships. So, whatever is happening within your relationships is often a reflection of your relationship with yourself and the stories you carry. In this episode, we’re exploring the importance of being aware of the things within ourselves that need to heal and how healing them is key to maintaining your relationship with your partner. You’re going to walk away with 5 fun-filled tips that will help you connect with yourself, gain a new clarity and self-confidence, and become a more elevated version of yourself that can return to your relationship more turned on and confident.  Grab your headset, tune in, and get ready to have your own epic breakthrough and be in more fun and flow with your partner. Get all the juicy episode notes at https://laceyandflynn.com/podcast/21-fun-flow [https://laceyandflynn.com/podcast/21-fun-flow]  Learn more about Sex Elevated [https://www.laceyandflynn.com/sex-elevated], our online course to amplify your intimacy, supercharge your sex, and slingshot you into a new dimension of pleasure, connection, and love in your relationship. Follow us on Instagram [https://instagram.com/laceyandflynn]. Send us a DM and tell us your experiences in sex, relationships, and listening to this episode. Want your sex questions answered on the show? Submit them here. [https://z5e4p7ztsah.typeform.com/to/xWYXl0RZ]

Why do we feel shame when exploring self pleasure? Why is hearing your parents have sex the worst thing in the world? Why is porn so damn addictive? In this episode, we’re diving deep into the two words that just don’t belong together: shame and sex. When we allow the two to coexist, it simply fosters an inner message that screams “I don’t own my body” and “Pleasure is gross!” Each of us has experienced some shame around sex, whether it was from hearing your parents have sex or discovering your body at a young age. Some of you may still feel this way when touching yourself now and we’re going to tell you why. We’re breaking boundaries here, discussing the sexual nature of children and what it looks like to create a nurturing environment that eradicates shame and discomfort around sex, our genitals, and the natural exploration of pleasure. In order to allow our children to be naturally explorative, we have to do the work of holding our younger selves and removing the shame and guilt we’ve carried for years. Grab your headset, tune in, and get ready to dig deep into your own discomforts around your body, sex, and self pleasure.  Be sure to DM us on Instagram [http://www.instagram.com/laceyandflynn] to let us know if we should remove the “no parents” part of our intro and let Mom and Dad listen to the show. Get all the juicy episode notes at https://laceyandflynn.com/podcast/20-self-pleasure-shame [https://laceyandflynn.com/podcast/20-self-pleasure-shame]  Learn more about Sex Elevated [https://www.laceyandflynn.com/sex-elevated], our online course to amplify your intimacy, supercharge your sex, and slingshot you into a new dimension of pleasure, connection, and love in your relationship. Want your questions answered on the show? Submit them here. [https://z5e4p7ztsah.typeform.com/to/xWYXl0RZ]

We’re back for part 2! Before diving in, be sure to tune in to 17. The epic return of unicorn sex (Part 1) [https://laceyandflynn.com/podcast/17-epic-return-unicorn-sex] to catch up and know what's going on in this epic return to unicorn sex. If it’s your first time hearing that, it’s the phenomenal, orgasmic, hydraulic sex we have on our adjustable height barstool.  In this episode, you’re going to experience our longest sex session on the podcast so far! We promise you, it’s absolutely worth it (and not because we could’ve easily made another baby). After Lacey’s transformative experience in part 1 [https://laceyandflynn.com/podcast/17-epic-return-unicorn-sex], [https://laceyandflynn.com/podcast/17-epic-return-unicorn-sex] you’re going to see how much that opened her up for deeper penetration, connection, and pleasure. You’ll also learn how to shift your sexual energy to come out of pelvic sex or to prolong the sexual experience. If you haven’t yet, tune into episode 17 [https://laceyandflynn.com/podcast/17-epic-return-unicorn-sex] for part 1 to catch up and experience Lacey’s literal purging of trauma, resistance, and blockages. Sometimes sex doesn’t always go the way you plan, and sometimes - it goes far beyond. Grab your headset, tune in, and get ready to see how high we can go and how deep we have to go to get there.  Get all the juicy episode notes at https://laceyandflynn.com/podcast/19-epic-return-unicorn-sex [https://laceyandflynn.com/podcast/19-epic-return-unicorn-sex] Learn more about Sex Elevated [https://www.laceyandflynn.com/sex-elevated], our online course to amplify your intimacy, supercharge your sex, and slingshot you into a new dimension of pleasure, connection, and love in your relationship. Chat with us on Instagram [https://instagram.com/laceyandflynn]. Send us a DM and tell us your experience in sex and listening to the episode. Want your questions answered on the show? Submit them here. [https://z5e4p7ztsah.typeform.com/to/xWYXl0RZ]