Sex, Love & Everything In Between

“There’s a reason brotherhood feels confronting: it won’t let you stay the same.” This one’s for the men who are tired of playing a role. And for the women who are tired of watching them pretend. In today’s episode, I sat down with my brother, Nick Warner, a father, men’s facilitator, and one of the most grounded, embodied leaders I know. We get into the shadow side of men’s work, the trap of emotional dumping, the chaos of Neo-Tantra, and the slow, sacred work of actually becoming trustworthy. We talk about fatherhood as initiation, the pressure to perform polarity, and why true devotion has nothing to prove. This isn’t about masculine aesthetic. This is about leadership, when no one’s watching. 🔥 Here’s What We Dive Into: * The illusion of freedom in “uncommitted” masculine identity * Why polyamory & open relating often mask intimacy wounds * The knight vs. king archetypes — and how men get stuck performing * Spiritual bypassing in men’s work and Neo-Tantra spaces * The line between sacred vulnerability vs. emotional collapse * What real devotion looks like in fatherhood and marriage * How brotherhood humbles and forges the masculine path * The question that ends the performance: Who do you serve? 🔥 Love this episode?  Don't forget to subscribe and share your thoughts in a review. We love hearing from our listeners! 🔥 Let's stay connected: Follow Meg: @the.meg.o Follow Jacob: @thejacoboneill Follow the podcast: @sexloveandeverythinginbetween 🔥 Want more? ⚡ Grab our relationship freebie: https://meg-oneill.com/relationship-freebie [https://meg-oneill.com/relationship-freebie] ⚡ Join EMBODIED FEMININE LEADERSHIP: https://meg-oneill.com/embodied-feminine-leadership [https://meg-oneill.com/embodied-feminine-leadership] ⚡ Join DESIRE DATE: https://meg-oneill.com/desire-date [https://meg-oneill.com/desire-date] Ready to dive deeper?  We work with individuals and couples - slide into our DMs to learn more!

“If we don’t define roles with love, we inherit them with resentment.” We got fired up by a viral reel floating around online recently… A young man was proudly sharing how he wants to “provide” for his woman—so she can spend her days going on “hot girl walks” and avoid life’s challenges. Sweet, right? Kind of… Because in the same breath, he spoke about how men desire a woman who is “relaxed” and “calm” at the end of the day. Aka: “I’ll provide for you… as long as you behave.” “I’ll give you a comfortable life… as long as you make mine easy.” That’s not real provision. That’s control disguised as care. That’s conditional love dressed up as devotion. So yeah… we had a LOT to say. And we recorded a whole episode unpacking it. 🔥 Here’s What We Dive Into: *  Why that viral reel about “providing for a woman” sparked something in us * Self-serving provision vs. provision rooted in devotion & love * When providership can be used to control a woman * The difference between financial provision & emotional provision * What a deep woman is truly yearning for * How we personally navigate gender roles in our relationship * And so much more. This one’s big. Let’s go there.   🔥 Love this episode?  Don't forget to subscribe and share your thoughts in a review. We love hearing from our listeners! 🔥 Let's stay connected: Follow Meg: @the.meg.o Follow Jacob: @thejacoboneill Follow the podcast: @sexloveandeverythinginbetween 🔥 Want more? ⚡ Grab our relationship freebie: https://meg-oneill.com/relationship-freebie [https://meg-oneill.com/relationship-freebie] ⚡ Join CLAIMED: https://meg-oneill.com/claimed-immersion [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbC1HU0JLNVF5ZlZUbHhLc3MwWC1MdGRaUkZPZ3xBQ3Jtc0trZWNwaGRyc0lmSjFkOHRIME5XZ09hY3N6cDFVR2RkSGdiSm9XWlZBdVRxYUxTaVJlRU92T2h6a3RqekhZU3kxeUJGbTM4SUxFbXk1bHlRUDc1VDROYVBaU1Y0MWJ2SUUzUUVCSjNkYlJacTNEVl9lVQ&q=https%3A%2F%2Fmeg-oneill.com%2Fclaimed-immersion&v=E3ZfC64fptA] ⚡ Join DESIRE DATE: https://meg-oneill.com/desire-date [https://meg-oneill.com/desire-date] Ready to dive deeper?  We work with individuals and couples - slide into our DMs to learn more!

