Remix your Marriage Podcast

EP16 - Its a Girl! (Part 2): How one life-altering discovery almost destroyed what we worked so hard to rebuild

Send a text [https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2281327/open_sms] In this episode we talk about finding out how close Brittany was to us throughout her childhood and teenage years. And we crossed paths with her mother numerous times and she never said a thing.  Brittanys immediate family was not happy that she reached out to us! Thankfully we have gotten to know the rest of her family, Her Grandma and Grandpa, her Uncle and Aunts and a handful of others. They are all amazing! Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2281327/support] Remixyourmarriage@gmail.com

EP15 - Its a Girl! (Part 1): How one life-altering discovery almost destroyed what we worked so hard to rebuild

Send a text [https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2281327/open_sms]  December 2nd(or 1st), 1989—a day etched in memory, not just for us, but now for all who tune in. We are recording this episode on our 35th anniversary of when we knew we liked each other, lol! Our marriage story isn't just about love—it's about resilience and growth in the face of challenges and the path toward rebuilding trust. Overcoming obstacles has been central to our journey, and we continue to build stronger. In this episode Lyndan receives a Facebook message that would forever change not only his life, but our whole family! Its a girl! Listen as we walk you through the pain and recovery of this surprise and how something that could have torn us apart made us stronger! Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2281327/support] Remixyourmarriage@gmail.com

EP14 - If only SHE knew: Things a Husband wishes his wife knew about him. His thoughts, emotions and insecurities.

Send a text [https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2281327/open_sms] On this episode of "Remix Your Marriage", we reflect on key moments that have shaped our understanding of marital expectations and intimacy. Influential conversations, like one with Bec Smith, that taught us that consistency and full commitment are essential in both personal and professional realms. These lessons, interwoven with our candid insights into the intimate dynamics of marriage, underscore the importance of being open and understanding with your partner. By moving from blame and unmet expectations to shared responsibilities, we’ve found ways to rebuild our relationship on the foundations of mutual respect and Love. We also discuss the often complex themes of sex, guilt, and communication within marriage, drawing upon personal anecdotes to illustrate our evolution from obligation to genuine connection. Exploring the intricacies of love languages, we discuss how understanding and committing to acts of care can nurture a positive cycle of support. Through our personal narratives, we address the challenges of rebuilding trust after the affair, emphasizing the power of effective communication and emotional affirmation in strengthening relationships. Join us as we highlight the transformative impact of thoughtful gestures and the nuances of desire and intimacy in fostering a resilient and happy marriage. Help us grow by Becoming a supporter of the show! Click here :) [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2281327/support] Please leave us a 5 star rating and review!! It helps us keep going. Follow us on Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/remixyourmarriagepod/]and Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/remixyourmarriage] Ask questions, leave comments or you can just lurk!  Love you guys! Thank you for listening!! Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2281327/support] Remixyourmarriage@gmail.com

EP13 - If only He knew: Things you wish your husband understood about you. Husbands listen, trust me!

Send a text [https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2281327/open_sms] Today we talk about Gary Smalley's "If Only He Knew" the book that helped save our marriage! In this episode we uncover how this book reshaped Lyndan's perspective on his wife and women, emphasizing the importance of understanding and respecting gender differences. Hear about a desperate husband who followed Gary's unconventional advice and saw his marriage flourish. Learn why proactive learning about each other’s needs, even before marriage, is key to fostering deeper connections and understanding. Our journey takes a heartfelt turn as we share how faith and new experiences brought hope back into our lives. Discover how friendships with Julianne and Derek positively influenced our family and how a visit to Mosaic Church in Hollywood became a pivotal moment for us. We also delve into the dynamics of spontaneity and compassion in marriage, discussing the importance of empathy, especially around PMS, and how open communication has strengthened our bond. Tune in to be inspired by our story of mutual respect, spontaneity, and the transformative power of understanding in relationships. We have no affiliation with this book but we highly recommend! Click here.  IF ONLY HE KNEW by Gary Smalley [https://www.amazon.com/If-Only-He-Knew-Understanding/dp/0310328381] Find us on Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/remixyourmarriagepod/] and Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/remixyourmarriage] Please leave us a 5 star rating and a review! It really helps us to continue sharing our story with you and your spouse! Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2281327/support] Remixyourmarriage@gmail.com

EP12 - How to Fight the right way: Words can do long lasting damage. What we do, what we avoid, oh, and make up Sex!

Send a text [https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2281327/open_sms] Have you ever found yourself in the middle of an argument, wondering if there's a better way to communicate? Tune into this episode of Remix Your Marriage, where we share our personal journey. This episode promises to provide you with tools to handle disagreements more effectively, focusing on communication, forgiveness, and growth as the cornerstones of a stronger, healthier marriage. Our journey from a challenging time to a place of deeper understanding and love offers hope and practical advice for any couple facing similar trials. Words can build bridges or burn them down, and understanding their power is crucial in any relationship. Lastly, we tackle the often-overlooked nuances of effective communication in relationships. We'll explore why using absolutes like "always" and "never" can escalate conflicts and how shifting the focus from blame to personal feelings can make a world of difference. Through our own stories, we illustrate the importance of choosing battles wisely and appreciating the small acts of love that strengthen our bond. Join us as we unpack these essential communication strategies, aiming to help you and your partner understand each other's needs and intentions better. Please leave us a 5 star review and a comment. We appreciate it! Follow us on Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/remixyourmarriagepod/] and Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/remixyourmarriage] Dm us any questions. Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2281327/support] Remixyourmarriage@gmail.com