“Without lineage, a man becomes a wanderer in his own body.” This one’s a rite of passage in itself. Jacob sits down with Kale Kaalehaki, cultural revivalist, father, and co-founder of Sacred Souls, to speak on what most modern men are missing, not breathwork, not biohacks, not six-packs… but belonging. Together, they unpack why grief is the doorway to manhood, how routine without reverence keeps us hollow, and what it truly means to return to land, lineage, and life as sacred. This one’s for the men who’ve trained, regulated, achieved, and still feel hollow. This one’s for the ones ready to come back to land, to ritual, to story, to fire. To what was never supposed to be forgotten. If you’ve ever felt like your nervous system was regulated but your soul still felt lost, this conversation is the fire you didn’t know you needed. 🔥 Here’s What We Dive Into: * Why the “self-made man” is a myth rooted in disconnection * The spiritual condition of modernity, and why most men are culturally orphaned * The difference between initiation and rite of passage (and why both matter) * How routine without ritual leaves men spiritually starving * Parenting, grief, and the unexpected initiations of fatherhood * Sacred reciprocity: reclaiming relationship with land, air, and water * Why nervous system work isn’t enough without soul confrontation * The return to songs, stories, offerings—and building true belonging 🔥 Love this episode?  Don't forget to subscribe and share your thoughts in a review. We love hearing from our listeners! 🔥 Let's stay connected: Follow Meg: @the.meg.o Follow Jacob: @thejacoboneill Follow the podcast: @sexloveandeverythinginbetween 🔥 Want more? ⚡ Grab our relationship freebie: https://meg-oneill.com/relationship-freebie [https://meg-oneill.com/relationship-freebie] ⚡ Join CLAIMED: https://meg-oneill.com/claimed-immersion [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbC1HU0JLNVF5ZlZUbHhLc3MwWC1MdGRaUkZPZ3xBQ3Jtc0trZWNwaGRyc0lmSjFkOHRIME5XZ09hY3N6cDFVR2RkSGdiSm9XWlZBdVRxYUxTaVJlRU92T2h6a3RqekhZU3kxeUJGbTM4SUxFbXk1bHlRUDc1VDROYVBaU1Y0MWJ2SUUzUUVCSjNkYlJacTNEVl9lVQ&q=https%3A%2F%2Fmeg-oneill.com%2Fclaimed-immersion&v=E3ZfC64fptA] ⚡ Join DESIRE DATE: https://meg-oneill.com/desire-date [https://meg-oneill.com/desire-date] ⚡ Join Full Spectrum Woman LIVE: https://meg-oneill.com/fsw-live [https://meg-oneill.com/fsw-live] Ready to dive deeper?  We work with individuals and couples - slide into our DMs to learn more!

“When a woman starts performing in her relationship, she stops being seen.” Every word in this episode is a mirror for the woman who quietly wonders, “Do I still matter?” Meg & Jacob crack open part two of one of their most tender, triggering, and transformational convos yet what it means for a woman to want to matter, deeply, not just in her business or family but in her relationship. We’re diving into the difference between being needed vs. being chosen, why female significance is not the same as attention-seeking, and how the fear of being too much makes women shrink their wildest longings. You’ll hear the real-time reflections from their own partnership, including the raw moment Meg almost gave up, and how they found each other again not in roles, but in real presence. If you’ve ever felt unseen, under-chosen, or like you have to “earn” your seat in love… this one is going to go straight to your heart. 🔥 Here’s What We Dive Into: * The difference between being significant and being useful * Why female longing is sacred—not dramatic or needy * The silent heartbreak of becoming "just the mom" in a relationship * Jacob’s reflection on what most men miss when their woman starts to pull away * How to feel chosen again without begging for attention * Why a man’s leadership must include emotional devotion * What it actually means to see, hold, and re-choose your woman daily 🔥 Love this episode?  Don't forget to subscribe and share your thoughts in a review. We love hearing from our listeners! 🔥 Let's stay connected: Follow Meg: @the.meg.o Follow Jacob: @thejacoboneill Follow the podcast: @sexloveandeverythinginbetween 🔥 Want more? ⚡ Grab our relationship freebie: https://meg-oneill.com/relationship-freebie [https://meg-oneill.com/relationship-freebie] ⚡ Join CLAIMED: https://meg-oneill.com/claimed-immersion [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbC1HU0JLNVF5ZlZUbHhLc3MwWC1MdGRaUkZPZ3xBQ3Jtc0trZWNwaGRyc0lmSjFkOHRIME5XZ09hY3N6cDFVR2RkSGdiSm9XWlZBdVRxYUxTaVJlRU92T2h6a3RqekhZU3kxeUJGbTM4SUxFbXk1bHlRUDc1VDROYVBaU1Y0MWJ2SUUzUUVCSjNkYlJacTNEVl9lVQ&q=https%3A%2F%2Fmeg-oneill.com%2Fclaimed-immersion&v=E3ZfC64fptA] ⚡ Join DESIRE DATE: https://meg-oneill.com/desire-date [https://meg-oneill.com/desire-date] ⚡ Join Full Spectrum Woman LIVE: https://meg-oneill.com/fsw-live [https://meg-oneill.com/fsw-live] Ready to dive deeper?  We work with individuals and couples - slide into our DMs to learn more!

“The superwoman archetype is killing us. We rise when we let ourselves be supported.” This one’s a rewire for every ambitious mama out there. In this powerful episode, Meg is joined by the radiant Cait Scudder, leadership mentor, mother of three, and creator of The Millionaire Mother brand, for a truth-packed convo on what it really takes to lead in business while raising kids without burning out or betraying yourself. They go deep into the unseen mental load mothers carry, the nervous system capacity required to lead, and why we need to stop pretending we’re doing this alone. Kate shares her story of rebranding her entire business after her second baby, building home systems that actually work, and what it looks like to embody the matriarch archetype. 🔥 Here's what we dive into: * Why you don’t have to choose between your babies and your business * Releasing the "superwoman" myth and rewriting what success looks like * Masculine vs. feminine energy in motherhood + business * Why nervous system bandwidth is the foundation for sustainable leadership * The mindset shift from “good girl” to matriarch * Home SOPs, rhythms, and the sacred structure behind her success * Why receiving support is the most powerful gift you can model for your kids If you’ve ever felt like you had to do it all to be a good mom, this episode is your permission slip to do it differently. 🔥 Connect with Cait Scudder: Instagram: @themillionairemother TAKE THE QUIZ HERE >>> https://meg-oneill.com/quiz [https://meg-oneill.com/quiz] 🔥 Love this episode?  Don't forget to subscribe and share your thoughts in a review. We love hearing from our listeners! 🔥 Let's stay connected: Follow Meg: @the.meg.o Follow Jacob: @thejacoboneill Follow the podcast: @sexloveandeverythinginbetween 🔥 Want more? ⚡ Grab our relationship freebie: https://meg-oneill.com/relationship-freebie [https://meg-oneill.com/relationship-freebie] ⚡ Join CLAIMED: https://meg-oneill.com/claimed-immersion [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbC1HU0JLNVF5ZlZUbHhLc3MwWC1MdGRaUkZPZ3xBQ3Jtc0trZWNwaGRyc0lmSjFkOHRIME5XZ09hY3N6cDFVR2RkSGdiSm9XWlZBdVRxYUxTaVJlRU92T2h6a3RqekhZU3kxeUJGbTM4SUxFbXk1bHlRUDc1VDROYVBaU1Y0MWJ2SUUzUUVCSjNkYlJacTNEVl9lVQ&q=https%3A%2F%2Fmeg-oneill.com%2Fclaimed-immersion&v=E3ZfC64fptA] ⚡ Join DESIRE DATE: https://meg-oneill.com/desire-date [https://meg-oneill.com/desire-date] ⚡ Join Full Spectrum Woman LIVE: https://meg-oneill.com/fsw-live [https://meg-oneill.com/fsw-live] Ready to dive deeper?  We work with individuals and couples - slide into our DMs to learn more!